well idk i just see you come here a lot and talk about sleeping with people and his friend, so i thought thats what it was.
What's bothering you?
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well idk i just see you come here a lot and talk about sleeping with people and his friend, so i thought thats what it was.
EndlessElements
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i ended up waking up late so i haven't gotten anything done, bleh.
wow u shudnt be so judgemental
Amissapanda
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A friend just told me I should keep cosplaying men because my chest is flat. Not even as a joke.
I know she didn't really mean any real harm, but it seemed like a tactless comment to me. There are female characters that don't have big chests. And I'd rather try some female cosplays if given the chance instead of cross-playing again. I don't care if my front is 'easy to bind' or not. I don't think that should make a huge difference in what I cosplay.
I dunno. Sometimes I feel like people make too big of a deal out of what size a woman's chest is.
I know she didn't really mean any real harm, but it seemed like a tactless comment to me. There are female characters that don't have big chests. And I'd rather try some female cosplays if given the chance instead of cross-playing again. I don't care if my front is 'easy to bind' or not. I don't think that should make a huge difference in what I cosplay.
I dunno. Sometimes I feel like people make too big of a deal out of what size a woman's chest is.
I feel like my life is too food-centric. I like getting up in the morning because I get to eat breakfast, and then I'm just waiting until lunch, and after dinner I feel sad that I can't eat again until morning. I have hobbies and things to do but none of them distract me enough to keep from thinking about eating.
Amissapanda
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aha i see wat u did there
Lmao. And that wasn't even intentional.
( ͠? ͜ ͡?) I'm not like emotionally killed about the joke but I don't believe they were fully aware my mother passed away n' stuff.
I generally don't like the person who said it anyways so I have the reason to permanently block them now!
That's kind of a ****ty friend IMO. I feel you. On Sunday, I was wearing a black velvet sort of dungarees thing (I don't want to say play suit, that word is disgraceful) to a religious convention and the shorts were down to my knees, I was wearing tights and I was wearing an oversized cardigan too. I was dressed more informally because I've chosen to back out of the religion but I still observe it.
It looked formal enough and totally passed the dress code rules, lots of the ladies there complimented me on it but my "friend" told me I looked really disrespectful and rude not wearing a dress.
She said it all snarky like as well, and she was smiling, and none of my friends stopped her.
I mean, this religion has already got a lot of bad attention in general society, and I didn't want to be one to say it, but there is no way I can actually observe a religion that prides itself on friendly members when a large majority of them are complete arseholes.
(I say a large majority because it's not just her, half the flipping congregation is like that)
(It's not the first time she's done something like this...many, many times...)
Lady Timpani
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Pretty sure my ex-friend is talking **** about me to my crush, and my crush believes her even though the two of us have been friends longer because she has a crush on this other girl. Now my crush is ignoring me and I'm just. So done with both of them. If they want to be petty like that, whatever. It's not worth crushing on somebody who ditched you, anyway.
EndlessElements
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your chest size shouldn't matter when it comes to anything, let alone cosplaying. you cosplay because you enjoy it; not to please others. your 'friend' should be a better support if you're happy doing what you're doing.
Shirohibiki
it's a beautiful bikini bottom day!
i wonder if i SHOULD check myself back into the hospital. i dont have any suicidal thoughts atm, but i feel super hopeless and ive hit rock bottom for some reason and apparently my anxiety is up too and yet i have no idea why. all of this just sort of stewed since last week and got steadily worse. i dont... know what to do with myself. is the hospital a good idea? i dont know. i just dont know
HeyPatience
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People going into giveaway threads, but not reading the rules the OP has set in place =_=
Just take a deep breath, purrrrhaps find a therapist to talk it out with. If you feel like your reaching your tipping point do what you need to keep your self safe. or try talking it out with people around you, any little bit helps
Shirohibiki
it's a beautiful bikini bottom day!
haha, well, i go to intensive outpatient therapy 3 times a week. which is why im not so sure. id probably have to go back up to 5 days again if i was put inpatient. just not sure what to do with myself, really. maybe tomorrow will be a little better. thank you though <3
I wish to help, no friend should be hurting or confused. If you feel you need to be an inpatient do what you must. Just remember your TBT friends are all here for you, through the thick and thin, so you have our support <3
Shirohibiki
it's a beautiful bikini bottom day!
thank you so much dear <3 thats very sweet of you. i really appreciate it ;v;
of course, I am always here if you need to talk
I have one hour detention and I don't even know why. My school gives out detention for the most ridiculous reasons.
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