I haven’t really thought about this until I referred to one of my coworkers as a friend and paused to think about what I’d said. It made my realize that these friendships formed at work or school are all situational. Once you leave the job or school, you no longer have that one major thing in common and you’ll most likely drift apart. I’ve had people that I was friendly with at work and we no longer talk.
There is a difference between being friendly or cordial, and being friends with someone. You can’t be too careful when trusting people. On being friends with coworkers, I used to be on the other side of the debate, but we are all there for the same reason: to be paid. I don’t think anyone’s intention at work is to make long-lasting friends, but it’s good to remain cordial with everyone. Just be careful who you trust with personal information because some of what the coworkers are telling you about their life probably isn’t true and is just a facade to get you to open up.
It’s rare that friendships last outside of the workplace or outside of school. I’m not saying they don’t, but it’s definitely not likely.
When do you consider someone to be your friend? Where do you draw the line between a friend and just someone you speak to?
There is a difference between being friendly or cordial, and being friends with someone. You can’t be too careful when trusting people. On being friends with coworkers, I used to be on the other side of the debate, but we are all there for the same reason: to be paid. I don’t think anyone’s intention at work is to make long-lasting friends, but it’s good to remain cordial with everyone. Just be careful who you trust with personal information because some of what the coworkers are telling you about their life probably isn’t true and is just a facade to get you to open up.
It’s rare that friendships last outside of the workplace or outside of school. I’m not saying they don’t, but it’s definitely not likely.
When do you consider someone to be your friend? Where do you draw the line between a friend and just someone you speak to?