What's Bothering You?
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Very minor, but still very frustrating:
So, apparently, one of my brother's friends is coming over and is even spending the night tonight. I honestly find **** like this frustrating. I don't know, but I feel a bit left out/envious and you are expected to behave a certain why. I wish he would at least stay at a hotel, but my dad has these double standards where he doesn't what us to be a burden on other people, but he doesn't give a **** if people are over here.
I will never understand extroverted people...
I cannot WAIT to get my own place later on down the road. I can set my own damn boundaries.
I will never understand extroverted people...
I cannot WAIT to get my own place later on down the road. I can set my own damn boundaries.
-Daydream-
Have a great day/night!~ ♡
I have a slight headache so I’m going to go offline for now…
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Before I go offline let me say I can heavily relate my brother also invited one of his friends to stay over for the night one time and it made me very uncomfortable having a stranger in the house (I may or may not have had a breakdown and he never invited anyone else to stay the night XD)
Well, now I know what happened on here while my activity became less frequent that led to the drop in user activity site wide. It’s a shame so many people left this site that were here for so long. As someone who’s been here for five years it made me think about my own mistakes and behavior that I regret.
I’m very against generative AI and nearly all of its uses now. It is not a good substitute for human connection and companies using it to replace jobs that don’t need to be automated are being harmful. I apologize for any statements I made on the site in the past that seemed in favor of any use of generative AI.
I also regret how much I shared on this thread. I trauma dumped things that do not belong on an Animal Crossing forum and used it as a supplement for therapy, which is not helpful.
This is something I did in many places online, but I was very bad with boundaries when interacting with people from here privately. I texted too much, shared too much personal information, or continued texting after it was clear they no longer wanted to interact, just to list a few examples. I killed many friendships from this and all I can do now, years later, is do better with the few people who stuck around or who I have met more recently.
I am saddened a place I joined that once bursted with activity every day is now so empty. This seems to be the fate of most forums now. I’ll check in here and post occasionally on any new threads that look interesting, but I likely won’t be on daily like I used to. I’m more active on Discord anyway. This isn’t a full goodbye, but rather an acknowledgment of my past mistakes and a notice that my activity will likely be more sporadic.
I’m very against generative AI and nearly all of its uses now. It is not a good substitute for human connection and companies using it to replace jobs that don’t need to be automated are being harmful. I apologize for any statements I made on the site in the past that seemed in favor of any use of generative AI.
I also regret how much I shared on this thread. I trauma dumped things that do not belong on an Animal Crossing forum and used it as a supplement for therapy, which is not helpful.
This is something I did in many places online, but I was very bad with boundaries when interacting with people from here privately. I texted too much, shared too much personal information, or continued texting after it was clear they no longer wanted to interact, just to list a few examples. I killed many friendships from this and all I can do now, years later, is do better with the few people who stuck around or who I have met more recently.
I am saddened a place I joined that once bursted with activity every day is now so empty. This seems to be the fate of most forums now. I’ll check in here and post occasionally on any new threads that look interesting, but I likely won’t be on daily like I used to. I’m more active on Discord anyway. This isn’t a full goodbye, but rather an acknowledgment of my past mistakes and a notice that my activity will likely be more sporadic.
Last night was such a struggle.
Not saying it was the heat, or maybe it was. Hard to tell.
But I fell asleep awakrdly om my bed and woke up at midnight, had to wake my mum up as she too fell asleep in the living room.
We decided to keep the window open wide, despite my mum's fear of people breaking into the house. But now that idea was set in my mind, and I couldn't sleep properly.
I think I dreamt of kids trying to break into the house? And I was worried because they were kids and it felt like I couldn't defend my home because of their age.
I think I woke up several times and was hard to fall asleep, each side was aching, ears, arms
When I got to work today, I yet again see in tue doughnut box and pastel de natal were so MANY ANTS!!! I get ao tired this keeps happening,
Bosses ex says it's normal to have ants due to the weather, and he said he did get ant powder, but that doesn't help when they're already in the shop!!!!
I don't have time to sprinkle powder near the door, what's worse, was removing the box with ants still inside and was gonna put it out the back, but my coworker locked the door from the TOP which I cannot reach
I hate today so much
Also, yesterday, I tried making reusing old plastic lids that don't fit on anything into small bowls I could give to struggling birds I see in the heat. Putting tape over the lids hole.
I tried it out this morning, ans it didn't work
Sorry for such a big rant.
