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I really want to get on contraception soon, but the Pill (think it was millinette) made me go crazy and depressed (so I stopped taking it). So I was thinking getting the coil (IUD), but I've heard horror stories about when they first go in and getting 3 month periods and stuff, and it's around exam time and straight after (beginning of June) I'm going backpacking so I really don't want a crazy-long period!
So my other option would maybe be the mini pill or the implant.
Anyone have any experience with these?

The implant constantly had me on my period, I got like a days break so I got taken off that straight away! And now I'm on the depo injections which works quite well after my 3rd jab I shouldn't be having periods anymore

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I have never heard of having sex with a kidney infection killing you! Sounds weird to me!

It is true that you can get kidney and urinal infections through things other than sex. I had a really bad one earlier this year, my kidneys were in such distress that they took fluids from my eyes and my brain! That is extreme though, normally it hurts to pee etc. you can also get something called cystitis which makes you want to pee all the time but you can't go and it stings like a you know what! They call it honeymoon disease as you often get it when you are having lots of sex. Peeing after sex helps and you can buy sachets of powder that you mix with water and drink which helps to reduce the acidity in your pee which relieves the pain.
Never heard of tea causing it! I drink a crazy amount of tea and have no issues there! Maybe it's certain people or certain tea?

I've drank tea since I was little and I've never had an issue with it either -shrugs
 
Why do we have to do all this just for another person to be born? *smashes face on keyboard*

... well you don't.
There is always artificial insemination.

It is something a friend of mine had to do a lot of research in... not because she didn't have a partner, but because she had something known as a "hazardous uterus" among other things that labeled her medically infertile.
It is really an amazing story but they were going to take one of her eggs and her husband's sperm and were going to then implant the fertilized eggs into one of our other friends who going to serve as a surrogate for them.
It was really touching...
But before any of it really went into motion...
A miracle happened and she got pregnant and her uterus didn't kill it... it was a very high at risk pregnancy... but the miracle baby survived. ^-^

Anyway... my point is...
That you don't even have to have sex to carry a child and give birth to one.
And they don't even have to be even yours to carry a child and give birth to one.


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Ok... I'm for breastfeeding... I'm not to say I'm not exactly the biggest advocate on just openly breastfeeding in public with no cover but I found this online and thought it was kind of... interesting.
Opinions?
PHOTOS SHOULD BE FINE SINCE NOTHING SHOWS ITS A BRIGHT WHITE LIGHT THAT BLOCKS OUT
But I will gladly remove if anyone feels uncomfortable.
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I've actually kinda considered writing to Victoria Secret about making nursing/maternity bras... since those women especially deserve to feel beautiful and comfortable...
And I know sooner or later I will get pregnant and I will be interested in breastfeeding ((I'm cheap as hell and formula cost money lmao. XP)) and VS is literally the ONLY store in over 100miles from my home that carries my size. And it's not even that strange of a size... and boobs tend to get bigger when you breastfeed.
And I hate dealing with online stores because sometimes their returns process is really shady...

But after seeing the photo gif... And remembering most of the service I get when I get in there... I think me asking something like that would be a really dumb question...
 
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I saw that the other week. I find that completely ridiculous. Why have we come to a time when it's meant to be shameful to breast feed our in public? So you're just meant to let the child starve. I don't think it's wrong when I see a woman breast feeding in public I just think she's most likely a good mother because:
-For start it's better for them, especially when they're first born because that's the most important time to breast feed them.
-they think that the babies needs are more important than what anyone is going to think of them.
-it's the best way you can bond with the baby

I know that some women can't breast feed by no fault of their own so I'm not including them in this but I think if you choose not to breast feed your child you shouldn't behaving kids because you clearly care more about what other people think of them than their babies' needs and that's just wrong.

I have so much respect for some who breast feed in public.
 
