Thanks Dun, I definitely rushed their introduction too fast. Sorry to hear about your neighbours cats. Did you ever manage to get them to come inside? I don't think Baby will ever want to come back inside after this, she's already afraid of the front door now so her food bowl is at the bottom of the steps. I'll just keep an eye on her for now.ugh this upsets me so much.that’s kind of you to look after the kitty; yeah next time you need to keep them separated before introducing. we made the same mistake when we took into two cats our neighbors let out and claimed wasn’t theirs so they didn’t beed to feed them. it ruined my cats relationships with each other and furniture too :/
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Dunquixote
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This was sometime back in high school—many years ago. we found a no kill shelter that found new homes for them.
i just went to visit my kittens and i saw my little one eating something on my dad’s plate and i asked what it was and it was a cookie! my kittens and cats should not eat that. he wasn’t even watching her 
. I told my mom and she said she will move them in her room until it is time to introduce them if he does that again. i can’t trust my dad at all
. I told my mom and she said she will move them in her room until it is time to introduce them if he does that again. i can’t trust my dad at all
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sleepydreepy
legendary egg
I'm starting to realize that a toxic relationship I was in kinda f'd me up, even though this was years ago. I guess I never really processed it and just tried to shove it to the side and move on
ali.di.magix
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someone give me motivation to finish this stupid report 
also I know that I've already talked about this at least a few times, but I really don't know what date I should book a flight back from my hometown. I just don't want my visit down there to be the same as last weekend. I want to enjoy my time down there and not be stressed. If my dad is going to be like he was, I'd rather spend the christmas holiday break by myself. I still haven't told anyone how much of a wake up call it was being back at home again and how it brought so much trauma back. I can't tell anyone about it. If I told my mum, guilt would just tear her apart and she'd be upset. I can't tell my brother as he'd likely tell my mum and they'd both be upset. I can't tell my grandparents as I don't think my grandma has the mental capacity to process what I'd say, and she would also likely tell my mum about it.
It just hurts to lie about it. My parents and brother have asked "oh what's it like being back in (current city I'm living in)? Are you coping okay? Is everything alright?", and I have to pretend like I miss being back home.
also I know that I've already talked about this at least a few times, but I really don't know what date I should book a flight back from my hometown. I just don't want my visit down there to be the same as last weekend. I want to enjoy my time down there and not be stressed. If my dad is going to be like he was, I'd rather spend the christmas holiday break by myself. I still haven't told anyone how much of a wake up call it was being back at home again and how it brought so much trauma back. I can't tell anyone about it. If I told my mum, guilt would just tear her apart and she'd be upset. I can't tell my brother as he'd likely tell my mum and they'd both be upset. I can't tell my grandparents as I don't think my grandma has the mental capacity to process what I'd say, and she would also likely tell my mum about it.
It just hurts to lie about it. My parents and brother have asked "oh what's it like being back in (current city I'm living in)? Are you coping okay? Is everything alright?", and I have to pretend like I miss being back home.
Millysaurusrexjr
standing on business
you know how you draw a really good eye but then you go to draw the other and it's just not right?
i'm really feelin' that right now
i'm really feelin' that right now
Yup… naturally, it’s easier to draw eyes or anything else on your dominant side. It just takes practice, I suppose.
Yeah I can't just draw two eyes identical no matter side though lol.
anyway, this questchain in a game i play like pls let me finish lol
i didn’t have any time to participate in the halloween event and it kinda sucks :/ and the only area i unlocked was the study and i can’t figure out the clues for the life of me and i feel dumb compared to everyone else who has already figured them out lol :’)
Dunquixote
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I could barely force myself to get up today. My depression is getting as bad as it was in high school and college. I have two more prompts to do for this event but had we not just bought some things for it, as much as I want the collectibles, I just don’t think I can push myself to do the rest of the event.
Last night i spent a lot of time making something to go with one of my creations and found out the ink was dried up or i was out of ink after I printed it
Last night i spent a lot of time making something to go with one of my creations and found out the ink was dried up or i was out of ink after I printed it
VanitasFan26
I'm just a ghost.
Ugh, I am just through with Nookazon. That site is just an utter hell place for trading. I had to put up with such people who constantly take forever to even do trades. I have to put with them telling me to wait because they are doing trades, then I have to tell the other person who wants to trade with me to wait because I have to deal with so many other people wanting to trade with me. It is such a headache and I am mentally exhausted for putting up with this nonsense.
