Is Not Wanting To Date Transpeople Transphobic?

[RhinoK]

Tbh I'm quite surprised no one has said 'yes' yet?
I don't think it's transphobic at all and personally I wouldn't date a trans man pre-op mainly because of the sexual side and im gay so it's a bit incompatible

Elsewhere, nearly everyone else says it transphobic.

It's called having a preference.

not the preference talk all over again

 

[Izzy Reincarnated]

Lol, whut is that

 

[Tao]

No, it's preference.

No. But I feel like it would be different if you WERE dating someone transgender and didn't know until later in the relationship and then broke up with them because of it? Idk

What if the other person wanted somebody they could potentially reproduce with "the good old fashioned way"?

 

[radical6]

I mean, if you weren't going to have sex (like underaged couples, ldr)I don't see why you would care. Especially those who transisiton.

There a lot more ways to have sex than using a **** and a vagina, imo. Dildos, whatever. Be creative. One reason I get is when people are traumatized from **** coz of rape tho.

But like, romantically speaking? I see no reason why not. Especially if you couldn't tell they were trans before. Sexually, I understand, but still.

Sex isn't a big deal to me at all tbh, so I wouldn't really care. Idk how its a dealbreaker for some people but whatever people have their kinks

 

[boujee]

probably not
well idk, I can't really predict who I'll love in the future so my mind is pretty open
I am sexually attracted to the female sex though but who KNOWS
I just want someone who will make me laugh lol

 

[ToxiFoxy]

"I don't want to date someone really tall"

"HEIGHTPHOBIC!!!1!11"

Omg I am dying right now XD

 

[pillow bunny]

yes and if you don't date me ur pillowbunnyphobic and should kill yourself uwu

 

[Hopeless Opus]

No, not at all.

 

[skarmoury]

Obviously not! o:
It's called preference. If you hate on trans people, that's transphobia.

If you don't want to date trans people because they aren't your type, then that's fine, it's a matter of like/dislike and everyone experiences that. However, once you start judging them i.e. saying bad things about them, it's being transphobic.

 

[Loriii]

"I don't want to date someone really tall"

"HEIGHTPHOBIC!!!1!11"

This was the funniest thing I've read today LOLOL

And like what people said, you're just not attracted to trans or they aren't your preference. Not really having a phobia with them.

 

[inkling]

No I mean some people won't date messy people or people of the same sex or opposite sex. You know...sexual preference.

 

[Bowie]

No.

 

[Aali]

I wouldn't want to, but I don't hate trans people, I used to be friends with one but we kinda drifted.

So, no.

 

[CuriousCharli]

If you showed hate to them THAT'S transphobic. You just don't wanna date them.

 

[Cazqui]

No.

 

[HopeForHyrule]

I'd have to say no. Transphobia would be you hating them. As others have said, it really boils down to sexual preference. I wouldn't wanna date a dude who used to be a broad, which would be my sexual preference.

 

[Shimmer]

I don't think so. I prefer not to date black people but that doesn't make me hate black people. Same thing goes with trans although with trans it becomes more complicated if they still have their original sexual organs. That is, if their partner is straight.

I wouldn't date a trans person though. I'm sorry.

 

[visibleghost]

yes it's transphobic af???

obviously you can't force anyone to date a trans person but i mean... if literally the only reason that you do not want to date them is thst they're trans then you're really transphobic.

like you know it's kind of like how some people don't want to date black people and stuff?? yeah they're racist!! and people who don't want to date trans people because they're trans are transphobic!!!! wow

 

[Mariah]

I don't think so. I prefer not to date black people but that doesn't make me hate black people.

Yeah, it makes you a racist.

 

[radical6]

This thread is kind of depressing once you realize that most people think you're a repulsive sex freak and will never date you unless they're trans/gay themself.

- - - Post Merge - - -

Yeah, it makes you a racist.

it amazes me people dont realize like..black people come in many skintones. so do asians. and whites. and they all look different. idk how you cant be attracted to one race without knowing what the individual looks like first