What's Bothering You?
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Just wanted to update on this because I feel a lot better. Admin/Owner told these people off for being gatekeep-y as hell because she wanted an inclusive environment for everyone. It’s kind of nice to see someone else share the same perspective as I do, because I was losing my mind whether my emotions were valid or I was overreacting. Admin even said “You guys are acting like middle schoolers,” which was funny because I said a very similar thing about those people when I was ranting to my best friend yesterday. Maybe these people are actual children, idk, but I’m glad they were told off regardless. Personally, my friends and I grew out of ‘cliques’ and share the same feelings of wanting to be as inclusive as possible to anyone who wanted to chime in. Like sure, we have a friend group and all, but all of us love talking to other people.
Anyway, hoping these either take their gatekeep-y selves to private servers or just stop making their clique their personality.
Anyway, hoping these either take their gatekeep-y selves to private servers or just stop making their clique their personality.
The washer is still not fixed. I don’t know why it’s taking so long and I don’t know why there have been towels sitting inside of it for three whole days? It’s broken. Why are people still trying to use it? There is a note on it stating that it is broken. At least it also states that it’s been worked on.
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xSuperMario64x
love of my life 💙💜
I'm too exhausted to get up and do anything without just wanting to go back to bed, but I have too much energy to take a nap. I could eat smth to help me stay awake but i just ate not long ago and I would feel guilty even if i just had a snack. idk what to do lol
also my stuff is coming in the mail tomorrow and I'm so impatient >__>
also my stuff is coming in the mail tomorrow and I'm so impatient >__>
NovariusHaze
Guardian of Faireth
My entire body from moving stuff all morning.
Every time this becomes a problem. My parents say to choose somethin to eat, I make a choice, and it's the wrong choice because 'it's too far' 'it's too busy' 'why would you choose that' like then tell me if something is off limits! Don't get mad when you offer the choice of takeout then get mad when I choose takeout! You said I could! I will always choose takeout over whatever we have lying around!
This has happened the past 3 times they've asked my sis or I to choose a place to eat dinner. I'd rather just not have the choice at all if my choice is always going to be wrong and it's always going to cause a problem. Then one time I brought it up that why give us the choice of they are just going to say no and ofcourse they got mad.
It doesn't help that my dad got mad for no reason and curses at me when one it's not my fault sis isn't cooperating and two he makes assumptions that I expect him to drop what he's doing so he can go pickup the food. I never ****in said ANYTHIN like that, I didn't even say what the place was yet!
I go out there to tell him what choice I made and he starts going off about what pot to use to cook the pasta in like. He's already making assumptions before I can even speak, then makes more assumptions thinking I expect him to drop everything. When have I ever done that? He instantly assumes I'm doing somethin rude.
This has happened the past 3 times they've asked my sis or I to choose a place to eat dinner. I'd rather just not have the choice at all if my choice is always going to be wrong and it's always going to cause a problem. Then one time I brought it up that why give us the choice of they are just going to say no and ofcourse they got mad.
It doesn't help that my dad got mad for no reason and curses at me when one it's not my fault sis isn't cooperating and two he makes assumptions that I expect him to drop what he's doing so he can go pickup the food. I never ****in said ANYTHIN like that, I didn't even say what the place was yet!
I go out there to tell him what choice I made and he starts going off about what pot to use to cook the pasta in like. He's already making assumptions before I can even speak, then makes more assumptions thinking I expect him to drop everything. When have I ever done that? He instantly assumes I'm doing somethin rude.
Edited the rant out bc I thought things would be better but apparently not.
Summar context: Mom's bad at explaining what she really wants. Last week she asked if I wanted to come with them on a trip, I said I couldn't because I had other plans with my bf (5 year anniv), she said that's okay. Now she's changed her mind and is gaslighting me in so many ways possible for me and my bf to move our plans that were just reserved this morning, and she's telling me I don't love them as a family, oh woe is them, etc. etc. Bf said he'll try to move our reservation instead. Told mom this but she's angry at this point; she said she won't book me a flight anymore and doesn't want me to come. Okay, guess both of the plans I had for those specific days are gone. Time to rot in my room.
Summar context: Mom's bad at explaining what she really wants. Last week she asked if I wanted to come with them on a trip, I said I couldn't because I had other plans with my bf (5 year anniv), she said that's okay. Now she's changed her mind and is gaslighting me in so many ways possible for me and my bf to move our plans that were just reserved this morning, and she's telling me I don't love them as a family, oh woe is them, etc. etc. Bf said he'll try to move our reservation instead. Told mom this but she's angry at this point; she said she won't book me a flight anymore and doesn't want me to come. Okay, guess both of the plans I had for those specific days are gone. Time to rot in my room.
