I rarely ever make my bed. It wasn’t something that I was ever told or expected to do growing up, and it was something that I only saw other people do on TV, so I never got into the habit of doing it. It still feels silly and like an unnecessary chore to have to do each day, especially since I’m the only one who sleeps in my bed and the only person who goes in my room, but I can appreciate that others do it and that it’s an important part of their routine for them.
I of course tidy up my bed every day or as needed though, if that counts. I just don’t tuck my blanket in or arrange my pillows/plushies in a neat or aesthetic way. For me, tidying up/making my bed entails returning my body pillow and my regular pillow to the position that I like them to be in when I’m resting in bed/going to sleep, making sure my blanket is entirely on my bed and that no part of it is touching the floor, and that all of my plushies are on the side of my bed and that none of them are in the spot that I lay down in or in the space between my bed and the wall. I don’t think doing any of that equates to making my bed, but if it does, I guess I do make my bed LOL
I just don’t see a reason for my bed to look neat and untouched as if it’s a hotel bed or something, especially since like I said, I’m the only one who sleeps in it and the only one who has to look at it. For me, it’s more comforting for me to come home to a bed that looks like it’s been slept in (by me), rather than a bed that looks like I’ve never laid in it. My bed the way I have it and keep it is more familiar and comforting to me. The most important thing to me is that my bedsheet, blanket and pillows are clean, which I ensure that they are. Cleanliness is more important than presentation to me when it comes to my bed.