xSuperMario64x
love of my life 💙💜
just came here to say that, yes, today has been a really amazing day and I couldn't be happier. 


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edit: not enough words hehehe
as mentioned above, today marks the one year anniversary when our relationship started. Shell has always been so kind and patient with me, even long before we started having feelings for each other. he's always been a really wonderful friend, and now he's an amazing partner as well hehe. 

sharing my life with him, I've learned so many valuable lessons and I feel that I've really grown as a person. I've learned to be more patient and mindful; I've learned the value of setting and respecting boundaries; I've learned that having open communication, and listening to understand without becoming reactive or defensive, is crucial for success; I've learned a lot about who he truly is as a person (and love him more for it). but perhaps most importantly, through having a happy and healthy relationship, I've been able to work through my own personal issues and I've come to understand that I deserve someone who will always love me unconditionally, as well as breaking the cycle of toxic behaviour within my own family.
my hypervigilance was almost the end for us, but through Shell's seemingly infinite patience and understanding, I learned that I have to let go of that hypervigilance and allow myself to be vulnerable in order to really let our relationship bloom. and that it has; I'm so appreciative to have someone whom I can feel totally vulnerable and safe with.
he has been a great role model for me, and I couldn't thank him enough for that. he and I have learned a lot from each other, and we've been growing together, and I think that's so lovely. relationships are already so difficult to maintain, and being long distance (as well as other complications) makes it even more difficult. but we've gotten through it all, and we've come out of our struggles appreciating each other even more. through all the ups and downs, I wouldn't want it any other way.
happy anniversary to my dearly beloved @/Shellzilla_515, thank you for being such an amazing person. I will always love you!

sharing my life with him, I've learned so many valuable lessons and I feel that I've really grown as a person. I've learned to be more patient and mindful; I've learned the value of setting and respecting boundaries; I've learned that having open communication, and listening to understand without becoming reactive or defensive, is crucial for success; I've learned a lot about who he truly is as a person (and love him more for it). but perhaps most importantly, through having a happy and healthy relationship, I've been able to work through my own personal issues and I've come to understand that I deserve someone who will always love me unconditionally, as well as breaking the cycle of toxic behaviour within my own family.
my hypervigilance was almost the end for us, but through Shell's seemingly infinite patience and understanding, I learned that I have to let go of that hypervigilance and allow myself to be vulnerable in order to really let our relationship bloom. and that it has; I'm so appreciative to have someone whom I can feel totally vulnerable and safe with.
he has been a great role model for me, and I couldn't thank him enough for that. he and I have learned a lot from each other, and we've been growing together, and I think that's so lovely. relationships are already so difficult to maintain, and being long distance (as well as other complications) makes it even more difficult. but we've gotten through it all, and we've come out of our struggles appreciating each other even more. through all the ups and downs, I wouldn't want it any other way.
happy anniversary to my dearly beloved @/Shellzilla_515, thank you for being such an amazing person. I will always love you!
edit: not enough words hehehe
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