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I got callus on the side of my feet and it's annoying to feel them bother me once in a while.
Managed to screw myself by deleting a save state on a game I was playing and now I've got to play the game again to where I was again. At least I can restart and try to get good stats on my characters once more. Yay me..
Managed to screw myself by deleting a save state on a game I was playing and now I've got to play the game again to where I was again. At least I can restart and try to get good stats on my characters once more. Yay me..
I signed up for an activist program last week because I felt pressured not to say no and I regret it. Activist work is amazing, but I have too much on my plate to do it right now. They also send too many update phone calls throughout the day. Today I ended up sleeping through an orientation and I’m worried they’ll make another call about me missing it. I don’t know how to tell them I’ll come in the next time they do one.
sorry so many things happened today and an online stranger had to be the cherry on top. at least i was done crying like an hour ago (over something else, not the stranger)
A bit of an introspection, but whenever I meet mean-spirited strangers, I get mad for a little and then think to myself, ”This is the kind of person I don’t want to be as I grow older.” It really helps me find peace in myself and veers my emotions away from these mean people and towards my own self-growth. I owe nothing to these strangers the same way they owe nothing to me, so I’m not going to let what they did or said ruin my day.
Obviously, this only applies to cases where I know I did nothing wrong. I just wanted to word what I was feeling, because I was a little upset over what a total stranger said to me and my friend online. If something harmless peeves me, I’m not about to ruin that person’s day by telling them to just shut up. It’s literally harmless, so what right do I have to tell them to stop?
Obviously, this only applies to cases where I know I did nothing wrong. I just wanted to word what I was feeling, because I was a little upset over what a total stranger said to me and my friend online. If something harmless peeves me, I’m not about to ruin that person’s day by telling them to just shut up.
It’s literally harmless, so what right do I have to tell them to stop?
xSuperMario64x
love of my life 💙💜
mad @ myself bc I forgot the deadline for finishing art for the secret santa thing was LITERALLY 2 days ago and I'm just now realizing this, I'm such a dummy 
hopefully I can start and finish an art piece today, some days I have that kind of mental focus but bc I worked today it isn't really one of those days. I'll still do as much as I can.
hopefully I can start and finish an art piece today, some days I have that kind of mental focus but bc I worked today it isn't really one of those days. I'll still do as much as I can.
Yeah, I had a lot going on during the secret santa thing and I thought I was going to have to opt out, but I managed to set time aside. I would have felt bad, lol.mad @ myself bc I forgot the deadline for finishing art for the secret santa thing was LITERALLY 2 days ago and I'm just now realizing this, I'm such a dummy
hopefully I can start and finish an art piece today, some days I have that kind of mental focus but bc I worked today it isn't really one of those days. I'll still do as much as I can.
Millysaurusrexjr
standing on business
1. I want to catapult my sinuses in to the sun
2. They're finally constructing the units closest to our window in the lot next to our place. The building looks like it will literally be no more than 25 feet from our window. Goodbye, view. And goodbye ever opening the blinds again, I have the worst anxiety about feeling like I'm being watched. I really miss all the trees and the birds that used to be in that huge lot. Soooooooooo depressing
2. They're finally constructing the units closest to our window in the lot next to our place. The building looks like it will literally be no more than 25 feet from our window. Goodbye, view. And goodbye ever opening the blinds again, I have the worst anxiety about feeling like I'm being watched. I really miss all the trees and the birds that used to be in that huge lot. Soooooooooo depressing
Violet Witch
☽Stay Wild Moon Child☾
I'm so sorry for your loss.My mate died last night. Fire. He was in a wheelchair. He had no chance.
Third death of someone dear to me in six weeks.
Anxiety as always is taking its toll on me alongside the fact more hot weather is on the way next week... yay.
Isn't Summer reading optional? If not, I am seriously beginning to question the school system...i hate summer reading
xSuperMario64x
love of my life 💙💜
woken up at 3am, don't know what woke me up but omg my tooth hurts so much. it didn't start hurting until I got this filling put in. now I'm terrified that I might have to get a root canal, and i took ibuprofen but it still hurts a lot. so I'm having a hard time going back to sleep.
idk how it works elsewhere but at my old high school summer reading was reserved for the honors classes. I took honors eng my sophomore and junior year so I had to do summer reading both years. I wouldn't doubt that there are regular English classes that make people do summer reading tho, school is stupid.