Someone gave me a 3 star review because I was "kinda rude" despite me being real and honest of what was going on but they seemed impatient. That was the straw that broke the camels back for me. I deleted my account because I've just had enough of this nonsense. Who would've thought trading on this game could be one of the hardest things to do. It doesn't matter anymore to me. Since I finally got rid of my Nookazon I account I feel so much better not having to trade on that site anymore. Fed up of getting abusive reviews and just fed up of dealing with people who are just so unprepared to do any trade. I can only be so patient up until I have to do to bed.
I had to get this out of my chest, because this has been just as bad as it was last year for me. I tried to give this site another change and I thought it would be easy for me to trade with no problems, but no matter hard I do it, it just becomes more chaos for me and I am not going to go through this a 3rd time. I am done. Just so done.
Someone gave me a 3 star review because I was "kinda rude" despite me being real and honest of what was going on but they seemed impatient. That was the straw that broke the camels back for me. I deleted my account because I've just had enough of this nonsense. Who would've thought trading on this game could be one of the hardest things to do. It doesn't matter anymore to me. Since I finally got rid of my Nookazon I account I feel so much better not having to trade on that site anymore. Fed up of getting abusive reviews and just fed up of dealing with people who are just so unprepared to do any trade. I can only be so patient up until I have to do to bed.
I had to get this out of my chest, because this has been just as bad as it was last year for me. I tried to give this site another change and I thought it would be easy for me to trade with no problems, but no matter hard I do it, it just becomes more chaos for me and I am not going to go through this a 3rd time. I am done. Just so done.
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everything has been sucking lately i cant do the cool bell tree halloween event cuz im way too busy and my grades are suffering, although i have no one else to blame but myself for that but i kinda blame the school board too like they made the worse learning module ever wtf
also i just noticed my sig is all messed up but i cant be bothered to change it rn
i cant do the cool bell tree halloween event cuz im way too busy and my grades are suffering, although i have no one else to blame but myself for that also i just noticed my sig is all messed up but i cant be bothered to change it rn
Hopeless Opus
diluc is my king
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spawnpoint
IT'S TV TIME!
im rlly worried abt one of my best friends :C
I’ve reflected a lot these past several days and I’ve realized some rather unsavory things about myself.
I have never felt empathy. By that I mean the ability to put myself in someone else’s shoes. Unless someone is going through something I’ve experienced I can’t comprehend how they feel. I can recognize people’s feelings on a technical level, but not on an emotional one. This is really distressing. I want to connect with others on an emotional level. It’s just that this one thing holds me back constantly. That leads me to my other realization.
I’ve never had a healthy romantic attachment with someone before. All I’ve ever felt were either crushes or unhealthy obsessions. The latter led me to an abusive relationship. I looked back at my past and realized I rarely witnessed a healthy relationship. As a result I fall into unhealthy infatuations. I can’t help but wonder if the lack of empathy, autism, and childhood trauma are why I struggle to maintain connections.
A therapist would help, but I can’t find any that support my insurance. I really need to hurry. These terrible five years need to end…
I’ve never had a healthy romantic attachment with someone before. All I’ve ever felt were either crushes or unhealthy obsessions. The latter led me to an abusive relationship. I looked back at my past and realized I rarely witnessed a healthy relationship. As a result I fall into unhealthy infatuations. I can’t help but wonder if the lack of empathy, autism, and childhood trauma are why I struggle to maintain connections.
A therapist would help, but I can’t find any that support my insurance. I really need to hurry. These terrible five years need to end…
ali.di.magix
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my friend's Halloween parties are posted all over social media and now I'm sad because I missed out on my best friend's party :c
Orius
The People's Champion
Yeah, that can feel awful depending on how close you are with your friend. I've had my share of feeling left out before, but I would usually pick myself up again by something fun that I would enjoy. I mean, so what if my parents (or anyone else for that matter) no longer celebrate my birthday every year anymore? So what if I don't get invited to cool parties? I actually like the solitude quite a bit, so if people want to leave me out, then all the better for it. I have my own fun activities to do like catching up with TV shows.
Honestly, people are not worth fretting about, especially people who don't care about your happiness.