Update: Was checking my emails, and I got an email back from the apprentice and they told me I didn't meet the right critera, which doesn't make sense because I had done an admin course before; and it doesn't make sense because it was an apprentice role!! So, I can't even be accepted for apprenticeships roles? I'm so done
I know this was just one apprentice, but i dont know what else i can do anymore
Not saying it was the heat, or maybe it was. Hard to tell.
But I fell asleep awakrdly om my bed and woke up at midnight, had to wake my mum up as she too fell asleep in the living room.
We decided to keep the window open wide, despite my mum's fear of people breaking into the house. But now that idea was set in my mind, and I couldn't sleep properly.
I think I dreamt of kids trying to break into the house? And I was worried because they were kids and it felt like I couldn't defend my home because of their age.
I think I woke up several times and was hard to fall asleep, each side was aching, ears, arms
When I got to work today, I yet again see in tue doughnut box and pastel de natal were so MANY ANTS!!! I get ao tired this keeps happening,
Bosses ex says it's normal to have ants due to the weather, and he said he did get ant powder, but that doesn't help when they're already in the shop!!!!
I don't have time to sprinkle powder near the door, what's worse, was removing the box with ants still inside and was gonna put it out the back, but my coworker locked the door from the TOP which I cannot reach
I hate today so much
Also, yesterday, I tried making reusing old plastic lids that don't fit on anything into small bowls I could give to struggling birds I see in the heat. Putting tape over the lids hole.
I tried it out this morning, ans it didn't work
Sorry for such a big rant.
Update: Was checking my emails, and I got an email back from the apprentice and they told me I didn't meet the right critera, which doesn't make sense because I had done an admin course before; and it doesn't make sense because it was an apprentice role!! So, I can't even be accepted for apprenticeships roles? I'm so done
I know this was just one apprentice, but i dont know what else i can do anymore
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bestfriendsally
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it's got no right being so hot right now!
i mean, i have my fan on right now, but still!
i mean, i have my fan on right now, but still!
it hasn’t been the best week and it’s only Tuesday. Today my friend is your Birthday and it still feels so weird you’re no longer with us. It’s the first birthday since we unexpectedly had to say goodbye last year. Your smile and positive energy filled the room with so much happiness and we miss you.
I finally have a day off and can now clean up the mess of my garden that happened on Friday. I cleaned out all the fallen bushes and flowers. With a little luck I might be able to save a few that I trimmed the broken branches off and replanted. My garden is my happy place and now it looks so empty. We are supposed to get a strong storm at the end of the week. So will until after to get new plants. My neighbor felt so bad about what happened that he gave me a gift card to replace the plants.
Today we said goodbye to my friends mother. She was a wonderful person and will be missed.
I finally have a day off and can now clean up the mess of my garden that happened on Friday. I cleaned out all the fallen bushes and flowers. With a little luck I might be able to save a few that I trimmed the broken branches off and replanted. My garden is my happy place and now it looks so empty. We are supposed to get a strong storm at the end of the week. So will until after to get new plants. My neighbor felt so bad about what happened that he gave me a gift card to replace the plants.
Today we said goodbye to my friends mother. She was a wonderful person and will be missed.
-Daydream-
Have a great day/night!~ ♡
The heat is so bad outside that I just prefer to stay inside where there’s air conditioning.it's got no right being so hot right now!
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i mean, i have my fan on right now, but still!
Thank you
Anytime i try to eat anything natural the food gets recalled. Whats even the point.
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I've disliked how I've become increasingly cynical over the last several years. It's likely noticeable if you compare my early posts from 2020 to my newer ones. Watching my country disintegrate, dealing with personal issues, and dropping out of college (for good) have all taken a toll on me. Internally, I feel as though I'm decades older than I am. I'm emotionally tired and seem to keep predicting global events with perfect accuracy. I'm also in an in-between stage of my life, which will end once I move into a place of my own. I'm not fond of the idea of roommates, so I'm considering moving to the Midwest, where I can enjoy a lower cost of living and afford a studio apartment by myself.
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im in florida for the rest of the summer. i really wanted to be at the beach but the weather has other ideas... for the next few days. back to back thunderstorms means im stuck inside until they stop happening in the morning for once. minor inconvenience but still sucks
My brother called this morning to let us know our Uncle on my Dad’s side passed away. I feel worse for my cousin. My cousin and my brother decided it would be best not to tell Dad about his brother’s passing. I get it because of my dad’s declining health and his Alzheimer’s but it doesn’t feel right for him not to know. Not that I actually want to tell him that the only sibling he got along with is gone. I don’t want him to feel that loss.
R.I.P Uncle
R.I.P Uncle
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