What's Bothering You?
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just the fact that my parents didn't care that I got diagnosed with adhd, depression and anxiety and are still trying to blame my lack of focus on ME just being lazy is just... it hurts so so much. to be dismissed like this. the way they didn't even try to understand what adhd is and how it had affected me my whole life. not even a hug, not even a word of comfort. haha yeah no I'm never telling them anything about me ever again.
i hate midterms.. so so much, so stupid that they exist. my science teacher decided to give me a whole packet and wants it done by monday. your 7 page packet does NOT make me want to study, you could’ve just given us information about on what to study so i could’ve just made a quizlet. just why
also i have a C in science, big sad
so i better do good on that midterm.
also i have a C in science, big sad
so i better do good on that midterm.
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Shellzilla_515
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I had to give-up dairy a couple of years ago. It's a strange adjustment, but it's surprising how easy it is to get used to. Non-dairy alternatives for a lot of things are actually really good! Especially soya yoghurt.
I woke-up at 5am in a lot of pain, managed to fall back to sleep, but then overslept by several hours (almost 11am). Pretty annoyed at myself because my productivity tends to plummet after lunchtime and I have 6 pages to go on this project still. It's due Tuesday.
Yeah I also had to give up a lot of dairy (mostly milk, yogurt, creamy cheese and some others) mostly due to my tum not being able to handle it. But yeah I mainly stick to oat options sine I don't like almond and most soy products are crap here. Sucks most stores takes overprices for a lot too though. Kinda fun cause you could probably produce oat stuff and such in your apartment cheaper.
Anyway on topic, dumb cold weather here and I need to go outside, boo.
Anyway on topic, dumb cold weather here and I need to go outside, boo.
Oddly enough I ended up being fairly productive. My head is exploding now though. There's only so much I can cover in a day before I get overwhelmed.
My husband had the first of two surgeries to repair his broken left ankle on Monday (Jan. 3rd). We were told before the surgery that the second would take place "a few days/short time" later. My husband was just informed that his second surgery isn't going to be until approximately Feb. 13th. That is not a few days or a short time. That's 5 weeks from now. Hubby is also going to have a picc line inserted because the surgeon wants him on IV antibiotics the whole time. WT*? This is not how this was explained to us. We're all stunned - especially my hubby.
xSuperMario64x
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yeah that's super ableist, I'm really sorry you have to deal with that. it might help to get to know some people who also have ADHD (I myself have it) so that you have a support network and someone to fall back on when someone else hurts you.
im so impatient lol, I know a seller on Mercari has 3 days to ship an item but these people have already had me waiting almost 2 days and I hate waiting for mail orders like this. when I sell stuff I always ship it within 24 hours, I know it's unrealistic to expect everyone to do that as well but it would be nice if I at least got a heads up or smth lol.
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Hey, Shellzilla. I’ve been taking a break from this thread, but I will reply to this.
I’m really sorry your family doesn’t believe in the vaccine shots. It’s kind of ridiculous with all the science behind it. And it’s especially ridiculous when there’s been other pandemics in the past in the world, and no one was as afraid of vaccines as they are now. It especially annoys me when people bring politics into it. This isn’t about politics or anything else, it’s about people’s HEALTH. Theoretically, if everyone started getting a new type of “flu,” but there was a vaccine to prevent it, would you refrain from getting the vaccine? NO! You wouldn’t, because it’s a basic procedure that has close to, if not 0%, chance of killing you. It just disgusts me that people are so divided on this when it’s such a basic concept.
As for the job hunt, all I can say about that is to not give up. I’ve sent in dozens upon dozens of applications within the past year+, and been rejected from all of them at some point in the interview process. I have a part-time job right now, however, and I also sent in an application for a company I have a reference for. There’s always the chance they could move me forward in the hiring process, but even if they don’t, I have other companies in mind. So yeah, don’t give up, because you never know what might happen.
Lastly, I completely understand feeling burnt out on your hobbies and passions. I’ve felt much the same recently. Not much I can say as advice there, other than try to find one that’s stress-free that you also enjoy, at least until you’re interested in your other ones again.
