What's Bothering You?

[Chris]

Spoiler: Sad cat stuff

My fears were confirmed. My girlfriend's decided she doesn't like keeping cats. One of them is actually hers too.

I do 95% of the work with them and she's still paying towards their needs, so not a bother. If she ever suggests rehoming though I'm rehoming me too. If she wants me to take her cat as well, I will. But she is not seperating me from Sebastian.

Follow-up to this:

Spoiler

She was home alone with them all day today and to be honest I was kind of worried. But she sent me a photo of them cuddled with her around noon and said how much she loved them.

She seems to get along better with them when I'm not there. When I'm home she seems to dwell on the fact they are more comfortable with me, taking that to mean they don't like her. I'm their primary caregiver and have spent significantly more time building trust with them - of course they're going to feel more comfortable with me!

Fingers-crossed this all works out. I don't want to leave, but my furry son comes first and that is non-negotiable. We are a package deal.

 

[Dim]

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[Snap Crackle Pop]

I really wish people would be more helpful instead of making things more difficult for others. It's not fair or right that some people get away with doing things half-heartedly when it effects how things go in the future. It is what it is but I am happy I got through the morning.

 

[VanitasFan26]

I HATE HAVING TO KEEP SECRETS! I HATE IT! And when everyone keeps questioning me, I can’t... I can’t handle it! It doesn’t matter what I do—if I tell the truth, I’m attacked. If I don’t say anything, I’m attacked anyway! I just... I just want everyone to stop yelling... I can’t do this anymore.

 

[JellyLu]

My uncle and cousin are here for a week. My uncle is fine, he causes no issues and is one of the kindest men ever. My cousin, I love her, but she's so ANNOYING. It's because she....doesn't think? She leaves things out after looking for something. She leaves crumbs and dirt everywhere. She's loud and always has to be doing something. I haaaaaaate cleaning up after her because she's so oblivious to the messes she makes that she doesn't do it. I wish my uncle would just visit by himself sometimes....

 

[skarmoury]

Spoiler: .

trying not to let the big sad get to me.... i knew opening instagram was a mistake lmao i get triggered so easily & im just doing my best not to be idle because i will start thinking about stuff again . i need to distract myself
god i hate that it's the dead of night rn too, it's like the worst time for me, it's too quiet & it's so easy for the bad thoughts to be so Loud

 

[xSuperMario64x]

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[Snap Crackle Pop]

My cat continues to miss the litter box when she uses it, and I have tried changing her litter boxes multiple times. It's very annoying.

 

[Chris]

Also my cat continues to miss the litter box when she uses it, and I have tried changing her litter boxes multiple times. It's very annoying.

Have you tried an enclosed litter box?

 

[Snap Crackle Pop]

Have you tried an enclosed litter box?

Yes she is afraid of those like won't go in at all. Like she would go in a corner and have an accident in the house instead because it scared her so much. She is slightly overweight though.

 

[Suguri]

Spoiler: aahhh!!!! ;~;

So there is this person whom I've known for quite a while, and a few hours ago he DMed me on Discord to thank me for a drawing I sent him there a few days ago. I did it as a nice gesture of sorts. And then he's like "you wanna hug?" and I had to back out. I know it's virtual, but I only accept hugs from my friends, regardless of whether we're online or in person, when I feel like we're close enough.

The reason why I'm posting about this is because I was expecting him to accept my choice and move on. But after a few hours passed he spammed me a jillion times asking for a hug. ;-; Had to block him and mute our conversation after that. Thank goodness for those options. I was so caught off-guard. If he finds another way to pester me then IDK what to do. ;-;

EDIT: I've unblocked him temporarily so I could send him a message and set boundaries. I am giving him one chance since I've known him for about a few years now. If he disrespects my boundaries again, I'll have to block him permanently.

 

[SkyKnight03]

Spoiler: aahhh!!!! ;~;

So there is this person whom I've known for quite a while, and a few hours ago he DMed me on Discord to thank me for a drawing I sent him there a few days ago. I did it as a nice gesture of sorts. And then he's like "you wanna hug?" and I had to back out. I know it's virtual, but I only accept hugs from my friends, regardless of whether we're online or in person, when I feel like we're close enough.

