My boyfriend asked his room mate if it was cool if he was allowed to get a couple cats. His room mate's parents own the apartment they're renting so most of the dealings go through him. Boyfriend got two kitties and now a couple months later they want my boyfriend to move out but wont give a definitive answer as to why (we're assuming his room mate did not actually ok the cats with his parents).
My boyfriend is going to school in San Francisco and it's expensive as fug. He has been working so hard to find a new place to live but everything has lead to a dead end. Boyfriends current room mate thinks he isn't trying hard enough (I think his room mate is a spoiled brat). He has been making a lot of passive aggressive remarks towards my boyfriend and I'm pissed off. My boyfriend is stressed as ship and all his room mate does is add pressure. If he had actually asked his parents about owning pets before giving my boyfriend the ok he wouldn't have to be stressing about finding himself a new home and possibly his cats a new home. Everyone he asks for help just tells him he shouldn't have gotten cats - he wouldn't have if he expected to be evicted for you you idiots.
I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend otherwise I would take his cats. I feel so useless being so far away unable to help support him through this. He has contacted over 40 people via email and less than a handful have bothered to answer back. He was hoping he would be able to keep his cats but it doesn't seem very likely now. He has contacted his school and the only housing they have offered is way over his price range. I've considered sending money to him but I don't know how long I could afford that. I've looked at costs to ship his cats to me but it's extremely costly, plus it would be an awful ride for the cats.
I just don't know what else to do, or say to comfort him. Everyone says everything will turn out okay but I don't think they understand how severely this has effected my boyfriend. The thought of him having to drop out of school because of this makes me sick to my stomach.
This post is all over the place, sorry to those that might read it. I just needed to vent to a neutral party. :/
My boyfriend is going to school in San Francisco and it's expensive as fug. He has been working so hard to find a new place to live but everything has lead to a dead end. Boyfriends current room mate thinks he isn't trying hard enough (I think his room mate is a spoiled brat). He has been making a lot of passive aggressive remarks towards my boyfriend and I'm pissed off. My boyfriend is stressed as ship and all his room mate does is add pressure. If he had actually asked his parents about owning pets before giving my boyfriend the ok he wouldn't have to be stressing about finding himself a new home and possibly his cats a new home. Everyone he asks for help just tells him he shouldn't have gotten cats - he wouldn't have if he expected to be evicted for you you idiots.
I'm in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend otherwise I would take his cats. I feel so useless being so far away unable to help support him through this. He has contacted over 40 people via email and less than a handful have bothered to answer back. He was hoping he would be able to keep his cats but it doesn't seem very likely now. He has contacted his school and the only housing they have offered is way over his price range. I've considered sending money to him but I don't know how long I could afford that. I've looked at costs to ship his cats to me but it's extremely costly, plus it would be an awful ride for the cats.
I just don't know what else to do, or say to comfort him. Everyone says everything will turn out okay but I don't think they understand how severely this has effected my boyfriend. The thought of him having to drop out of school because of this makes me sick to my stomach.
This post is all over the place, sorry to those that might read it. I just needed to vent to a neutral party. :/
