I find the bell tree forums to be much kinder and forgiving/generous straying from here is very scary to me but it gets the job done when you need something very quickly, i wish tbt had notifications like nookazon does where it makes a sound to notify you- is be much better at replying then but the biggest difference for me is the people it is a lot more active so it gives you that instant reward, but i only use it if i HAVE to. i agree with you on the diys though omg