What's Bothering You?

I need to stop looking forward to my day offs and early shifts. 🫠 There's always a coworker missing or leaving early for one reason or another, and I'm the first person my manager asks for overtime/another shift because she knows I'll say yes (though reluctantly). I'm a bit worried I'll appear unreliable if I refuse, but I just want a damn break. **** this job.
 
My dad made fun of me a bit at dinner and it honestly killed my mood and my mood continues to go downhill. And he keeps doing stuff that I don’t like that I keep telling him to stop doing like telling my cats run from me. He is joking but I don’t think it is funny at all. My cats are my comfort so telling them to run from me is like saying he doesn’t want me to be happy.

I’m working on my drawing and saw part of it was colored wrong. I’m having trouble find the right layers since I have so many. idk how I got the color wrong. did i accidentally color over what I had before or something? I’m kinda upset and annoyed about this.

Edit: I made some unhid some layers that I turned off and i think the colors look right now? Idk, I’m so confused. the layers I had hid shouldn’t have affected how the colors looked 🤔
 
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My fears were confirmed. My girlfriend's decided she doesn't like keeping cats. One of them is actually hers too. :(

I do 95% of the work with them and she's still paying towards their needs, so not a bother. If she ever suggests rehoming though I'm rehoming me too. If she wants me to take her cat as well, I will. But she is not seperating me from Sebastian.
 
I'm pretty disgusted with the company that had me do that seven day training of retail and hospitality; due to the fact that I did not get n interview out of this like promised.
The training was before the interview, which the interview was last Thursday; which due to the time they decided my interview should be, I couldn't do. I told them this two days before Thursday (because for somereason they wouldn't give me details beforehand which is crazy if you want me to research the company and I can't because of how long the training each day was and the travel home), and they told me that's fine, as another girl couldn't do it either and said they will arrange something for next week which was this week.
They said they would let me know. So okay I'll wait, as you can see it's Friday, and they did not communicate with me, despite the fact the interview time they decided was afternoon.

I sent someone a message via whatsapp today stating that I did not receive anything, and they left it on read. Cool.
welp, when I have my UC meeting on Monday, I will show everything and share everything. You can't stick me on a training thing and nothing becomes of it.
I'm not mad about not getting a chance at whatever job this was, I'm mad that they lead me to believe I would get something out of this. Wasted my time, UC money wasted to travel there.
 
Giddy said:
I'm pretty disgusted with the company that had me do that seven day training of retail and hospitality; due to the fact that I did not get n interview out of this like promised.
The training was before the interview, which the interview was last Thursday; which due to the time they decided my interview should be, I couldn't do. I told them this two days before Thursday (because for somereason they wouldn't give me details beforehand which is crazy if you want me to research the company and I can't because of how long the training each day was and the travel home), and they told me that's fine, as another girl couldn't do it either and said they will arrange something for next week which was this week.
They said they would let me know. So okay I'll wait, as you can see it's Friday, and they did not communicate with me, despite the fact the interview time they decided was afternoon.

I sent someone a message via whatsapp today stating that I did not receive anything, and they left it on read. Cool.
welp, when I have my UC meeting on Monday, I will show everything and share everything. You can't stick me on a training thing and nothing becomes of it.
I'm not mad about not getting a chance at whatever job this was, I'm mad that they lead me to believe I would get something out of this. Wasted my time, UC money wasted to travel there.
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Give them a call. Phone is always better than email/text in these scenarios.

Have they paid you for the 7 days training? If not, inform UC.
 
Chris said:
Give them a call. Phone is always better than email/text in these scenarios.

Have they paid you for the 7 days training? If not, inform UC.
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This was a non paid training. UC had to give me money to travel there.
I will let them know, and I'll try and find another person's number as I rather not verbally call the last person I was talking to. Thanks.
 
Chris said:
My fears were confirmed. My girlfriend's decided she doesn't like keeping cats. One of them is actually hers too. :(

I do 95% of the work with them and she's still paying towards their needs, so not a bother. If she ever suggests rehoming though I'm rehoming me too. If she wants me to take her cat as well, I will. But she is not seperating me from Sebastian.
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Follow-up to this:
She was home alone with them all day today and to be honest I was kind of worried. But she sent me a photo of them cuddled with her around noon and said how much she loved them.

She seems to get along better with them when I'm not there. When I'm home she seems to dwell on the fact they are more comfortable with me, taking that to mean they don't like her. I'm their primary caregiver and have spent significantly more time building trust with them - of course they're going to feel more comfortable with me!

Fingers-crossed this all works out. I don't want to leave, but my furry son comes first and that is non-negotiable. We are a package deal.

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I HATE HAVING TO KEEP SECRETS! I HATE IT! And when everyone keeps questioning me, I can’t... I can’t handle it! It doesn’t matter what I do—if I tell the truth, I’m attacked. If I don’t say anything, I’m attacked anyway! I just... I just want everyone to stop yelling... I can’t do this anymore.
 
My uncle and cousin are here for a week. My uncle is fine, he causes no issues and is one of the kindest men ever. My cousin, I love her, but she's so ANNOYING. It's because she....doesn't think? She leaves things out after looking for something. She leaves crumbs and dirt everywhere. She's loud and always has to be doing something. I haaaaaaate cleaning up after her because she's so oblivious to the messes she makes that she doesn't do it. I wish my uncle would just visit by himself sometimes....
 
trying not to let the big sad get to me.... i knew opening instagram was a mistake lmao i get triggered so easily & im just doing my best not to be idle because i will start thinking about stuff again . i need to distract myself
god i hate that it's the dead of night rn too, it's like the worst time for me, it's too quiet & it's so easy for the bad thoughts to be so Loud
 
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