An alcoholic relative wants to visit me. She called me in a bad mood while she was wasted(she's always in a bad mood whilst wasted), with an accusatory tone, and it's set the mood for the entire trip. I'm dreading it and avoiding her. Sometimes I wish I could tell her to leave me alone, but I feel powerless. She doesn't listen. She has consistently been drunk on a near daily basis since I was a child. The thought of returning to this life makes me anxious/nervous, and when I hear her being drunk on the phone, I feel like I'm there again.