Your thoughts on the LGBT+ communities.

[Fleshy]

What does het mean, is it slang?

It means heterosexual/romantic

 

[piichinu]

IM asexual but I don't know what the hell the community is
I don't get involved

 

[kayleee]

Is this thread fodder for starting an argument / getting people to be like "asexuality isn't real" or something? Cause unless this is bait for people's ****ty opinions I don't really get how this could be a discussion

 

[Bwazey]

I used to think it was slightly odd.

But as I got older, I became more open minded. So I think the community as a whole is pretty cool

 

[Gregriii]

You're missing out, yo xD

But seriously, it doesn't bother me one way or the other what someone's sexuality is. I've had a few asexual friends and it was almost cute how awkward they were about people talking about their relationships. I had an asexual guy friend that was weirded out by being hugged lol

ok I laughed really hard when I got what u meant

and I'm asexual

 

[Miii]

ok I laughed really hard when I got what u meant

and I'm asexual

Probably because you have a sense of humor

 

[piichinu]

ok I laughed really hard when I got what u meant

and I'm asexual

iirc you said you were heterosexual

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and yeah as for the joke it wasnt funny

 

[aleksandras]

not really much to say? i suppose asexual is quite normal, i don't feel like there should be a term for it.

 

[yamashta]

I do not experience genuine physical sexual attraction to anyone or anything. I do not experience strong enough sexual arousal to ever act on it. I have a very low sex drive.

I consider myself asexual. I want to say I'm aromantic as well, as I don't experience romantic feelings very much at all, but it doesn't stop me from having a girlfriend ( despite having a male romantic preference. ) I think I'm just 'demiromantic', leaning toward homoromantic.

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I don't get involved with the trans community or asexual community ( or any gender/sex communities ) because holy heck what even are they LOL...

 

[KaydeeKrunk]

Shaming someone for being asexual is just as bad as slut shaming. Honestly I don't mind what people are one way or another, I just couldn't be in a relationship with an asexual person because I'm a redhead and ultra frisky. But I mean as friends and people I know and love in a friend way it's all good. <3

 

[yamashta]

Shaming someone for being asexual is just as bad as slut shaming. Honestly I don't mind what people are one way or another, I just couldn't be in a relationship with an asexual person because I'm a redhead and ultra frisky. But I mean as friends and people I know and love in a friend way it's all good. <3

Is it proven science that redheads are more 'frisky'?

 

[aleksandras]

i feel like it's more of a preference, rather than a sexuality, but if you wanna treat it like it is a sexuality then go ahead

 

[KaydeeKrunk]

Is it proven science that redheads are more 'frisky'?

I'm not sure, I've not looked in to it tbh. I do know we do need higher doses of anesthesia. But it's a common thing that red hair is associated with frisky-ness.

 

[visibleghost]

have het ppl in a safe space for me makes me feel unsafe do to hate crimes and all that junk.

not all not sga aro/ace people are het, there are a lot of us who are aro and ace.

 

[#1 Senpai]

my thoughts on the asexual community?
well, i don't really have many thoughts on this since i don't really look into it nor am i an asexual but i think those who are asexuals should be treated equally and nothing lower/negative cos why does it matter if they don't have any sexual feelings or desires? it's what they feel so let them be. i dont rlly judge ppl based on their sexuality so ya

 

[visibleghost]

Is it really necessary to look for people “like you” for comfort and validation? Isn’t anyone who respects and appreciates you someone you can turn to for comfort and validation? Does it really matter what sexuality those people are?

it kind of shows that you don’t know what it’s like to be oppressed or be seen as weird or different because of your sexuality/gender orientation…
no it’s not the same for me to talk about trans stuff with cis people, because cis people don’t understand. this might sound a bit rude, and i don’t mean “lol every cis person is a bad transphobe and they just don’t get it”, but the truth is that cis people don’t know what it’s like. they don’t know what a trans person experiences, even though a lot of them understand and see what happens they can’t feel it and they don’t know what it’s like to experience it. and imo you often still feel “othered” by cis people even though they’re cool cis ppl. so it can be way more chill to be around people with your own experiences and people who know what you go through. that’s why communities are great.

 

[Envy]

What about it? I very often - if not entirely - wish I were asexual. I find sex drive to be irrational, and the idea of sex to actually be pretty gross... But I'm not asexual. D:

I wish I could be aromantic, too.

 

[visibleghost]

What about it? I very often - if not entirely - wish I were asexual. I find sex drive to be irrational, and the idea of sex to actually be pretty gross... But I'm not asexual. D:

I wish I could be aromantic, too.

ok thts cool n all but Uh Alrght.
but you can be sex repulsed w/o being asexual!! thats a thing

 

[nnsfa]

I really don't care about people's sexuality

 

[Soraru]

on the community? i dont know, i don't get involved in the communities. (im ace)
all i know related to it is that tumblr really hates us lmao