I love him, he loves me not...UnRequited love much?

[Josh]

Well, first thing's first -- you don't love him. The sooner you drop the "love" attitude, the easier it will be to talk to him.

True... I guess I'm like most girls in my school then, thinking they love someone.
New aim, just talk to him and become friends not lovers!

You can still like have a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship, Bul is just saying that you should act like you don't love him or else you'll drive him away like what Ciaran said, Don't do it. He'll think you're obsessed and the that'll end like a 3-5 day relationship.

Anyway, Good again I love helping people which this ^_^

 

[Ciaran]

What you should do is, go on his facebook page, like every status update he ever posted and comment on them all saying 'LOL!! =3!!! <3<3 <(")!!! <3'. That will show him that you're interested in him, and that you think he's funny.
Then you should phone him at 3 in the morning and proclaim your love for him, he'll be impressed at the lengths you went through to contact him and it will bar a guaranteed yes!


If that fails then just get some chloroform.

>.> I don't have his phone number...yet.

That's the only thing stopping you from doing it???

 

[Garrett x50 cal]

Anyway, try asking him on Facebook first. It's easier than doing it in person, and usually more comfortable, for both people.

Especially the no.

 

[Rocketman]

What if he's...um, in with the birdies and the bees?

Oh wait, you're a she? Third time this week that's happened.

Maybe I should pay attention to the gender polls we seem to have around here so much.

 

[PaJami]

I find it easy to talk to people on Facebook (I sort of have the same situation as you xD) If they're on, just say hi. Ask how their day was, what homework they have, what they're doing... Just be yourself. And if you see them at school, say hi every once in awhile.

 

[Lisathegreat!]

Well, what I would do is kinda stalk him. Find out who he really is, what he likes, etc.

Try to be someone you know he would like. Then "accidently" talk to him. Like, what they usually do, throw a pencil on the floor & make him get it.

Or just say talk to him a lot on Facebook, like what do his statuses usually say?
Try to make him intrested in you.

(I suck at advice, so I wouldn't recommend mine first D

But, like Micah said. DON'T take Ciaran's advice.

Bul, she obviously doesn't mean "I love him so much, I want to have sex with him to show you I'm not lying! =D"
Or anything like that. She means she likes him in a diffrent way xD

Everyone says they love someone sometime meaning "like like" .

But yeah, I would try to at least catch his attention in some way, don't just tell him out of no where "I like you, wanna go out?". You should wait till it's a %99 chance he likes you. c:

 

[Mino]

First of all, are you sure that he's gay/bi? 'Cause if he's not...well, asking him out isn't a very good idea, lol.

I'm a girl, he's a guy...thats how it works...sometimes.

LOLOLOLOL... OL.

 

[Horus]

First of all, are you sure that he's gay/bi? 'Cause if he's not...well, asking him out isn't a very good idea, lol.

I'm a girl, he's a guy...thats how it works...sometimes.

I'm already annoying my friends, I keep on talking about him...all the time.

Oh, wait, what? o_o I thought you were a guy... XD Okay, sorry, never mind. XD

Cocky gay kids. (Pun intended!)

OT: If you like, I'm here if you want to practice anything...

 

[Lisathegreat!]

First of all, are you sure that he's gay/bi? 'Cause if he's not...well, asking him out isn't a very good idea, lol.

I'm a girl, he's a guy...thats how it works...sometimes.

I'm already annoying my friends, I keep on talking about him...all the time.

Oh, wait, what? o_o I thought you were a guy... XD Okay, sorry, never mind. XD

Cocky gay kids. (Pun intended!)

OT: If you like, I'm here if you want to practice anything...

ohu.

Heeeey, I agree with Jami. Start low.

 

[kalinn]

First of all, are you sure that he's gay/bi? 'Cause if he's not...well, asking him out isn't a very good idea, lol.

I'm a girl, he's a guy...thats how it works...sometimes.

I lol'd.



But idk. Don't take my advice cause it doesn't even work for myself. So i'm not even going to give you advice..
Just I don't agree at all with Lisa.. Be yourself, not act like someone you think he might like.

 

[MasterM64]

What if he's...um, in with the birdies and the bees?

Oh wait, you're a she? Third time this week that's happened.

Maybe I should pay attention to the gender polls we seem to have around here so much.

That's the reason why we need a Gender Profile Field, I think Jeremy(aka Storm) mentioned a Gender Profile Field being a possibility a year ago...

