@OP: I'm also one of those people who's too pale for the lightest foundation shades and whatnot. I have a stick of concealer that is literally white, as in paper white, and that's it. I've never been able to tan, I just burn - horribly, which I discovered thanks to an ex who insisted that I was "too pale" and kept coercing me to just lay out in the sun all the time, even after it was established that the strongest SPF I could get my hands on wasn't enough to keep me from turning pink

I am just not meant to tan, and I'm okay with that.
I used to get a lot of comments when I was younger. I remember being at work and some guy came into the store, I greeted him, and he didn't even respond with a hello or anything, just "Wow, you need to get a tan" (but then again anyone working in retail, especially female workers, are probably very familiar with unsolicited comments about their appearance as it is...)
But I also have very dark hair (naturally - I dye it as often as finances allow though) and dark circles under my eyes (hereditary apparently) so it makes the paleness look kind of vampire-y. It used to be that if you took a picture of me with the flash still on, it would kind of "blind" the camera or go all glowy like snow does. Cameras nowadays are loads better - lmao I make myself sound so old. But yeah, I can relate on the freakishly pale front. Rock what you got.