I hope you’re doing okay, and I wish you a good rest of your week.
Foreverfox
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Ohhh nooo, I'm so sorry, oak. I've been thinking about you since you rushed her to the vet.
Thanks Fox ❤ Me and my partner are gonna miss her a lot.Ohhh nooo, I'm so sorry, oak. I've been thinking about you since you rushed her to the vet.
xSuperMario64x
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my friend said he's upset about something and I really feel bad bc I want to ask what's wrong but I'm also really tired and emotionally drained rn and idk if I can handle replying to anything he says. maybe I can just listen, though he usually likes me to reply instead of just ignoring it.
idk I'm just really bad at socializing lol rip
edit: k so I asked him, i always want to ve a good friendo and let my friends have a listening ear. and as I suspected he's having what he can only describe as ~girl problems~, but he should know that I'll always be here and I would never do anything to upset him. I love that boy
idk I'm just really bad at socializing lol rip
edit: k so I asked him, i always want to ve a good friendo and let my friends have a listening ear. and as I suspected he's having what he can only describe as ~girl problems~, but he should know that I'll always be here and I would never do anything to upset him. I love that boy
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Mood, especially when it's not even ads on those sites but actual stores but yet thy pile up content on instagram LOL.
Shellzilla_515
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Thanks for the reply, Midoriya, and thanks for just snipping the post. I've been trying to stay away from this thread as well especially since we've just entered 2022, but I've reached my breaking point that I had to let off some steam.Hey, Shellzilla. I’ve been taking a break from this thread, but I will reply to this.
I’m really sorry your family doesn’t believe in the vaccine shots. It’s kind of ridiculous with all the science behind it. And it’s especially ridiculous when there’s been other pandemics in the past in the world, and no one was as afraid of vaccines as they are now. It especially annoys me when people bring politics into it. This isn’t about politics or anything else, it’s about people’s HEALTH. Theoretically, if everyone started getting a new type of “flu,” but there was a vaccine to prevent it, would you refrain from getting the vaccine? NO! You wouldn’t, because it’s a basic procedure that has close to, if not 0%, chance of killing you. It just disgusts me that people are so divided on this when it’s such a basic concept.
As for the job hunt, all I can say about that is to not give up. I’ve sent in dozens upon dozens of applications within the past year+, and been rejected from all of them at some point in the interview process. I have a part-time job right now, however, and I also sent in an application for a company I have a reference for. There’s always the chance they could move me forward in the hiring process, but even if they don’t, I have other companies in mind. So yeah, don’t give up, because you never know what might happen.
Lastly, I completely understand feeling burnt out on your hobbies and passions. I’ve felt much the same recently. Not much I can say as advice there, other than try to find one that’s stress-free that you also enjoy, at least until you’re interested in your other ones again.
I hope you’re doing okay, and I wish you a good rest of your week.
I sometimes wonder about the mindset of some people trying to push their misleading message across and yet, self contradicting themselves. And since we're all still in a pandemic, you'd think those in power would do a better job. But nope, they're being incompetent as per usual and tanking the livelihoods of many people. Politics in general can just get in the bin. For the job hunt, it is tough for me to find one. I don't know what's worse, handing in the resume and not hearing back or going through the interview phase and not getting the job. But you're right, I shouldn't give up at all. Maybe it's just not meant to happen and that there's a job out there that's better for me. As for my hobbies and passions, I'm actually not burnt out. It's just that the severity of my situation is so bad that I simply cannot ignore it and pretend it doesn't exist.
I'm most likely going to delete the said post so I can do my best to move on and power through my struggles. Thanks for hearing me out and I appreciate it wholeheartedly.
xSuperMario64x
love of my life 💙💜
it's been almost 2 months since I applied at the local craft store and I still don't know if they can hire me. I really want to work part-time but pretty much all the other jobs in the area require experience that I don't have or I'm really not comfortable working at. but I feel so useless with no income. really wish the library would open up a part-time position.
Shoutarous
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I just dealt with two losses and I'm really tired.
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