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Do you have or want to have kids?

Do you have or want to have kids?

  • I have kids

    Votes: 11 6.7%
  • I'd like to have kids at some point

    Votes: 73 44.8%
  • I'm not interested in having kids

    Votes: 79 48.5%

  • Total voters
    163
With all of the stuff going on in the world, I think it would be best for me to not have any for the time being.
 
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nope, nope nope nope nope nope. never. ever at all. i like kids, dont get me wrong, they are hilarious and super fun. i, personally, do not have the personality needed for taking care of kids. and i value my money way, way, WAY too much. i'm very greedy and i'm insanely irresponsible so i'd be a really terrible parent.

i would though have no problems with being an aunt. together with my partner we'd be the DINKs who unleash the gift apocalypse at christmas.
 
Nope. I don't have any interest in parenthood, and I definitely don't want to go through pregnancy or childbirth ever. I don't dislike kids or anything, but I feel kind of awkward around them, and I'm never exactly sure how I'm supposed to deal with them. I'm also rather squeamish with a weak stomach, so I really don't think I'd do well around young children. ;; I can barely handle it when a pet leaves a "surprise" somewhere.
 
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Do I have kids? No. Do I want kids? Absolutely. I'm not in a relationship so it's not happening anytime soon, but I would love to have two biological kids (ideally 1 boy, 1 girl) sometime in the future.
 
i don’t have kids, nor do i want them. my mom’s still holding out hope that i’ll change my mind one day, but i don’t really see that happening, at least not for several years. i don’t know, i’ve had several dreams about me being pregnant and giving birth (but i always wake up right before labour ends. i never get to meet my daughter or son. and my stomach always hurts when i wake up), but that’s it. idk, i always feel this sort of... longing whenever i see mothers with their babies or still pregnant, but i can never imagine that being me. i can never see myself ever being selfless or responsible or stable enough to ever become a mother. i can’t imagine being responsible for someone in a way that a mother has to be for her kids; i can barely take care of myself.

who knows, maybe one day things’ll be different and my mother’ll be right; i’ll have met someone who i wanted to start a family with, and i’d be in a place in life where i actually think i could. present me can’t imagine that at all, but maybe future me will have better luck. 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
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