What's bothering you?

[Reindeer]

jealous because my ex who recently dumped me is already talking to another girl

but i have friends that make me happy so i know this is worth it. i was always wishing for happiness and not being lonely.

It's only part of him trying to move on from the relationship. Keeping an eye on him and what he's doing is only going to make you go insane, and you won't be able to let go that way. So as harsh as it may sound, just stop paying attention to him. You have your own life to live, and wallowing in self-pity because he's already moving on will just get you stuck. The only actions that show you have value are your own, not those of others, so seeking validation in his actions is wrong.

- - - Post Merge - - -

God, most boys are such a-holes.

That's some hardcore generalizing you're doing there. Girls very much do the same thing, and a lot of guys will also end up in the situation Ahri is in. No one gender can be blamed for it, since it's simply human nature.

 

[HeyPatience]

God, most boys are such a-holes.

I can agree with that. It takes a lot and I mean A LOT of looking around for one who is actually a decent human being.

(not sayng all guys are like that, and that girls arent excluded from this statement)

 

[Shirohibiki]

well my mood has utterly tanked and i have no idea why and id love to just crawl in bed and never come out
im still happy about getting my male mulberry/emerald/leaf dragon but otherwise i feel like total ****, wish i could pick apart my brain to find out why

 

[starlark]

can you please not say you want my villager then get it from someone else straight after and leave me waiting for 2 days please and thank you

 

[Mayorofarcadia]

On strong antibiotics

Stomach is like NOPE

pain and nausea sucks peanuts,

 

[Sinister]

That's some hardcore generalizing you're doing there. Girls very much do the same thing, and a lot of guys will also end up in the situation Ahri is in. No one gender can be blamed for it, since it's simply human nature.

I know, but that's how I feel personally. I didn't say all boys are a-holes on that matter or that girls don't do it either. Just personal expierence. And I absolutely not agree with you on that it's human nature. Not everyone is like that, thank god.

I can agree with that. It takes a lot and I mean A LOT of looking around for one who is actually a decent human being.

(not sayng all guys are like that, and that girls arent excluded from this statement)

It does. Just basically means you don't give a **** if you've recently broken up with someone, imo. And true, not all guys are like that.

 

[Mayorofarcadia]

Also I hate when people act nice to you and try to befriend you to get something out of you

I'm not bloody stupid mate

 

[Beary]

WHY DO I STILL LIKE HIMMMM
He's rejected me so many times ;//;

 

[Cadbberry]

My BFF is dating a butt but he is only nice around her

 

[ellabella12345]

Im so confused right now D:

 

[Zane]

Also I hate when people act nice to you and try to befriend you to get something out of you

I'm not bloody stupid mate

lmao ikr. It's so transparent when ppl are doing that, too.. like I see you, bro.

 

[Amissapanda]

Also I hate when people act nice to you and try to befriend you to get something out of you

I'm not bloody stupid mate

This times a thousand. I did fall for it a few times in the past, but I'd like to think I'm not quite as gullible anymore.

 

[Brackets]

my ex is chatting **** about me, and it's especially annoying as most of his friends are on my course at uni so i see them every day

 

[Sanaki]

my ex is chatting **** about me, and it's especially annoying as most of his friends are on my course at uni so i see them every day

well dont you sleep with a lot of people and his friends

 

[Aradai]

this week is not even over but I can tell its gonna suck

 

[Eldin]

I wish I didn't get upset over stupid ****.

Somebody had the upstairs booked at work and I moved it to the next week (at their request, obviously), and changed it on the calendar. Which is all I thought I had to do - if it's on the calendar my boss will see it, you know? So she calls me and tells me to put this fundraiser on the same date. I told her something was scheduled, and she was like oh you never told me. Well, I didn't know I had to, that's why I marked it on the calendar, so before they planned something else I assumed they'd check the damn date. Well no, they didn't, and they already put signs up so it's on that day. She was like oh it's no problem I'll just tell the other people and they'll push it back. Which they did, it was just like a two hour meeting and they only had to push it back a few hours.

And it was absolutely no big deal at all and my boss didn't even really give a ****, she wasn't mad or anything. Nobody else cared, it worked out fine. But I still just wanted to cry afterwards. I always feel like this any time I do anything wrong, no matter how small, and 9 times out of 10 I will ****ing cry even though it's the most minor thing.

I just can't help it, idk what's wrong with me. I just hate when I mess up and I hate when people are mad at me, but it's like I just feel so terrible even when nobody's mad and it's no big deal.

 

[tamagotchi]

Even though I know my dad hates me it still stings.

I don't know why I still care.

 

[Hyoshido]

Someone told a mother joke towards me so I say my mother is dead and they burst into laughter.

smh.

 

[Brackets]

well dont you sleep with a lot of people and his friends

umm...? i've slept with 5 people in my life, not exactly a big number, at least not compared to most people i know.
i slept with one of his friends and never did it again because he got upset over it

and anyway thats not what he was chatting about, he was saying that i'm psycho

 

[starlark]

Someone told a mother joke towards me so I say my mother is dead and they burst into laughter.

smh.

dear Jesus ****ing Christ did this person know you? If they didn't know what you'd been through, fair enough even though that's still incredibly rude, but if they did know I hope they get some form of sawlike torture done to them

On a more selfish note, I'm convinced my boyfriend has gone missing. I haven't spoken to him for almost a week, nor have any of my friends seen him and he hasn't told me anything about going on holiday.