When parents' insist their child is badly behaved "because they're autistic", as in they sit around diagnosing their kids, like they're qualified to do that. The same people will often try to bulldoze their way to a diagnosis too (so some kids end up diagnosed with things they don't have), meanwhile raising the kid to just excuse all their bad behaviour as "autism" and therefore never learn accountability.
Honestly, I could tell people things my son does and people would tell me "These are signs of autism", but pssshhh, he's just a little weirdo and a very happy, confident one at that, so why would I want a label slapped onto him that I don't believe, nor want him to fall back on? Some kids are just a bit "weird", like mine. They're different. Different doesn't mean something's wrong. Embrace the weirdness and discourage bad behaviour and see what happens. It could be beautiful.
Honestly, I could tell people things my son does and people would tell me "These are signs of autism", but pssshhh, he's just a little weirdo and a very happy, confident one at that, so why would I want a label slapped onto him that I don't believe, nor want him to fall back on? Some kids are just a bit "weird", like mine. They're different. Different doesn't mean something's wrong. Embrace the weirdness and discourage bad behaviour and see what happens. It could be beautiful.