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I had a very strong debate with a guy from my college who was being a tad mean about women breast feeding in public and my argument was, what if a) you're on a day out and are gone longer than expected and run out of bottles? You have breast milk right there! You aren't going to starve your child, that's ridiculous and b) breast feeding will have been happening with our ancestors so it's not wrong, some people just like to have some control but unfortunately for you kiddas not gonna happen

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Oh and most women tend to be discreet when doing it, so if it bothers you that much then.....don't look?!!! Oh my gosh!
 
Ohh great thread! I love talking about sex and giving advice. I don't get to do that much.

I don't have much to say about the current breast-feeding discussion but come on, are people really so selfish that they have to put their own personal problems with it above an infant's needs?
 
Here's a potential topic I'm struggling a bit with; any advice on instigating sex, especially as a girl? I feel like I can contribute more with my fianc?, I think I feel a little shy to instigate for some reason and just wait for him.

*sorry to double post, guess I should've known it wouldn't post merge.
 
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Here's a potential topic I'm struggling a bit with; any advice on instigating sex, especially as a girl? I feel like I can contribute more with my fianc?, I think I feel a little shy to instigate for some reason and just wait for him.

*sorry to double post, guess I should've known it wouldn't post merge.

u just gotta get up on him and ride him like a mechanical bull.

maybe before you start play some music to get you into the mood (Push It by Salt N Pepa is a good choice i have used in the past)

get on some sexy lingerie and then put a robe over it and thats when you play the music and then you seductively take off your robe and grind up against his body.

stop being shy you are strong powerful woman you can holla at jesus if you want to u got nothing to be shy about!!
 
u just gotta get up on him and ride him like a mechanical bull.

maybe before you start play some music to get you into the mood (Push It by Salt N Pepa is a good choice i have used in the past)

get on some sexy lingerie and then put a robe over it and thats when you play the music and then you seductively take off your robe and grind up against his body.

stop being shy you are strong powerful woman you can holla at jesus if you want to u got nothing to be shy about!!

Ahahahahahaha ah you're a hoot, thank you for the encouraging words, it's really sweet :)
I'm weird about music, like I'm not sure if it's something I'd ever want, maybe it feels awkward to me. And I don't know if I could take Push It seriously because of a movie haha. I did buy lingerie once but it looked nothing like the picture and wound up looking like a big black onesy and pushed my boobs downward and everything, I didn't even show him, but definitely in the future I will. I have mixed feelings at times about a lot of kissing so that may be something that holds me back too. I could probably treat him to cowgirl more since it's his favorite but it's always hot where we live and I hate feeling sweat under my thighs haha.

Again, thank you : ) hahahahaha.
 
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Ahahahahahaha ah you're a hoot, thank you for the encouraging words, it's really sweet :)
I'm weird about music, like I'm not sure if it's something I'd ever want, maybe it feels awkward to me. And I don't know if I could take Push It seriously because of a movie haha. I did buy lingerie once but it looked nothing like the picture and wound up looking like a big black onesy and pushed my boobs downward and everything, I didn't even show him, but definitely in the future I will. I have mixed feelings at times about a lot of kissing so that may be something that holds me back too. I could probably treat him to cowgirl more since it's his favorite but it's always hot where we live and I hate feeling sweat under my thighs haha.

Again, thank you : ) hahahahaha.

ok if youre feelin weird about the music then first song you should try is Like A Virgin by Madonna its very metaphorical for the situation you feel me then you work your way up with different songs
 
ok if youre feelin weird about the music then first song you should try is Like A Virgin by Madonna its very metaphorical for the situation you feel me then you work your way up with different songs

Haha thank you, you're making me laugh but also making feel more confident so thanks. :) Recently I thought maybe we were going to with music just because the it was low in the background but who knows, we haven't had sex in an unusually long time (week or two), but luckily it's not for any reason in particular. Like we can obviously enjoy time together without having sex, I guess we've both had other things on our minds and the previous week and a half I felt tired almost every day. Overall though I'm seeking to contribute more, thank you again! : )
 
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