The reason why I'm posting about this is because I was expecting him to accept my choice and move on. But after a few hours passed he spammed me a jillion times asking for a hug. ;-; Had to block him and mute our conversation after that. Thank goodness for those options. I was so caught off-guard. If he finds another way to pester me then IDK what to do. ;-;

I recently had to deal with a person messaging me and asking me which country I'm from. They started trying to narrow it down to the city and exact location.

I realized it was getting weird and I didn't even know how to respond. They found me through a social media interest page which has a rule about not messaging other users within the group without permission.

I'm sorry you had to go through that. I hope whoever that is leaves you alone.

 

[ShadowLelouch97]

A month after my favorite Holomyth v-tuber, Watson Amelia retired, I just learned my favorite member from HoloCouncil, Ceres Fauna is graduating!!!! Genuinely, what the heck is going on behind the scenes?

 

[Plainbluetees]

A person I blocked on Snapchat, Instagram, iMessage, and TikTok, thinking I had covered all the bases, who I particularly did not want to hear from ever again just now resorted to sending me an email to my .edu school account...

 

[Alolan_Apples]

A person I blocked on Snapchat, Instagram, iMessage, and TikTok, thinking I had covered all the bases, who I particularly did not want to hear from ever again just now resorted to sending me an email to my .edu school account...

I’m sorry that they found a loophole on this. Could you report this person to the police for harassment?

 

[VanitasFan26]

I just wanted peace. I just wanted a safe place to live. I thought… I thought if I got out of here, everything would be better. But no. I can’t even trust the landlord. It’s like I can’t trust anything anymore.

 

[xSuperMario64x]

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[lasagne_of_death]

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[Suguri]

Spoiler: aahhh!!!! ;~;

So there is this person whom I've known for quite a while, and a few hours ago he DMed me on Discord to thank me for a drawing I sent him there a few days ago. I did it as a nice gesture of sorts. And then he's like "you wanna hug?" and I had to back out. I know it's virtual, but I only accept hugs from my friends, regardless of whether we're online or in person, when I feel like we're close enough.

The reason why I'm posting about this is because I was expecting him to accept my choice and move on. But after a few hours passed he spammed me a jillion times asking for a hug. ;-; Had to block him and mute our conversation after that. Thank goodness for those options. I was so caught off-guard. If he finds another way to pester me then IDK what to do. ;-;

EDIT: I've unblocked him temporarily so I could send him a message and set boundaries. I am giving him one chance since I've known him for about a few years now. If he disrespects my boundaries again, I'll have to block him permanently.

Spoiler: happy ending? (for now)

I said it already in my earlier post but I edited it in pretty late so to repeat, I unblocked him after a while so I could send him a message about me not wanting a "hug" from him. I made my position as clear as possible in case he ends up misunderstanding and goes a step too far.

Thankfully he said he forgives me. But what happened yesterday was pretty scary, so I have to keep our conversation on mute just in case.

 

[lasagne_of_death]

Spoiler: happy ending? (for now)

I said it already in my earlier post but I edited it in pretty late so to repeat, I unblocked him after a while so I could send him a message about me not wanting a "hug" from him. I made my position as clear as possible in case he ends up misunderstanding and goes a step too far.

Thankfully he said he forgives me. But what happened yesterday was pretty scary, so I have to keep our conversation on mute just in case.

I don't mean to sound rude, and sorry if you don't want anyone to reply, but he has nothing to forgive you of. He really has no place to say "I forgive you for blocking me when I cleary made you uncomfortable". There's no need to escalate it further unless you want to, but just know that you're the one who should be forgiving him, not the other way around. The way your post comes across is that he thinks you've done something wrong and that he's this nice person who's willing to give you a second chance, but he's not. He might be a nice person, but there's no second chance needed to be given to you, only him. Again, sorry if you don't want a reply, I can delete this if you'd prefer