Obviously there’s a line between someone you just became friends with or aren’t that close and someone you’ve been friends with a very long time or super close with.
I used to say “I love you” to my best friend who I had known for a few years but I don’t talk with her anymore. We just grew apart, but that was probably the closest I’ve ever got to someone. This was strictly online, though, as we never met in real life. However, she had initiated the “I love you” after about two years of friendship.
I’ve noticed I’ve gotten more comfortable with saying it to my real life friends in a platonic way. It’s more something I feel rather than saying it to them, though. I know it’s perfectly normal to say this phrase to your best friend or close friends, but I know this phrase can make some people uncomfortable or can be misinterpreted in a non-platonic way. That’s why I’d always throw in a “you’re like my best friend, I love you” or something.
Do you tell your best friends/close friends or even friends that you love them? Is it normal for you or do you reserve it for only your very close friends? I have a platonic love for all of my friends but I don’t usually say it unless we are super close or you’re my best friend.
I used to say “I love you” to my best friend who I had known for a few years but I don’t talk with her anymore. We just grew apart, but that was probably the closest I’ve ever got to someone. This was strictly online, though, as we never met in real life. However, she had initiated the “I love you” after about two years of friendship.
I’ve noticed I’ve gotten more comfortable with saying it to my real life friends in a platonic way. It’s more something I feel rather than saying it to them, though. I know it’s perfectly normal to say this phrase to your best friend or close friends, but I know this phrase can make some people uncomfortable or can be misinterpreted in a non-platonic way. That’s why I’d always throw in a “you’re like my best friend, I love you” or something.
Do you tell your best friends/close friends or even friends that you love them? Is it normal for you or do you reserve it for only your very close friends? I have a platonic love for all of my friends but I don’t usually say it unless we are super close or you’re my best friend.