Sorry, I didn't mean to say they don't know, but more to say it's less likely that in a connotation of saying, " I'll give this to x and they can make you awesome art, " adding partner in there sounds a lot more like a business situation to the average person. It's not like when someone introduces you to their significant other and says this is their partner..
I have been in the LGBT+ community for over 17 years. My best friend of 15 years is genderqueer as is their romantic partner.
My mom has known them for as long as I have.
She still doesn't call their partner the right terminology. I have to argue 'girlfriend' is not the case because he is transitioning. That he doesn't like boyfriend because it sounds infantilizing to a thirty year old man.
We forget the average person is not and does not have much deep involvement with the LGBT+ community, which is why we have to fight to be seen in these games as it is.
It was not, in my opinion, even slightly purposeful, and unless the writers themselves come and say it was, I will never believe it is because that is giving them credit for even trying when we cannot prove they were doing so in any way.
What everyone else chooses to do and conclude is on the, but I really don't care to allow them to claim even something as simple as pretending they did it in such a way as to let people feel comfortable with their interpretations.
Sorry to hear that about your mom, I've been in similar situations with my parents and I know how frustrating and hurtful that can be. I'm genderqueer myself, and basically all of the people I have my closest non-familial relationships with are either genderqueer or non-binary as well. Trust me, I don't forget that the "average person" doesn't have much involvement with or knowledge of the queer community.
Maybe we'll just have to agree to disagree, though I do think we're agreeing on quite a bit. I don't think we can split the semantic hairs of the specific linguistic uses of the word "partner" any more than we already have, we probably just don't see eye to eye on this. I still agree with your basic premise, that Nintendo should not get
credit for any
perceived representation people feel Flick and CJ present, and I would argue against anyone who disagreed with that premise if they were to present that view here or anywhere else.
But I disagree that simply acknowledging the fact that ambiguous language was used for CJ's dialogue is also giving Nintendo "credit" in any way. I am literally doing exactly the opposite of that and so are many other people in this thread. I haven't seen anyone defend or advocate for Nintendo's use of such ambiguous, easily-hand-waved-away terminology; we're discussing the choice to use it, what that means, and why people obviously have such a wide range of strong feelings about it. None of us are on the localization team at NOA, and can say definitively why this particular word was chosen and what the specific intent behind it was, you're right.
That being said, the indisputable fact remains that the word "partner" has a meaning that is in common use which signifies a romantic relationship, and it
was chosen for CJ's dialogue, deliberately, without modifiers, phrased exactly as it is. You can view CJ and Flick however you like, no one's insisting that you
have to see them as anything in particular. As I've said before, this isn't a matter of shipping or fandom to me (I really couldn't care less about that, though if anyone reading this does, more power to you), it's simply a matter of looking at the game, the text it offers, the potential queer context that surrounds that text, and the reception of that text by the audience. Even if Nintendo didn't make this choice for the right reasons, or for any reason at all, it's worth discussing those concepts. That's not the same thing as giving them "credit" for anything.
Also I don't say this as a gotcha and I don't want to be one of those people who waves their credentials around but I just want to reiterate that I literally have a degree in exactly this and have lectured at ivy league universities about the history/exclusion of queer content in games (nintendo games specifically), which is why I keep writing five paragraph essays in this Animal Crossing fan forum thread about whether a digital cartoon beaver and lizard are gay when I should be asleep, if anyone's wondering