Your Dream Guy/Girl

Can I do both? I'm doing both. It's 4AM and I'm living on the edge.

GUY :
- has to be able to just chill out and not expect extravagant dates all the time
- masculine. at least a bit. because i like it when i can bump his cheek and feel stubble.
- can't be scared of the outdoors.
- gives good hugs (they are important)
- knows how to save money / use it wisely.
- doesn't kiss like a labrador retriever.
- can't be weird about being affectionate in public.
- is my friend, first.

GURL:
- confident. not 'haters gonna hate' confident, but real confidence- she should know her worth and what she's capable of.
- not afraid to be lazy and shuffle around the house in her pj's every so often.
- huggable.
- dress sense doesn't really matter- she doesn't have to have the latest stuff, but a good basic knowledge would be nice.
- not afraid of the outdoors.
- not weird about being affectionate in public.
- smells awesome. (same for guys)
- has something she's really, really passionate about and isn't afraid to express it or involve other people in it. (as long as it's not eating babies or something)
- isn't afraid to make a decision on her own concerning her life
- friend first, girlfriend later.

sigh~ a lot of them apply to both. like, a lot. it could be one giant list, actually.

i just really like people, okay.

I feel like a weenie now that I've said all this, and y'all are like "MONEY".
 
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Lbr. We all wanna pick them at the perf time like she did. And win the settlement for their money.

& once we pick them up, we call them Papa. & make the son (or was it grandson? Wait wtf) jealous. Right? :D

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Can I do both? I'm doing both. It's 4AM and I'm living on the edge.

GUY :
- has to be able to just chill out and not expect extravagant dates all the time
- masculine. at least a bit. because i like it when i can bump his cheek and feel stubble.
- can't be scared of the outdoors.
- gives good hugs (they are important)
- knows how to save money / use it wisely.
- doesn't kiss like a labrador retriever.
- can't be weird about being affectionate in public.
- is my friend, first.

GURL:
- confident. not 'haters gonna hate' confident, but real confidence- she should know her worth and what she's capable of.
- not afraid to be lazy and shuffle around the house in her pj's every so often.
- huggable.
- dress sense doesn't really matter- she doesn't have to have the latest stuff, but a good basic knowledge would be nice.
- not afraid of the outdoors.
- not weird about being affectionate in public.
- smells awesome. (same for guys)
- has something she's really, really passionate about and isn't afraid to express it or involve other people in it. (as long as it's not eating babies or something)
- isn't afraid to make a decision on her own concerning her life
- friend first, girlfriend later.

sigh~ a lot of them apply to both. like, a lot. it could be one giant list, actually.

i just really like people, okay.

I feel like a weenie now that I've said all this, and y'all are like "MONEY".

I LOVE IT. Well you aren't livin life unless you yolo a little, right? Lol. Perf description of both, really. I 100% agree with the pj's one for girls, because I IN MY PJ'S ALL THE TIME (except I'm not one of those girls who goes to the store in their pj's ew no).
 
no one. this is officially closed for business

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Akise Aru or Alucard my perfect Anime guys omfg //melts//


Ergh...if I ever find someone then they must be smart, have a stable and somewhat professional job, a good education, money, calm, reasonable, Asian otherwisemyparentswontevenapprove, confident (not as in yoloswagging it everyday or an attention seeker), able to put up with me, and share similar interests in gaming, Anime and real life wow hobbies.
They'd have to be very good friends with me at first otherwise I won't even recognise them...antisocial 5 lyfe
 
Makoto Tachibana or Atsushi Murasakibara

Someone intelligent.

Agreeable, naturally.

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Akise Aru or Alucard my perfect Anime guys omfg //melts//


Ergh...if I ever find someone then they must be smart, have a stable and somewhat professional job, a good education, money, calm, reasonable, Asian otherwisemyparentswontevenapprove, confident (not as in yoloswagging it everyday or an attention seeker), able to put up with me, and share similar interests in gaming, Anime and real life wow hobbies.
They'd have to be very good friends with me at first otherwise I won't even recognise them...antisocial 5 lyfe

Ur antisocial 5 lyfe 2? HIGH FIVE. I agree 100%. Can't forget that good sense of humor doe.
 
I really can't put my finger on what I want in a lover... I mean, aside from "fun and nice" (but then I look for those traits in friends, too)

And yeah, I (like most people) want someone attractive... But again, I'm not sure what it is I find attractive.


I'm kind of glad I don't have an "ideal mate", though, actually. Because I think that when you have this long list of "things I want my lover to be".. It makes it really hard to find someone who matches that description.
 
My first criteria is somebody LOYAL.
I have others (and it really comes to the feeling), but I cannot stand being with a man who will cheat on me. I cannot stress on how much this is important, I don't want to have a miserable relationship because he isn't loyal.
 
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