I love him, he loves me not...UnRequited love much?

[Colour Bandit]

Okay, there this guy at school that I like, as in like like...anyway, he's in my Biology, Chemistry, Physics, ICT and RE classes. I want to talk to him, so much, but other people always interrupt me, but I don't want to shout to him "I love you!!Will you go out with me?!" because well, it's not in my nature to act like that.

Basically I want to talk to him and tell him how I feel. (The last time I felt this way toward a guy was four years ago...) We're facebook friends as well, it says that he's single, but all I've ever brought myself to do was like his posts...

I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!! Please help me...I want to know whether he likes me or whether we could just be friends...but I can't bring myself to talk to him...

 

[Tyeforce]

First of all, are you sure that he's gay/bi? 'Cause if he's not...well, asking him out isn't a very good idea, lol.

 

[Colour Bandit]

First of all, are you sure that he's gay/bi? 'Cause if he's not...well, asking him out isn't a very good idea, lol.

I'm a girl, he's a guy...thats how it works...sometimes.

I'm already annoying my friends, I keep on talking about him...all the time.

 

[Tyeforce]

First of all, are you sure that he's gay/bi? 'Cause if he's not...well, asking him out isn't a very good idea, lol.

I'm a girl, he's a guy...thats how it works...sometimes.

I'm already annoying my friends, I keep on talking about him...all the time.

Oh, wait, what? o_o I thought you were a guy... XD Okay, sorry, never mind. XD

 

[AndyB]

Talk to him. That's the only way anything is going to come from it.
As to what to say, all I'd suggest is just finding a connection. between you both. (Tv shows, music whatever it may be.) And that is all I have to say

 

[Tyeforce]

Anyway, try asking him on Facebook first. It's easier than doing it in person, and usually more comfortable, for both people.

 

[Colour Bandit]

Anyway, try asking him on Facebook first. It's easier than doing it in person, and usually more comfortable, for both people.

But what do I say? He likes some TV shows and Bands that I like...(Thank you facebook info!) I forgot how complicated boys are...

 

[Micah]

I guess I'd just say that attraction =/= love, but I get what you're saying.

Yeah, there's no harm in just asking. Go for it.

 

[Micah]

Anyway, try asking him on Facebook first. It's easier than doing it in person, and usually more comfortable, for both people.

But what do I say? He likes some TV shows and Bands that I like...(Thank you facebook info!) I forgot how complicated boys are...

Strike up a conversation about the things that interest you both. Trust me, it works wonders breaking the ice when you like someone.

 

[Colour Bandit]

We've got Biology tomorrow, just after lunch, so I'll talk to him before class...I think I'll just start off with "Hi." and build up from there...

Edit: He's not on Facebook right now...I wanted to talk to him on that too.

 

[Mr. L]

Ask him he wants to hang out sometime and before you know it you'll be good friends, then build up from there.

 

[Josh]

This is what I say.

Become his friend, Ask others who are his friend about him and what his likes and dislikes are. Don't go straight for it within like 1 week. Make sure he's really your friend as in he greets you and well, treats you the same as if he would treat his friends.

He may of course like you back after lets say, 1-2months but you'll just have to be patient. Don't make it obviously that you like him, Or else he'll feel like you're just being his friend because of that (which you may, depends how much you like him).

Anyway, Good luck.

P.S (Can you socialize? Also is he 'Popular'? or whatever people it call these days).

 

[Colour Bandit]

This is what I say.

Become his friend, Ask others who are his friend about him and what his likes and dislikes are. Don't go straight for it within like 1 week. Make sure he's really your friend as in he greets you and well, treats you the same as if he would treat his friends.

He may of course like you back after lets say, 1-2months but you'll just have to be patient. Don't make it obviously that you like him, Or else he'll feel like you're just being his friend because of that (which you may, depends how much you like him).

Anyway, Good luck.

P.S (Can you socialize? Also is he 'Popular'? or whatever people it call these days).

I wouldn't say that he's extremely popular but he has a lot of friends, I'm not really good with socializing, I have a group of close friends who I've known since year 7.

The most recent time that he talked to me was during Biology, I was stuck on a GCSE question but he explained it to me; he's a nice guy, holding doors open for people, that sort of thing.
Even he doesn't fancy me I hope that we could be friends.

 

[Ciaran]

What you should do is, go on his facebook page, like every status update he ever posted and comment on them all saying 'LOL!! =3!!! <3<3 <(")!!! <3'. That will show him that you're interested in him, and that you think he's funny.
Then you should phone him at 3 in the morning and proclaim your love for him, he'll be impressed at the lengths you went through to contact him and it will bar a guaranteed yes!


If that fails then just get some chloroform.

 

[Colour Bandit]

What you should do is, go on his facebook page, like every status update he ever posted and comment on them all saying 'LOL!! =3!!! <3<3 <(")!!! <3'. That will show him that you're interested in him, and that you think he's funny.
Then you should phone him at 3 in the morning and proclaim your love for him, he'll be impressed at the lengths you went through to contact him and it will bar a guaranteed yes!


If that fails then just get some chloroform.

>.> I don't have his phone number...yet.

 

[Bulerias]

Well, first thing's first -- you don't love him. The sooner you drop the "love" attitude, the easier it will be to talk to him.

 

[Colour Bandit]

Well, first thing's first -- you don't love him. The sooner you drop the "love" attitude, the easier it will be to talk to him.

True... I guess I'm like most girls in my school then, thinking they love someone.
New aim, just talk to him and become friends not lovers!

 

[Ciaran]

Well, first thing's first -- you don't love him. The sooner you drop the "love" attitude, the easier it will be to talk to him.

True... I guess I'm like most girls in my school then, thinking they love someone.
New aim, just talk to him and become friends not lovers!

So... You're a quitter?

Pfft.

 

[Colour Bandit]

Well, first thing's first -- you don't love him. The sooner you drop the "love" attitude, the easier it will be to talk to him.

True... I guess I'm like most girls in my school then, thinking they love someone.
New aim, just talk to him and become friends not lovers!

So... You're a quitter?

Pfft.

I'm not quitting, just altering my aim, plus knowing me I wouldn't be able to hold up a stable relationship.

 

[Micah]

Whatever you do, don't follow Ciaran's advice.