Is Not Wanting To Date Transpeople Transphobic?

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Mango said:
the way you phrased that is transphobic, a trans man always has been a man. he was never a woman. referring to them as their birth gender is transphobic.

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i see a lot of people here like "i'd prefer not to date someone with lady parts/male parts" and honestly? if you're just dating someone to bang them that's weird

however i'm a trans person hi and if you aren't going to date someone because they're trans that's kinda transphobic, however we all have preferences (i don't like cis men and most cis women) and i don't really? know why you wouldn't date a trans person? if you're only dating someone based on their sex that's ??? because most trans women aren't gonna want to penetrate you or anything, and most trans men feel uncomfortable having sex but

tldr, no, it's not really transphobic, but it's something you should maybe get over? trans people probably dont wanna date your gross cis ass anyway

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yeah but you're treating us as if we're a different species or something. 'sexual attraction to trans people' sounds ****ing weird
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No im not lmao you think it's weird everyone has their preferences it's like a man not wanting to date a man therefore why would a man want to date a trans women? lmaooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
 
Mango said:
the way you phrased that is transphobic, a trans man always has been a man. he was never a woman. referring to them as their birth gender is transphobic.

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i see a lot of people here like "i'd prefer not to date someone with lady parts/male parts" and honestly? if you're just dating someone to bang them that's weird

however i'm a trans person hi and if you aren't going to date someone because they're trans that's kinda transphobic, however we all have preferences (i don't like cis men and most cis women) and i don't really? know why you wouldn't date a trans person? if you're only dating someone based on their sex that's ??? because most trans women aren't gonna want to penetrate you or anything, and most trans men feel uncomfortable having sex but

tldr, no, it's not really transphobic, but it's something you should maybe get over? trans people probably dont wanna date your gross cis ass anyway

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yeah but you're treating us as if we're a different species or something. 'sexual attraction to trans people' sounds ****ing weird
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First of all I think you need to chill and second, a transman was biologically a woman at one point and vica versa. That's just fact sorry to break it to you.
You literally say you DONT LIKE cis men and women but yet a cis man/woman not being attracted to a transperson is transphobic ummmm okay
but yeah you can't really speak for all couples and say sex isn't a super big part of a lot of peoples relationship sorry to break it to you
 
Fantasyrick said:
No im not lmao you think it's weird everyone has their preferences it's like a man not wanting to date a man therefore why would a man want to date a trans women? lmaooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
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because if youre a straight man and youre attracted to woman you would date a woman? trans women are women
 
Mango is the same person who got the "Cisphobia" thread closed. Don't feed the troll, please. Ignore them and they'll go away.
 
Mango said:
oh my god??? if you're dating someone, trans or not, and your first thought is "do you have a vagina or ****? im gonna have biological kids when im older and we're still gonna be together so it's important" THATS CREEPY AS HELL
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It's the "older" line that really illuminates the position where you're coming from, completely ignoring the older people who date with the intention of having kids at some point.

Mango said:
ive said this so many times but : if youre dating someone just for sex thats creepy as hell? and trans men probably dont wanna date your gross transphobic ass
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...You clearly haven't heard of "friends with benefits", I take it? Casually dating without the intention of having a long-term relationship? This just in: Dating people just for sex and fun is very common these days.
 
gem83 said:
Mango is the same person who got the "Cisphobia" thread closed. Don't feed the troll, please. Ignore them and they'll go away.
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He's not feeding the troll, they're just frustrated.

Just everybody calm down, this thread is going to get closed.

Mango, don't reply to any anymore. I see you're frustrated, but you don't need to be a jerk to people back. Even if you feel like they're wrong, people are just going to be people.
 
Mango said:
lmao no, i'm a boy, my skeleton will be a boy because i'm a boy. you're transphobic pal!
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You are assuming and you know what you are doing when you do that right? When it comes to dating someone, I'm looking for personality above anything else. If I'm dating someone and I suddenly find out that they are trans because they feel comfortable sharing such knowledge, I would never ever dump someone over that reason. True love is unconditional and anyone who dumps/divorces someone over irrational reasons does not know what love actually is (cheating and a few other things are justifiable grounds to divorce/dump).
 
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I don't think it's transphobic at all. Everyone has preferences, and whenever you start a serious relationship you have to consider the fact that you could end up marrying the person you're with one day. It wouldn't be fair for either person to get that far in a relationship, if they weren't attracted to each other or the idea of one day having intimate relations with them. That kind of relationship would be damaging to both people and it would just end badly. It's like saying a straight person is homophobic for not wanting to date a person of the same sex, or saying a gay man is sexist for not wanting to date a woman. It's a preference.
 
oath2order said:
It's the "older" line that really illuminates the position where you're coming from, completely ignoring the older people who date with the intention of having kids at some point.



...You clearly haven't heard of "friends with benefits", I take it? Casually dating without the intention of having a long-term relationship? This just in: Dating people just for sex and fun is very common these days.
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if you intend on having kids at some point you don't have to make it obvious to the trans person that you're never gonna be able to have kids because they dont have the proper sex to is really rude

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Mango said:
if you intend on having kids at some point you don't have to make it obvious to the trans person that you're never gonna be able to have kids because they dont have the proper sex to is really rude

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Maybe it's just the way I see things, idk, I just like to be upfront about things. Like, if you were older, it would probably be brought up early on in the relationship
 
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