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had to put my childhood cat down today, he was 15 and had a great life, but watching him go was pretty hard

My deepest and sincerest condolences :cry: I know how it is. I lost my cat too, two years and half ago. Nowadays there are still nights I cry myself to sleep remembering her. Some people told me then "It was just an animal", and I told them to go to hell. So what if it was an animal? My pain is very human, thank you very much. I loved my cat more than I loved most of the people I've met in my life.

I wish I could tell you anything to relieve even a fraction of your pain, but I don't think there's such a thing. Just know that you're not alone.
 
My nieces are over and I don’t like it when they touch me or my stuff aince they always have their fingers in their mouth. They’re so noisy too.
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I’m really sorry. My condolences. I had two of my cats put down a month a part three years ago, so I understand how difficult it is (I still miss them). Take as much time as you need to grieve; don’t let anyone tell you otherwise. If you need to vent, my dms are open.
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I mention being sick so I put a spoiler.

I tried to take some liquid Buckley's medicine for my chest cold and it was so gross. It was like taking a shot of alcohol which I hate, and then it sat in my stomach hard and made it bubbly. Then I got sick from it and threw it all up ughhh

Feel better soon 🍀. sorry to hear you’re not feeling well. sending you well wishes and positive vibes. 💜
 
my throat feels worse ,, going to the doctor soon 😭 i think i might have to get covid tested just to be safe but i hope everything goes well and i don’t test positive; i don’t see why i would tho
 

Hey there, Origami. I'm really sorry to hear about this. I've lost pets before as well and it's always really sad each time. I can't imagine how I'm going to feel when my cat dies (and she's getting pretty old too). I hope you find some relief from this soon and are able to look back on the happy memories you had with him. 💚
 
had to put my childhood cat down today, he was 15 and had a great life, but watching him go was pretty hard
My childhood cat passed away this week so I know the feeling! I'm sorry for your loss. It's especially weird to loose an animal that you can't remember a time before them. I hope you feel better soon.
 
had to put my childhood cat down today, he was 15 and had a great life, but watching him go was pretty hard
I know this pain … I still grieve for my Lulu … when you love a pet and lose them they leave a very large hole in your heart ♥ I am thinking that my Lulu shaped hole will never heal completely
It does become less sharp, Origami but it truly takes time. ((HUGS)) 💕
 
my throat feels worse ,, going to the doctor soon 😭 i think i might have to get covid tested just to be safe but i hope everything goes well and i don’t test positive; i don’t see why i would tho
Ouch :( Definitely hoping it's not covid-19, those tests are just ugh and I'd hate getting a stick up my brain ;;
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Felt a bit itchy throat as well, though it felt more like I've been out in the cold not properly dressed and/or allergy stuff so I hope mine doesn't get worse. Might stay home tomorrow for safety measures though.
 
"... If you have cold urticaria, exposure to these cold temperatures causes your body to release histamines, which triggers symptoms. "
"...
going outside in frigid weather
swimming or bathing in cold water"

okay damn this might be cold allergy/urticaria then, cause i swear every single time it changes temps drastically here i get like allergy symptoms and fake colds...and i was out last thursday swimming (inside) AND it was cold 🤔
 
my throat feels worse ,, going to the doctor soon 😭 i think i might have to get covid tested just to be safe but i hope everything goes well and i don’t test positive; i don’t see why i would tho
Good luck at the doctor! Remember that other pathogens haven't disappeared so chances are it could be something else.

My throat is extremely irritated from hayfever at the moment so I've been coughing a lot and spooking people. 👻
 
Ouch :( Definitely hoping it's not covid-19, those tests are just ugh and I'd hate getting a stick up my brain ;;
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Felt a bit itchy throat as well, though it felt more like I've been out in the cold not properly dressed and/or allergy stuff so I hope mine doesn't get worse. Might stay home tomorrow for safety measures though.
Good luck at the doctor! Remember that other pathogens haven't disappeared so chances are it could be something else.

My throat is extremely irritated from hayfever at the moment so I've been coughing a lot and spooking people. 👻
thank u guys! luckily it wasn’t covid, but i’m going to the doctor again later today to see what i actually have going on 😖 also hope you guys feel better as well 💕
 
thank u guys! luckily it wasn’t covid, but i’m going to the doctor again later today to see what i actually have going on 😖 also hope you guys feel better as well 💕
nps ❤

oof, hope it's nothing too serious!

throat itch is almost gone but i think it ****ed up my nostrils with rhinitis lol
 
Also yeah feeling better, throat is not itching and my nostrils doesn't hurt and stuff but I'll probs stay home tomorrow for safety purposes and not to pass on stuff even if it's nothing serious.
 
Okay, so my best friend of four years that ghosted me for like a year and a half, sent me a message last night. I was kind of scared to open it, but I read it this morning when I woke up.

She basically said “omg I’m so sorry, I’m not dead, I got locked out of my snap here add my new one.”

Idk, it felt like she was making a joke out of it. But I know that if two people were friends that long, it would leave the other one devastated if one just ghosted. Her explanation seems kinda weird though. She could have added me on her new account as someone she referred to as her best friend? It went from like non stop conversations to just nothing. It was a vanishing act. I don’t want to push for further explanation but it just doesn’t make sense? She had my phone number too and didn’t reach out to that? 😰😖😞 I’m more speechless than anything.
 
My so called "best friend" seems to be giving zero ****s about my wellbeing and that makes me actually pretty sad. Actually non of the small amount of friends that I have ever seemed to bother asking how I am or just in general send a message. Like okay.. I was always there for them and as always that's what I get back, I guess.. idk, I feel like just cutting them out completely currently. They probably wouldn't even notice, as I'm apparently a ghost to them anyways.. unless they need to rent about something of course..
 
Didn't get any sleep and hearing my dad eat breakfast with the sound of silverware scratching across plates is about the last thing I need to hear right now. I'm really hoping today is a peaceful day... I'm tired of all the **** that's been happening in my life lately.
 
Okay, so my best friend of four years that ghosted me for like a year and a half, sent me a message last night. I was kind of scared to open it, but I read it this morning when I woke up.

She basically said “omg I’m so sorry, I’m not dead, I got locked out of my snap here add my new one.”

Idk, it felt like she was making a joke out of it. But I know that if two people were friends that long, it would leave the other one devastated if one just ghosted. Her explanation seems kinda weird though. She could have added me on her new account as someone she referred to as her best friend? It went from like non stop conversations to just nothing. It was a vanishing act. I don’t want to push for further explanation but it just doesn’t make sense? She had my phone number too and didn’t reach out to that? 😰😖😞 I’m more speechless than anything.
She doesn’t sound like a great person and the perfect example of a toxic friend if I’m brutally honest. It’s not okay to ghost someone out of the blue and then expect everything to be as it was before with a casual apology a year or so alongside a new link to her snap (I’m assuming you mean SnapChat).

It sounds like she wants as many “friends” as possible to make herself feel more popular and validated when she posts on social media. To me that’s a really sad way to live and one day she’ll end up with less friends because of her poor attitude towards friendships. You deserve better from a friend and she certainly doesn’t deserve you.
 
Thanks for taking the time to respond to me! I really appreciate it. It was Snapchat, yes. I did feel like she was making a joke with her apology and there was a complete lack of an explanation, because I thought she would’ve added her supposed best friend when she made a new account. It makes no sense, really. I definitely agree with what you said, and there’s probably more to why she just now reached out to me and most likely to make herself feel better. Very poor friend, in my opinion.
 
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