Does anyone else hate hanging out with people?

[laurenx]

i don't like hanging out with just one person

 

[Jake]

it depends what we're doing, where we're going, who i'm with, etc... i'm really picky

like often when we drive places, if i'm not driving then they'll just blast music out, which annoys me because like if i want to listen to music i'll go to a party of listen to it in my room because i can do that whenever i want, but when i'm with my friends i want to chill and talk because i can't do that whenever i want. same when we watch TV. sometimes they'll just watch TV or a movie and i'm like if i want to do this i'll do it in my own time I just want to hang with my friends and talk and chill

other than that I'm p chill whenever we do something

 

[brutalitea]

I don't have any friends so I really don't know whether I like hanging out with people or not.

 

[HungryForCereal]

i love hanging out with friends but i'd hate it if my friends come over and do what you stated. i'd probably just chase them out of the damn house, like it or not.

 

[Celestefey]

I do sometimes hate hanging out with friends, I think it depends on how I'm feeling. Sometimes I feel a bit more quiet and I just want my alone time, so actually having to spend time around other people is not enjoyable for me and if anything just makes me feel all irritated and upset. But other times I enjoy hanging out with friends and it is fun, however there can come a point after a while where I just need to go home. Like, if we've been out for ages, after some time I just want to go back home and have my alone time. It's nothing against my friends, it's just I'm quite introverted, and they can understand that.

I have quite a few friends who just come over though and all they do is sit and text (they have boyfriends lmao so, I guess that kind of explains why they're always on their phones). They don't really bother to talk to me, and I don't really know what to do with them anyway. We don't really share any hobbies so sometimes it can be awkward. We'll usually end up watching some crappy reality TV show because I can never make my mind up on what to watch and then they just end up googling something and we watch that (I remember once my friend made me watch Keeping up with the Kardashians and I felt like the life was draining out of me... It was really really bad and boring). It can be a bit boring and sometimes I just wish they'd go home when they're like that. I do have a few friends who I can play like videogames with and stuff but they're not really any good so I end up beating them... It's just not as fun I suppose, I mean, I'm not bitter about it, but it just would be more enjoyable if we were at a similar skill level so the games could be a bit more challenging.

 

[leahhhhaaaaa]

I'm kinda weird though. I'd prefer to stay at home and watch films or something than hang around with my friends. But when I don't get invited to anything, I get really angry at them too. Haha!

 

[HopeForHyrule]

I won't say I've ALWAYS been antisocial, but I've certainly turned out that way. I'll go out to a movie or very rarely hang out with people, but I don't have much in common with any of 'em. So I usually just sit there and don't say much.

I've become so socially awkward.

 

[cIementine]

I've recently gotten out of a really bad friendship and friendship group, and my main friend used to invite me places all the time; sometimes every weekend, which was nice at first because when we first became friends i'd never had someone to consistently hang out with. Towards the end it just became really spiteful - she made plans with people just for the sake of excluding someone else, and she spent the whole time slagging everyone off and complaining about people. she controlled every variable from time, place, to who is giving lifts. She never let me do anything with anyone else if she wasn't part of it, notably when she said she couldn't attend a sleepover i'd invited her to because she was too ill and when I told her i'd just make plans with the others to go shopping instead, she insisted she was ok and made a miraculous recovery.
Sometimes I pretended to be ill just so I could get a rest from it all without hurting her feelings. I really hate group outings and feel extremely stressed hosting and attending them. Most of them were one on one outings, but any other ones with more than three people were tragic and started/ended in arguments.

In general, I really hate going out. I see it as a chore and would much rather just stay in all day. besides, I like my own company.

 

[tumut]

I hate parties but I like hanging out with a few friends a couple times a week but we never really do anything too special. For the most part though I enjoy being by myself.