@TheDoctor: I suggest you to do this: Become best friends first then go from there. If you do it this way, you can easily back off if you don't like something about him.

 

[AndyB]

@TheDoctor: I suggest you to do this: Become best friends first then go from there. If you do it this way, you can easily back off if you don't like something about him.

Best friends? No no. I'd stay clear of best friends, as that can lead into all kinds of awkward situations and just that general "friend zone" that people get stuck in when wanting to move forward.

Anything more I'd say was already covered in my first post.

 

[muffun]

First of all, are you sure that he's gay/bi? 'Cause if he's not...well, asking him out isn't a very good idea, lol.

I'm a girl, he's a guy...thats how it works...sometimes.

lols.

Get to know the kid, then make yo' move.

 

[Bacon Boy]

@TheDoctor: I suggest you to do this: Become best friends first then go from there. If you do it this way, you can easily back off if you don't like something about him.

Best friends? No no. I'd stay clear of best friends, as that can lead into all kinds of awkward situations and just that general "friend zone" that people get stuck in when wanting to move forward.

Anything more I'd say was already covered in my first post.

I agree. Then he'll only ever see you as a best friend. If you tried to ask him out, it'd be awkward.

 

[Lisathegreat!]

First of all, are you sure that he's gay/bi? 'Cause if he's not...well, asking him out isn't a very good idea, lol.

I'm a girl, he's a guy...thats how it works...sometimes.

I lol'd.



But idk. Don't take my advice cause it doesn't even work for myself. So i'm not even going to give you advice..
Just I don't agree at all with Lisa.. Be yourself, not act like someone you think he might like.

Like I said, I suck with advice haha xD

But, if it's someone you actually want to be & that you're comfortable with, then yeah, I guess, just don't turn into a football player or anything.

;D

 

[Rocketman]

What if he's...um, in with the birdies and the bees?

Oh wait, you're a she? Third time this week that's happened.

Maybe I should pay attention to the gender polls we seem to have around here so much.

That's the reason why we need a Gender Profile Field, I think Jeremy(aka Storm) mentioned a Gender Profile Field being a possibility a year ago...

@TheDoctor: I suggest you to do this: Become best friends first then go from there. If you do it this way, you can easily back off if you don't like something about him.

Might as well as in a Sexuality Preference field while we're at it. Jk'n here.

 

[Psychonaut]

if you're a bit shy/don't have a time you can talk to him about it, you could ask if he could stay after class to help you with X project, or something (via facebook) and then get to know him or something.

like the last few posts said, don't go into the friend zone, that's a *censored.4.0* to get out of. just try and become closer friends, do stuff together, and try not to just be neutral. if he doesn't notice you, try a bit, instead of giving up. that isn't to say you should over do it, but don't just give up.

don't build it/him up, just treat him like everyone else, until you're alone/one on one, if you ever are. at that point, again, don't over do it, especially if you get no positive feedback from him, but make your feelings known, either subtly or more bluntly, if he doesn't get it.

he might feel the same, and be too shy. just sayin.

 

[MasterM64]

@TheDoctor: I suggest you to do this: Become best friends first then go from there. If you do it this way, you can easily back off if you don't like something about him.

Best friends? No no. I'd stay clear of best friends, as that can lead into all kinds of awkward situations and just that general "friend zone" that people get stuck in when wanting to move forward.

Anything more I'd say was already covered in my first post.

I agree. Then he'll only ever see you as a best friend. If you tried to ask him out, it'd be awkward.

I take that back Bacon Boy, becoming best friends can really lead you to knowing almost everything about that person which can make asking that person out easy which can save you a lot of trouble but, Then again, being general friends would work also.

@TheDoctor: I recommend you become friends first with this person before you ask him out, just don't blurt it out.

 

[Gnome]

What if he's...um, in with the birdies and the bees?

Oh wait, you're a she? Third time this week that's happened.

Maybe I should pay attention to the gender polls we seem to have around here so much.

That's the reason why we need a Gender Profile Field, I think Jeremy(aka Storm) mentioned a Gender Profile Field being a possibility a year ago...

@TheDoctor: I suggest you to do this: Become best friends first then go from there. If you do it this way, you can easily back off if you don't like something about him.

That's the opposite of what you're supposed to do.

 

[Tyeforce]

Anyway, try asking him on Facebook first. It's easier than doing it in person, and usually more comfortable, for both people.

Especially the no.

What?