Your thoughts on the LGBT+ communities.

I think it's great. I used to consider myself asexual. I do find my husband and some women attractive but I'm just not very into sex. When I was younger and not attracted to anything at all, it was nice to have people who wouldn't make fun of me for my lack of drive so to speak.
 
uhhh im somewhere on there, but im not entirely sure yet of where exactly i am. im not really sure how to respond to this? im also not sure whether im classed as lgbt+ because im hetero ace haha
 
My thoughts are that this will be locked...

Seriously though, I've got no problem with them. If they don't want to like anyone, that's fine, who says they have to? It doesn't really make sense to me tbh. But I'm not gonna judge of course.
 
Some of them can be really annoying but other than that I have no problems with them otherwise.
 
I don't understand why someone would have a negative opinion or negative thoughts on asexual people? ace/aro people are cool, I have heard about the argument on whether cis/het ace people belong in the lgbt community or not and I've seen so much hate targeted at asexual people in relation to that, honestly it's so pointless, like who cares, really? but yeah, I obviously have nothing at all against them.
 
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My thoughts are that this will be locked...

Seriously though, I've got no problem with them. If they don't want to like anyone, that's fine, who says they have to? It doesn't really make sense to me tbh. But I'm not gonna judge of course.

what do you mean by not like anyone? if you dont love anyone romantically thats aromantic not asexual x.x
 
My thoughts are that this will be locked...

Seriously though, I've got no problem with them. If they don't want to like anyone, that's fine, who says they have to? It doesn't really make sense to me tbh. But I'm not gonna judge of course.

You clearly don't know what asexual means, your confusing it with aromantic..
 
Not really any specific thoughts. It's a perspective on sexuality that I personally - as someone who isn't asexual - will not understand but that doesn't mean I don't accept people who are asexual.
 
My initial thought was "Why would anyone have anything against ace people" however I have remembered a few of my ace friends telling me that sex-repulsed ace people give non sex-repulsed ace people a hard time, and project a "more ace than thou" mindset as well as putting down anyone who isn't sex-repulsed whether they're ace or not. That I don't like but I don't know how large of a portion of the ace community is like that.

My thoughts are that this will be locked...

Seriously though, I've got no problem with them. If they don't want to like anyone, that's fine, who says they have to? It doesn't really make sense to me tbh. But I'm not gonna judge of course.

First off, that first bit is obviously you asking for trouble so I suggest knocking it off.

Secondly, it's not a "want", being asexual means you do not experience sexual attraction. This may or may not be paired with being aromantic, which is not experiencing romantic attraction.
 
You're missing out, yo xD

But seriously, it doesn't bother me one way or the other what someone's sexuality is. I've had a few asexual friends and it was almost cute how awkward they were about people talking about their relationships. I had an asexual guy friend that was weirded out by being hugged lol
 
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Tell me if I'm wrong but isn't asexual that you basically do not have/have a very low amount sexual attraction?

Yes, Aromantic however is when you dont want a relationship, we don't have any desire to have sexual intercourse.
 
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I don't really care. I mean I feel like sometimes romance may be good but true love is difficult and I mean you may as well enjoy the other things while along for the ride, right?.

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It was nice seeing you thread, may you rest in peace.
 
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You're missing out, yo xD

But seriously, it doesn't bother me one way or the other what someone's sexuality is. I've had a few asexual friends and it was almost cute how awkward they were about people talking about their relationships. I had an asexual guy friend that was weirded out by being hugged lol

He was probably Aromatic & Asexual.
 
Unbunch your panties and learn to take a joke.

Jokes are supposed to be funny.

You wouldn't joke to a gay man that he's "missing out" on sex with girls, or a lesbian that she's "missing out" on sex with guys, so why would you tell ace people they're missing out on anything even if it's a "joke"?

It's nasty is what it is.
 
i'm aro ace lmao and the ace discourse is just .............., weird tbh

like, some parts of the community are really weird and bad but like. idk ??? i don't really ??? think it's bad? i don't really interact a lot w the ace community because i don't feel the need to but yeah

also i'm kinda confused as to why people have been starting to say **** about ace ppl and the ace community and calling us basically hets (even the not heteroromantic ones lmao) like wtf is up w that
 
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