if i may just butt in my own opinion for a second, imo dani isn't trying to "start trouble." they were simply stating whats true. maybe that's just my thinking. and you very much are being rude as well, especially using insults! calling someone a "snarky thread troll" isn't exactly a compliment, so dani isn't the only one who needs to check how they word things. perhaps maybe you just have to change how you read things? there's no real reason to have dani apologize as you were the one who started the fire. and even if they did mean it in a bad way, you're just as guilty for carrying on the rude words.
regardless, it's up to the OP to decide who gets her. whether it be you or the highest bidder. good luck and congratulations to whomever gets her, she's my favourite villager so you wont regret it! (so sorry this happened, OP, and to everyone else. i just wanted to voice this)