What's Bothering You?
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Firesquids
☆ Roxie of Avalar ☆
My new kitten is not getting along great with my dog, they're both scared of eachother. I just want to sit on the couch and snuggle with them both without a fight breaking out >>
it’s been dark and cloudy all day which usually does it
My parents: We're not against trans stuff
*continues to say some transphobic stuff
'They can live their life how they want and go by whatever name they want'
*says more transphobic stuff
'You can't deny facts'
*says more phobic stuff
Like, this is why I'm never coming out as non-binary to them, I'll never tell them my chosen name and I prob won't come out as pan to them either. They wouldn't understand, and it's not like I haven't tried. Both my sister and I have tried to have civil discussions about this but they always revert to their way of thinking. They act like boomers but they're in their 40s. I'll prob not even say I'm pansexual either cause that falls in the category of not being a binary gender (as in who I might be dating at the time if they aren't cis). Which would then mean I would kinda have to hide when I do date, and I already know how they would react to that
They pry in our business behind our backs and go throu our things. Our life is their business. Which, okay, they are our parents but we are both young adults. I don't need to tell you every damn detail of everythin. I am allowed to live my life with privacy and not them asking questions and needing to know everythin. It is literally no concern who I date. If I make a bad choice, that is my choice to deal with.
It also sucks cause they barely let us have any damn independence. Like, I can't drive my ****in car cause they refuse to teach me. I ask them to teach me and they say 'you already know how to drive it you just need to be more vigilant when you drive'. Okay?! I am certainly not doing that here, sitting on my *** at the kitchen table asking you to take me out driving! Also, I haven't drove my car in OVER TWO YEARS. I DON'T REMEMBER WHAT THE BUTTONS DO. It's not like I can just get an instructor either cause they would just get mad at me. Anytime I want to go somewhere I have to pester my mom to take me. Which she gets annoyed with. So sorry I have a life outside of my job, which btw you don't have, and I want to do things on my time off. If I could drive my own damn car I bought with my own damn money that I have a damn learners permit for this would not be an issue! But then that opens a whole new thing for me to just drive when I want and be my own damn person. Which they wouldn't have. Cause God forbid I act like the young adult I am (or are tryin to be in some aspects) and drive myself places or do things on my own, without the need of a chauffer.
*continues to say some transphobic stuff
'They can live their life how they want and go by whatever name they want'
*says more transphobic stuff
'You can't deny facts'
*says more phobic stuff
Like, this is why I'm never coming out as non-binary to them, I'll never tell them my chosen name and I prob won't come out as pan to them either. They wouldn't understand, and it's not like I haven't tried. Both my sister and I have tried to have civil discussions about this but they always revert to their way of thinking. They act like boomers but they're in their 40s. I'll prob not even say I'm pansexual either cause that falls in the category of not being a binary gender (as in who I might be dating at the time if they aren't cis). Which would then mean I would kinda have to hide when I do date, and I already know how they would react to that
They pry in our business behind our backs and go throu our things. Our life is their business. Which, okay, they are our parents but we are both young adults. I don't need to tell you every damn detail of everythin. I am allowed to live my life with privacy and not them asking questions and needing to know everythin. It is literally no concern who I date. If I make a bad choice, that is my choice to deal with.It also sucks cause they barely let us have any damn independence. Like, I can't drive my ****in car cause they refuse to teach me. I ask them to teach me and they say 'you already know how to drive it you just need to be more vigilant when you drive'. Okay?! I am certainly not doing that here, sitting on my *** at the kitchen table asking you to take me out driving! Also, I haven't drove my car in OVER TWO YEARS. I DON'T REMEMBER WHAT THE BUTTONS DO. It's not like I can just get an instructor either cause they would just get mad at me. Anytime I want to go somewhere I have to pester my mom to take me. Which she gets annoyed with. So sorry I have a life outside of my job, which btw you don't have, and I want to do things on my time off. If I could drive my own damn car I bought with my own damn money that I have a damn learners permit for this would not be an issue! But then that opens a whole new thing for me to just drive when I want and be my own damn person. Which they wouldn't have. Cause God forbid I act like the young adult I am (or are tryin to be in some aspects) and drive myself places or do things on my own, without the need of a chauffer.
xSuperMario64x
love of my life 💙💜
i really do enjoy hand sewing but jesus 15 minutes of hand sewing could literally only take 15 secoonds if i could figure out how to fix my stupid sewing machine 
I'm surprised my hands aren't cramping cause I've been at this for at least the last 2-3 hours.
I'm surprised my hands aren't cramping cause I've been at this for at least the last 2-3 hours.
Dunquixote
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I’m sorry to hear that
. Did you have the two separated before introducing them? If it isn’t too late, maybe you could try keeping them in two different areas or lock one up in one room and have them lay on a towel or something and then switch it with each other to get each other used to the other’s scent.
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xSuperMario64x
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I want to keep working on this dress but not only is it midnight, my back actually feels like it's about to snap in half haha 
Firesquids
☆ Roxie of Avalar ☆
Yeah, I had the kitten in another room for a whole month, they're slowly getting better just many hisses along the way lolI’m sorry to hear that
Dunquixote
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i stayed up too late.
still no luck with my gacha game.
anxious about going out to get stuff for my last two entries. Really don’t want to leave the house :/
still no luck with my gacha game.
anxious about going out to get stuff for my last two entries. Really don’t want to leave the house :/
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depressed, tired and crabby.
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Dawnpiplup
Kick ass.
Don't go "No **** Sherlock" on me, but life is hard. Just wanted to say it.
Pretty sure the lady that moved out across the street left her 13 year old cat behind. I haven't seen the lady or her vehicle in over a week and every morning when I open the door, her cat named Baby is sitting on my steps. I give the cat food twice a day and tried to bring Baby into my house but my cat Lydia attacked her and they had a loud cat fight, which was my fault. Now poor Baby sleeps outside every night and I towel dry her in the morning cause it's always raining. I could call the animal shelter but I just wanna make sure she wasn't left to any other neighbour before I call.
Dunquixote
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ugh this upsets me so much.
that’s kind of you to look after the kitty; yeah next time you need to keep them separated before introducing. we made the same mistake when we took into two cats our neighbors let out and claimed wasn’t theirs so they didn’t beed to feed them. it ruined my cats relationships with each other and furniture too :/Similar threads
