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Are you in love?

love?

  • I'm in love.

    Votes: 68 49.3%
  • I was in love.

    Votes: 26 18.8%
  • I'm not in love.

    Votes: 44 31.9%

  • Total voters
    138
I don't have a love yet, but I have female friends. Still no girlfriend.

Hopefully I will meet a girl that loves me a lot.
 
To properly answer this question you must first define love. Can you be "in love"?
I'm going to combat the mainstream opinion of love solely being a feeling and say that love is a choice. When you love someone, you are choosing to treat them kindly and interact with them with patience, trust, not rude, and in some cases, full of self-control at their best of times and their worst of times. Love is not easy, simple, nor easily disposable. A true proper relationship, whether or not it's romantic, involves love for the other at all times. For example, I do not get along with very many people on this forum. I do not like these people, but I choose to love them anyway at the best of my ability. Meanwhile, I get along well with my mom, and like her, but I treat her with the same amount of love that I would anyone else, although different levels of affection.
If you have any questions, feel free to shoot me a PM. The way this world views "love" is sick and can usually be considered lust.

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My post TL;DR: your perception of love is incorrect. read my post you lazy swine
 
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