What's Bothering You?

So there is this person whom I've known for quite a while, and a few hours ago he DMed me on Discord to thank me for a drawing I sent him there a few days ago. I did it as a nice gesture of sorts. And then he's like "you wanna hug?" and I had to back out. I know it's virtual, but I only accept hugs from my friends, regardless of whether we're online or in person, when I feel like we're close enough.

The reason why I'm posting about this is because I was expecting him to accept my choice and move on. But after a few hours passed he spammed me a jillion times asking for a hug. ;-; Had to block him and mute our conversation after that. Thank goodness for those options. I was so caught off-guard. If he finds another way to pester me then IDK what to do. ;-;

EDIT: I've unblocked him temporarily so I could send him a message and set boundaries. I am giving him one chance since I've known him for about a few years now. If he disrespects my boundaries again, I'll have to block him permanently.
 
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Suguri said:
So there is this person whom I've known for quite a while, and a few hours ago he DMed me on Discord to thank me for a drawing I sent him there a few days ago. I did it as a nice gesture of sorts. And then he's like "you wanna hug?" and I had to back out. I know it's virtual, but I only accept hugs from my friends, regardless of whether we're online or in person, when I feel like we're close enough.

The reason why I'm posting about this is because I was expecting him to accept my choice and move on. But after a few hours passed he spammed me a jillion times asking for a hug. ;-; Had to block him and mute our conversation after that. Thank goodness for those options. I was so caught off-guard. If he finds another way to pester me then IDK what to do. ;-;
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I recently had to deal with a person messaging me and asking me which country I'm from. They started trying to narrow it down to the city and exact location.

I realized it was getting weird and I didn't even know how to respond. They found me through a social media interest page which has a rule about not messaging other users within the group without permission.

I'm sorry you had to go through that. I hope whoever that is leaves you alone.
 
Plainbluetees said:
A person I blocked on Snapchat, Instagram, iMessage, and TikTok, thinking I had covered all the bases, who I particularly did not want to hear from ever again just now resorted to sending me an email to my .edu school account...
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I’m sorry that they found a loophole on this. Could you report this person to the police for harassment?
 
Suguri said:
So there is this person whom I've known for quite a while, and a few hours ago he DMed me on Discord to thank me for a drawing I sent him there a few days ago. I did it as a nice gesture of sorts. And then he's like "you wanna hug?" and I had to back out. I know it's virtual, but I only accept hugs from my friends, regardless of whether we're online or in person, when I feel like we're close enough.

The reason why I'm posting about this is because I was expecting him to accept my choice and move on. But after a few hours passed he spammed me a jillion times asking for a hug. ;-; Had to block him and mute our conversation after that. Thank goodness for those options. I was so caught off-guard. If he finds another way to pester me then IDK what to do. ;-;

EDIT: I've unblocked him temporarily so I could send him a message and set boundaries. I am giving him one chance since I've known him for about a few years now. If he disrespects my boundaries again, I'll have to block him permanently.
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I said it already in my earlier post but I edited it in pretty late so to repeat, I unblocked him after a while so I could send him a message about me not wanting a "hug" from him. I made my position as clear as possible in case he ends up misunderstanding and goes a step too far.

Thankfully he said he forgives me. But what happened yesterday was pretty scary, so I have to keep our conversation on mute just in case.
 
Suguri said:
I said it already in my earlier post but I edited it in pretty late so to repeat, I unblocked him after a while so I could send him a message about me not wanting a "hug" from him. I made my position as clear as possible in case he ends up misunderstanding and goes a step too far.

Thankfully he said he forgives me. But what happened yesterday was pretty scary, so I have to keep our conversation on mute just in case.
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I don't mean to sound rude, and sorry if you don't want anyone to reply, but he has nothing to forgive you of. He really has no place to say "I forgive you for blocking me when I cleary made you uncomfortable". There's no need to escalate it further unless you want to, but just know that you're the one who should be forgiving him, not the other way around. The way your post comes across is that he thinks you've done something wrong and that he's this nice person who's willing to give you a second chance, but he's not. He might be a nice person, but there's no second chance needed to be given to you, only him. Again, sorry if you don't want a reply, I can delete this if you'd prefer
 
lasagne_of_death said:
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It's actually nice to hear what you think of the situation, honestly, so I don't mind. ^w^

To be fair I said "sorry" in my message because I was worried he'd do something to me if I didn't include that word, so that's why he said he forgives me. Still, I agree with your point. I did give him a second chance already by unblocking him and sending the message, so there's that at least.
 
My mom fell yesterday while she was being transferred back into her wheelchair. My dad had to call the fire department and luckily they were able to lift her off the ground and safely into her chair. Half her body is paralyzed from a stroke so trying to lift her off the ground is nearly impossible without a team. At least she didn't hurt herself in the fall, just some bruising.
 
I've been so ****ing miserable, I wonder if I'll start feeling happy again. Even though today was my day off, it was absolute **** and I've been crying nonstop. I just feel so sad and frustrated.

I tried calling the clinic to make an appointment with my family doctor since I'm due for a checkup (and to possibly get new antidepressants), but it's closed. I'll have to wait till tomorrow morning and make the call before I leave for work, if I even remember to.

I just wanna get better. I'm tired of feeling like this every day.
 
tessa grace said:
lowkey everyone at the family reunion got the stomach flu and i have it too but i haven't thrown up yet... can i just get it over with like i lit cannot miss school this week
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i threw up a billion times and ofc it was on the drive home😪 feeling kind of better though, the pain is manageable now!
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oak said:
My mom fell yesterday while she was being transferred back into her wheelchair. My dad had to call the fire department and luckily they were able to lift her off the ground and safely into her chair. Half her body is paralyzed from a stroke so trying to lift her off the ground is nearly impossible without a team. At least she didn't hurt herself in the fall, just some bruising.
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oh thats so scary! sending lots of love and prayers to your family💗
 
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