Do you plan to have children or be childfree?

Do you plan to have children or be childfree?

  • I plan to have children

    Votes: 113 51.8%
  • I plan to be childfree

    Votes: 105 48.2%

  • Total voters
    218
Childfree. I do not want the expenses nor do I feel I want them just cause. If a partner can't accept that, their loss. Also this responsibility crap is just bull. And at but not least I hate this society approval that you are not "fully" grown unless you get kids.
 
I don't want children because I don't know how I'd be able to cope. It'd be like living through my life all over again, which isn't bad, but I'll have to see my child struggle through things I had experience with and I really don't want that to happen :(
Plus, I would probably do a horrible job of raising children anyway.
 
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I'm almost 20 years old, so at this point I never want kids.
They're loud, smelly, and I just can't stand them.
I don't know if that will ever change, but right now the thought of having a kid scares the hell out of me.
 
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No I'll never have kids, the emotional and financial responsibility is enormous and I enjoy being by myself too much. I get plenty of exposure to small children and babies from my sisters anyway, having nieces & nephews is quite enough for me - I can spoil them and play with them and at the end of the day someone else has to take care of them so it's like win/win. (And the numerous times I've been drafted to babysit overnight have completely affirmed my aversion to having a child of my own.)
 
I can't decide. I hate kids and rather just skip kids and just be a grandparent already, but I don't want our family to just die off. I don't know, I'd rather not have kids though.
 
Hmm I don't want any kids until I have a career and a well paying job, but then again in my opinion, this world is over populating and the world is too cruel to bring an innocent life and what not. To be honest, I'll rather adopt one than have my own because there are a lot of kids who needs love and someone to take care of them.
 
I love my boyfriend very much. We plan to have two children. There's a possibility of twins so maybe we'll be lucky and have two then be done with it :3 I know kids can be gross, but being a parent is a beautiful thing. As well as it's an added connection with your partner. It's a little version of you and your favourite person in the world ^^ though there is no way I'm pushing the little buggers out. No way. They're coming out my stomach. Idgaf. My boyfriend was like "I don't believe in c-section unless it's medically necessary" and I was like "no uterus - no opinion mate"
 
I don't know whether I want to have kids or not, I'm way too young now and I don't think I want kids (if I do have them I'd rather adopt than have them biologically) but that may change. It bothers me when people put down others for their decisions in this matter (eg "only an idiot would want children, they're so horrible") :(
 
1000% never, 3 reasons
I want to spend my money on myself
that whole labor thing would probably hurt
kids are loud and annoying
 
ughhhhhhhh it is so strange for me seeing so many people i used to go to high school with who have children now. or are pregnant. or are getting married.

i super don't want kids. for a bunch of reasons that i'm not going to be getting into on an animal crossing web forum, but that's besides the point. i like the idea of children. sometimes i wish that i could be the kind of person who would grow up to be a wonderful mother, but the reality is probably going to be me living in some big house being a mega dog mom and i'm okay with that
 
I intend to have children, but not until I am much older and with someone I know that I truly love and will stick with me through it all. There are a lot of things I probably won't like about raising children, but the ability to give life to someone is something I will not be willing to pass up if I can avoid it. I wish to continue my family line and all, but yet I do have a lot of things dealing with having children that I'm not very excited about. I should note I want only two, I don't wish to have more than that.

I don't personally see it as a negative thing that some people don't want children, it's probably for the best in some sense.
 
um i feel like the only one here who'd rather have my own biological kids..
Adopting one would be great, but I feel there's something special about creating your own child with the person you love (not that I've found that person yet), so yeah I'm a bit selfish that way
 
I really want to have kids of my own someday. :O around 2 or 3. But preferably just 2. One boy and girl would be nice. Idk, I like kids a lot. They're so cute and fun to be with. Sure there are times that they'll be annoying little sh*** but I feel like they bring a different joy into your life. Specially as you watch them grow. Plus I wanna give my parents grandchildren of their own. :')
 
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