Watchingthetreetops
*~Rude intolerance here~*
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I'm 21 and I don't have kids and that does not define me. I'm really frustrated right now because I got chewed out by someone. I don't really talk about my problems to people, but I've been particularly sleepy today and a co worker asked about it. Then, (rather rudely), she stated: you've been staying up too late reading books. She went on to say: I just don't understand how you can be so tired, you don't have kids, you live alone.
I told her I have insomnia, to which she answered: I'm sure you do. It's hard to really state how it sounded, but it wasn't....it wasn't as calm as it sounds. It was more like: 'You're probably lying, so I'm going to agree with you sarcastically.' So I told her not to belittle other people's problems. I didn't say anything else to her. But I'm still reeling over this. I get it, having kids DOES require A LOT of responsibility. But that doesn't define you. Irresponsible people have kids, literally, every day. Just because I don't have kids doesn't mean I don't have responsibilities, though. It doesn't make me a child. It doesn't mean I don't have anything to worry about. It just means that my lifestyle is different. And I don't need some prissy, (and married), woman who flirts with all the men at work to talk down to me because I don't live my life the way she lives hers. It doesn't make me IRRESPONSIBLE FOR NOT HAVING KIDS.
Ug.
So how are you guys?
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I'm 21 and I don't have kids and that does not define me. I'm really frustrated right now because I got chewed out by someone. I don't really talk about my problems to people, but I've been particularly sleepy today and a co worker asked about it. Then, (rather rudely), she stated: you've been staying up too late reading books. She went on to say: I just don't understand how you can be so tired, you don't have kids, you live alone.
I told her I have insomnia, to which she answered: I'm sure you do. It's hard to really state how it sounded, but it wasn't....it wasn't as calm as it sounds. It was more like: 'You're probably lying, so I'm going to agree with you sarcastically.' So I told her not to belittle other people's problems. I didn't say anything else to her. But I'm still reeling over this. I get it, having kids DOES require A LOT of responsibility. But that doesn't define you. Irresponsible people have kids, literally, every day. Just because I don't have kids doesn't mean I don't have responsibilities, though. It doesn't make me a child. It doesn't mean I don't have anything to worry about. It just means that my lifestyle is different. And I don't need some prissy, (and married), woman who flirts with all the men at work to talk down to me because I don't live my life the way she lives hers. It doesn't make me IRRESPONSIBLE FOR NOT HAVING KIDS.
Ug.
So how are you guys?
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