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soo...my boyfriend and i broke up just today. He said he wants us to start fresh this year and just be friends for now. We talked and we agreed on being friends and then see how things go. Although that kinda means we could have a chance to fall in love all over again theres also a chance we might not and im deeply affected by this.

so anyway, whos alr having a bad start for 2017?
 
Yo, I'm experiencing similar ~relationship~ issues, but I was never in a relationship in the first place! There's a guy I like and he likes me back but clearly he doesn't want to committ to anything or doesn't want to start dating, and rather would just stay as friends. Which I'm fine with, but sometimes he does stuff that seems too friendly and it can be kind of frustrating to deal with when I just want to stay friends and he keeps tugging on my feelings like that. Relationships are messy and kind of crazy but you shouldn't see it as a bad start to the year in any way shape or form. Break ups are hard to deal with and it feels like you'll never be able to get over someone or find someone any better at the time but trust me, you can and you will. And maybe instead you should spend more time in 2017 focusing on yourself and your own happiness. You've still got a whole year left to yourself, a whole year of memories to make, a whole year of happiness, and a whole year of unexplored opportunities. There's gonna be ****ty things of course, but bad things happen regardless, and it's down to you to make the most of each day you are given. <3
 
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I was eating a candy cane last night. I soon noticed that a piece of it was extremely hard. Turns out, it was a piece of my tooth. I'm really upset by this. I can't afford the dentist right now, but I can't live with a broken tooth. I guess I'll have to charge it on my credit card and make payments. UGH.
 
i'm sort of having a bad start to the year, but i'm trying to stay positive
 
Pretty sure my fish is dying. He looks like he has dropsy (which is pretty much incurable) and is laying on the gravel 95 percent of the time. At least he had a better life than if he had stayed at the petstore.
 
My relationship is pretty comparable to rocky road ice cream too. Unfortunately, stuff happens. I believe that the good will always balance out the bad, that whenever something good happens something equally as bad happens. I also believe in fate, that everthing happens for a reason and it'll all be okay in the end. I am currently away from home at school, and my fianc? is back home. He has severe money problems right now and is losing his home, which means our 3 pitbulls that we raised (Mom, Pop, & Son) are also losing their homes. Lu (Pop) has a home already since he is the most rehome-able and very friendly (he's so big though, his head is bigger than mine!). However, Lily and Sammy need homes, and if I cant find any for them soon they'll be put to sleep due to being an owner surrender. What also isn't helping me is the fact that my fianc? won't communicate with me, I understand that he is depressed but if he doesn't the dogs will die. Its always like this with him. I've been trying for years to get him to get off his ass and get a job but he can't (or won't, I'm not sure which) find one. And now when the time comes that he needs one to keep his home, he still won't try to find one. Its very frustrating. Part of me wishes he would go back home and live with his mom for a few months until I'm out of school and he has a job, and then I can just meet him out there and get our living situation handled, but he can't because he's on patrol for the next 5 or so years and can't leave the state. He also isn't aware that I might be expecting a baby and I'm unsure if I should tell him yet because even I'm not 100% sure and it'll just stress him out even more. I'm at a point where I'm just so lost on what to do. I want to continue photography but I also love him very much. He hasn't contributed much to our relationship the last year at all to be completely honest, but at the same time I know he has literally nothing. I knew this at the start. Its whatever I guess. I'm just worried about the dogs to be honest.
 
My friend killed herself just recently. It was before New Year's but it was recent..
 
i had a terrible fight with my best friend during new year. it literally started on old years day and ended on new years day. mweh
 
I've never been more apathetic towards my life than I am right now. I don't know why, but everything just irritates me lately, and I'm perpetually dissatisfied with everything.

It started a little before the holidays and has carried over into 2017.

Happy New Year, I guess.
 
Let's be real here. Everything's just gonna go downhill since last year. Perhaps not this year, but further well-known people such as Queen Elizabeth II and Maggie Smith won't have too much longer to live.
 
soo...my boyfriend and i broke up just today. He said he wants us to start fresh this year and just be friends for now. We talked and we agreed on being friends and then see how things go. Although that kinda means we could have a chance to fall in love all over again theres also a chance we might not and im deeply affected by this.

so anyway, whos alr having a bad start for 2017?
WOW IM HAVING ALMOST THE SAME PROBLEM
 
life has been kinda garbage for the last few months and i'm still trying to turn things around. if things keep going the way they are tho, i'll just go ahead and check myself into the nut house ahead of time...
 
I was eating a candy cane last night. I soon noticed that a piece of it was extremely hard. Turns out, it was a piece of my tooth. I'm really upset by this. I can't afford the dentist right now, but I can't live with a broken tooth. I guess I'll have to charge it on my credit card and make payments. UGH.

This is the worst. I have a really sore tooth right now and finally gave in to making a dentist appointment after not going for a couple years. Now I get to wait for interest to build up on my credit card until I get my next student loan. Yay.
 
Hmm, lemmie think about that... Nope, honestly, nothing bad happened to me in my teenage and my young adult life yet. Perhaps I need to go outside?
 
This is the worst. I have a really sore tooth right now and finally gave in to making a dentist appointment after not going for a couple years. Now I get to wait for interest to build up on my credit card until I get my next student loan. Yay.

Ahh. Sorry to hear that. It makes me so angry that something as important as our teeth costs so darn much to fix.
 
School isn't going so well tbh I can't seem to focus anymore
On top of that, my teachers decided to bomb me with assignments right when we got back ugh
 
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