What's Bothering You?
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That thing i said when i was 14 was so ****ing embarassing how do i even live with myself lmao
I have only blocked ONE (1) channel on youtube. SO WHY THE **** ARE THEY ON MY FEED???? Did they remake or something?
Edit: apparently all i “hid” him but not from my feed. Oh youtube and your dumpsterfire algorithm.
Edit: apparently all i “hid” him but not from my feed. Oh youtube and your dumpsterfire algorithm.
Foreverfox
✨💖glow & shine💖✨
I really, really don’t like not being replied to…it takes a few seconds to reply, even if the reply isn’t what someone wants to hear. It’s rude and also, not great for us over-thinkers over here…how do these people who don’t reply feel when it happens to them? I don’t rant much, but dang man…
As someone who is very guilty of forgetting to reply to people: I also tend to forget that I sent someone a message in the first place so I tend not to notice or dwell on the fact they didn't reply.
Foreverfox
✨💖glow & shine💖✨
I appreciate this, and I do admit, as a busy mom, I often forget to reply too, or reply in my head but not for days in actuality. I always apologize profusely when that happens though, but it doesn’t undo the potential hurt it caused the other person if they’ve overthought it like I might. I am in all seriousness having a horribly hormonal day and it’s probably just affecting me more today than I would generally, as everything seems to have me on the verge of tears today
. I usually do a good job of keeping my frame of mind through this time of month, but it’s beating me today. I will try not to let it get to me so much or take it so personally. Thank you for the support, it means a lot.
This bothers me too at times... some of my "friends" do this and it's honestly annoying. I'm not talking about someone that gets back to me within a week or something. I mean I've had friends literally ghost me for months upon months. I begin to question why I'm even friends with them when that happens...
On the other hand, I used to be friends with someone who expected a lengthy-*** reply to everything they said to me, which... was not ideal, lol. I am no longer friends with them.
xSuperMario64x
love of my life 💙💜
I feel like a genuinely horrible person. apparently I can't learn from my mistakes and I keep hurting those I love most dearly. I'm really struggling to love myself right now. I wish I could just go to sleep and never wake up.
but how can I expect to love others if I can't love myself for all my flaws and mistakes? I don't know... I'm so tired. I feel like I need to talk to someone but truthfully I don't know what I need. I don't know what to do with myself.
but how can I expect to love others if I can't love myself for all my flaws and mistakes? I don't know... I'm so tired. I feel like I need to talk to someone but truthfully I don't know what I need. I don't know what to do with myself.
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I definitely get this, especially when it's a serious conversation or I'm giving the other person my full attention. obv not talking about anyone specific, but it happens sometimes and it's frustrating.
Violet Witch
☽Stay Wild Moon Child☾
My favourite friend move is when you get left on "read" but they somehow find the time to update their social media profiles.
SleepyAmaurotine
Mutable Memory
I’m looking at what bus I’ll need to take after work and I need to take two buses ;; and it’ll take me ~40 minutes to go home compared to the usual 15-20 minute drive
sure would’ve been nice if my dad had taught me how to drive when he taught my brothers! he would never take me when they went to practice :/ he never even bothered teaching my mom and sister when they would ask (at least she learned from her husband)
sure would’ve been nice if my dad had taught me how to drive when he taught my brothers! he would never take me when they went to practice :/ he never even bothered teaching my mom and sister when they would ask (at least she learned from her husband)
xSuperMario64x
love of my life 💙💜
I have to do mandatory therapy sessions through my employer's assistance program because my mental health issues are starting to impact my job. so that's... that's fun.
sometimes I wish I wasn't me. I wish I wasn't this absolute broken down mess who can't function like a normal person. I'm constantly suffering and I try so hard to make things better for myself and I just can't. my efforts are never good enough it seems. no matter how hard I try I always mess up somewhere, and now my job and friendships are suffering because of it. I'm so absent-minded and scatterbrained right now, I can't do anything right and I constantly forget things and I can't pay attention at all. I feel like I'm oblivious to everything and everyone around me. I feel like my stupid brain is forcing me to be rude and uncaring and insensitive to others. I feel like I try so hard to be a good person, I try so hard to learn from my mistakes, I try so hard to be an effective and efficient worker... and I just can't right now. my best is not good enough.
trying so, so hard to love myself and be patient with myself right now, I just wish things would get better.
sometimes I wish I wasn't me. I wish I wasn't this absolute broken down mess who can't function like a normal person. I'm constantly suffering and I try so hard to make things better for myself and I just can't. my efforts are never good enough it seems. no matter how hard I try I always mess up somewhere, and now my job and friendships are suffering because of it. I'm so absent-minded and scatterbrained right now, I can't do anything right and I constantly forget things and I can't pay attention at all. I feel like I'm oblivious to everything and everyone around me. I feel like my stupid brain is forcing me to be rude and uncaring and insensitive to others. I feel like I try so hard to be a good person, I try so hard to learn from my mistakes, I try so hard to be an effective and efficient worker... and I just can't right now. my best is not good enough.
trying so, so hard to love myself and be patient with myself right now, I just wish things would get better.
My stress just doesn't end. I was finally back in my room which was supposed to be better than being stuck in the living room with no peace. Well now my parents started another fire outside that once again somehow gets into the house and bothers my senses... This is very unfair. I don't want to live here.
How many hours do I have to wait for the air to be normal this time....
I don't think I even relaxed at all today because I was having some embarrassing health problems earlier.
How many hours do I have to wait for the air to be normal this time....
I don't think I even relaxed at all today because I was having some embarrassing health problems earlier.
