What's Bothering You?

I’m regretting not accepting an invitation on LinkedIn. I don’t think that would be a make or break thing, though. Just have to hope for the best.
 
I'm so, so confused. It seems I may have offended my friends somehow, but I genuinely don't know. Some of them suddenly cut off all contact from me, I think I'm being ignored? I don't know what I did wrong...
 
I’m frustrated at a friend I’ve had for a few years. We used to talk all the time, but they’ve drifted away. They’ll ghost me for months on end and give an insincere apology every time. I used to think it was because they were busy with school like they said, but in reality they’re online and talking with other people several hours a day. I’ve tried communicating that ghosting hurts my feelings. As usual I got radio silence. It’s hard because this person drew my pfp. They clearly don’t reciprocate my friendship anymore, but I’m so attached to this image.

Also it turns out I was in the wrong therapy program the whole time. The program is for patients with schizophrenic traits, but my voices originate from real people. In my case I should be getting treatment for trauma. The only reason I know this is because my new therapist noticed I don’t fit their program. What a joke…
 
Also update, they confirmed indeed the sender did ship the package to them, so hopefully I can send for it soon. Updates updating I swear lol.
 
Trying to find the specific issue of an idol magazine but since they didn't tag it properly I can't find it and I don't think it's saved in the search history there either.
 
It's just a tad too warm for what's meant to be the start of Autumn, I want my gloomy days with a bit of rain and wind as the leaves start to turn and fall off, not a one day heatwave with wall to wall blue skies and the sun blazing down from the sky.
 
It's just a tad too warm for what's meant to be the start of Autumn, I want my gloomy days with a bit of rain and wind as the leaves start to turn and fall off, not a one day heatwave with wall to wall blue skies and the sun blazing down from the sky.
Came to say pretty much this haha. I hope it is just one day, it was ridiculous outside earlier.
 
I was a nice member on this forum who posted a few opinions — opinions that I wouldn’t normally share. I’ve normally kept my views to myself, but seeing others be so open about their views. I wanted to share my views. I didn’t insult the other side. I didn’t judge an entire person’s character based on one or two things. I feel that some things I say are taken out of context, and while my views may be the minority in this community, that definitely doesn’t make me a bad person. I wish people would see me for who I am as a person and not make assumptions based on a particular stance.
You sound exactly like me when I first joined this site. I can easily relate to how you're feeling. I'm sorry this happened to you. If you want to talk about it in more detail you can DM me whenever you want.
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I’m frustrated at a friend I’ve had for a few years. We used to talk all the time, but they’ve drifted away. They’ll ghost me for months on end and give an insincere apology every time. I used to think it was because they were busy with school like they said, but in reality they’re online and talking with other people several hours a day. I’ve tried communicating that ghosting hurts my feelings. As usual I got radio silence. It’s hard because this person drew my pfp. They clearly don’t reciprocate my friendship anymore, but I’m so attached to this image.

Also it turns out I was in the wrong therapy program the whole time. The program is for patients with schizophrenic traits, but my voices originate from real people. In my case I should be getting treatment for trauma. The only reason I know this is because my new therapist noticed I don’t fit their program. What a joke…
As someone who has to cut ties with my best friend I can understand how you feel. I've been ghosted too many times that makes it hard for me to interact with others.
 
My laptop says I have no wifi, yet I’m posting this from my phone... using wifi. My internet just isn’t in the list for some reason?? Not even an option to try and connect to which is super lame. I’ve restarted my laptop and it’s still not there. Odd.
 
i didn’t go to school today bc im sick still but i’m worrying abt this test i was supposed to take today, i think i’ll email my teacher to relief myself a little bit lol
 
Don't know where to go next in life from here, especially as far as a job goes. I'll have financial security either way in two years, but I need something for now. Guess I'll have to get creative or some ****.

Also, people who judge you without making an effort to understand you annoy me to no end. Fake people are even worse. There's nothing more that I despise in this world than people who act fake.

Thanks for coming to my ted talk.
 
My rabbit needs surgery on her foot. I’m not even sure how it happened because we haven’t seen any evidence of this happening. The people checking her over couldn’t even get a good look at what was going on when I took her in a week ago. They just gave us wipes and sent us home, but she’s in a lot of pain and will need surgery. I’m just incredibly sad that she’s hurting and it’s all my fault.
 
My rabbit needs surgery on her foot. I’m not even sure how it happened because we haven’t seen any evidence of this happening. The people checking her over couldn’t even get a good look at what was going on when I took her in a week ago. They just gave us wipes and sent us home, but she’s in a lot of pain and will need surgery. I’m just incredibly sad that she’s hurting and it’s all my fault.
Rabbits are prey animals who break easily by design, so it's not your fault! She could have hurt her foot just by playing & hopping around. I hope she heals up with no complications!
 
it is absolutely not your fault. i know from personal experience that that’s hard to believe, but it’s true. it’s obvious how much you love and care for her and you haven’t left her to suffer, nor did you do this to her. like oak said, rabbits are just incredibly fragile creatures, but that’s not on you. you’re doing the best you can.

i hope that the surgery goes well and i wish her a speedy recovery. i’ll keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. <3
 
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my choir director put me up front for the last song. That's fine and all, but there's this weird unnecessary wall that blocks off the mirrors from the door (which i'm also right in front of) and its hard to see what we're doing. And i'm too shy in the class to ask to be able to see, and theres a dance test on the choreo we learned today-
its just a mess lol
 
i really wanna do colorguard this semester but i thought it was too late until one of the band directors told me i still had time to join. i talked to my parents about it and they said i could join if i take it serious and tbh it made me kinda upset they keep saying “if you take it serious” because obviously i am. they’ve stopped me from doing this every single year of hs, and it irritates me so much. it hurts my feelings when my parents tell me i don’t take anything serious or im just gonna quit when it gets hard. they made me quit colorguard in my sophomore year by guilt tripping me so many times and because they didn’t wanna help me pay for the band fees they require. i’ve been wanting to do colorguard since 7th grade when i went on a field trip w my band in middle school to go watch my future high school compete. they made me quit band my freshman year and i regret listening to them tbh i should’ve just stayed bc it’s not like they were the ones going to school. i wish i had supportive parents??? idk why they can’t just let me do something i’ve been wanting to do, they always have to find an excuse for me not to do it. honestly i really want to do it this year and idrc if they tell me no i’ll try to find a way to do it because i’ve been wanting to do this for so long and it’s my senior year and i want to have a good experience :/
 
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