I just feel very detached right now. It feels weird seeing everyone else fit in and I’m just there? Like, it’s not even relevant since I probably shouldn’t be associating with people much younger than me, but it’s the situation that sucks. I feel out of place when other people are talking and I can’t contribute much since the maturity gap is so big. I guess it’s something I have to deal with working with people much younger than me sometimes. I have people close to my age, but I don’t see them everyday. I think not trying to form any meaningful friendships with minors is the mature thing to do since that in itself is a slippery slope, but like, acknowledging that I exist as a person is something they could do at the very least, lmao. I don’t normally have that issue, it’s just one person. Nothing against minors, but the age gap is just too big to have much, if anything in common.
I’m not really feeling it tonight. I sometimes wonder if my presence makes a difference, but not like death or anything drastic… I just wonder if people would care if I wasn’t part of their life. I’m friends with two people in real life and I sometimes wonder to what extent that they care? I may just be overthinking but they didn’t tell me happy birthday or acknowledge it beyond asking me about my birthday plans a few days before. I don’t really like my birthday because if friends forget, I end up just overthinking and it’s all a realization that they may have never cared in the first place. This isn’t all related to the birthday thing, but it’s contributing to everything else. I think having more people on this forum give me birthday wishes than people in real life combined just hit me hard, because I think I’ve formed some meaningful connections here. I think people on this forum are all in a similar wavelength and mindset, and it’s easy for all of us to get along.
Just a rough night, I suppose.
I’m not really feeling it tonight. I sometimes wonder if my presence makes a difference, but not like death or anything drastic… I just wonder if people would care if I wasn’t part of their life. I’m friends with two people in real life and I sometimes wonder to what extent that they care? I may just be overthinking but they didn’t tell me happy birthday or acknowledge it beyond asking me about my birthday plans a few days before. I don’t really like my birthday because if friends forget, I end up just overthinking and it’s all a realization that they may have never cared in the first place. This isn’t all related to the birthday thing, but it’s contributing to everything else. I think having more people on this forum give me birthday wishes than people in real life combined just hit me hard, because I think I’ve formed some meaningful connections here. I think people on this forum are all in a similar wavelength and mindset, and it’s easy for all of us to get along.
Just a rough night, I suppose.
I do not blame you. I cannot help but get a bit worried if I reply to someone, but no form acknowledgement is given to me. As an overthinker myself, I cannot help but worry about those times.
Looking at the other side of the coin, I understand not always having something to say, I've been there too, but that is why reactions, like buttons, heart buttons, etc. exist on social media.
I woke-up feeling low and very aware that I'm going to be on my own for the next 10hrs. I usually love the time I get to myself so that's a strange feeling. Maybe it has something to do with this constant loud wind and low temperatures. These storms can go away now.
I've just made a blanket nest on the couch with a hot water bottle. Going to curl up in a ball here for an hour or two then I'll attempt to be an adult after.
I've just made a blanket nest on the couch with a hot water bottle. Going to curl up in a ball here for an hour or two then I'll attempt to be an adult after.
ugh where to start…
I recently finished therapy and I just don’t feel content with how I feel after, I know CBT doesn’t work for everyone but I’m also very unbalanced in how I feel about anti-depressants hence the reason I’ve chose to think on it before just rushing in.
my friends accident in June has altered my life so significantly and I just feel like I now have nobody as he was always my go-to person but I don’t wanna be a burden when we don’t know if he will ever walk again.
Also my loss of appetite is ridiculous I’ll have GF cereal on a morning but after that I just never fancy anything to eat and idk if it’s bcos I’m limited to what I can eat I just kinda feel like I’m eating the same boring things all the time. I genuinely wouldn’t wish coeliac disease on anyone, gal just wants a cheese and ham toastie but gf bread is rank.
Anyways my kid is sick so we’re having a cosy day today with blankets, feel so helpless when all I can give him is calpol and cuddles
I recently finished therapy and I just don’t feel content with how I feel after, I know CBT doesn’t work for everyone but I’m also very unbalanced in how I feel about anti-depressants hence the reason I’ve chose to think on it before just rushing in.
my friends accident in June has altered my life so significantly and I just feel like I now have nobody as he was always my go-to person but I don’t wanna be a burden when we don’t know if he will ever walk again.
Also my loss of appetite is ridiculous I’ll have GF cereal on a morning but after that I just never fancy anything to eat and idk if it’s bcos I’m limited to what I can eat I just kinda feel like I’m eating the same boring things all the time. I genuinely wouldn’t wish coeliac disease on anyone, gal just wants a cheese and ham toastie but gf bread is rank.
Anyways my kid is sick so we’re having a cosy day today with blankets, feel so helpless when all I can give him is calpol and cuddles
I work at a lol coffee deli shop that makes sandwiches.
We got the stock in yesterday, new and some vegables; which we need for one.of the sandwiches. I left yesterday as my shift was over (had to wait an extra hour for my late coworker) but the other "worker" didnt do anything that day, so this morning I had to cut and dice all the veg
I got to the aubergine, and as I cut it, i noticed that inside is not the right shade - it just doesnt look good.
I message my boss and tell her, but she says its fine and still cook it. Ive done so but i really dont like thid feeling. I just hope no one gets sick if they buy this specific samdwich.
We got the stock in yesterday, new and some vegables; which we need for one.of the sandwiches. I left yesterday as my shift was over (had to wait an extra hour for my late coworker) but the other "worker" didnt do anything that day, so this morning I had to cut and dice all the veg
I got to the aubergine, and as I cut it, i noticed that inside is not the right shade - it just doesnt look good.
I message my boss and tell her, but she says its fine and still cook it. Ive done so but i really dont like thid feeling. I just hope no one gets sick if they buy this specific samdwich.
ZeldaCrossing64
Sugary Cynic
I'm still pretty sick but I can't afford to keep missing school. I'm super tired and I feel nauseous, I really picked the worst morning to actually wake up and try to go through a normal day. Ughhh...
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