What's Bothering You?

[Neb]

Spoiler

I’ve been slowly falling for someone, but it’s not realistic and I doubt they see me the same way. They’re a very nice person so I’m sure they’d still be fine being friends with me.

 

[Zane]

Somehow I always manage to say something stupid and worthless truly blessed and gifted

 

[Theoneandonlymegan]

My teachers have been piling me with work and I am falling behind. I have missed a few classes due to softball and doctors appointments and have only been in one of my classes for ten minutes this past week out of 4 and a half hours. I barely have time to do anything else and have not even been on the forum since last week

 

[Xara]

if i were a villager, my catchphrase would be “i’m nauseous” and i just,, don’t love that for me

 

[spawnpoint]

my best friend is so much different around me then he is any one else
he said some pretty questionable things in a discord server that I wasn't on, things he'd never say to me
ive always thought of him of sweet and innocent and this and some other things are so disappointing..

 

[Lightspring]

Spoiler

I forgot to turn the cat litter around once towards the wall after cleaning it so my dog doesn’t get to it and now my parents are upset and I’m going to get yelled at by my dad when he gets home. My dog ate out of it and he expelled it in a bad way and my parents didn’t get any sleep. We used to have a gate but that was inconvenient so now we just face it towards the wall. I think it‘s my fault for sure but why didn’t anyone else see that it wasn’t turned around for 2 days if they always pass by it going to and back from work? They reacted the same way when my dog got lost because my dad forgot to take him back inside. My mom really loves dogs and is so quick to point fingers at me. There is probably something wrong with me for not liking dogs as much as cats and my family likes to point out how much I spend time with the cat compared with the dog. Every single one of them. They said it’s not normal and keep asking me what is it about dogs that I don’t like as much as cats. Even now my mom compares eating steak with dogs and feels bad because she feels like she is eating dogs. She wants another dog but the waste that they give off is so much. My mom even says that I have to start liking dogs more or else I won’t be able to find a boyfriend? I used to like dogs when I was little, actually loved them. They were my grandma’s and I loved playing with them because they were smaller. I actually bet if I did the exact same thing but it was my cat who got sick instead of my dog I wouldn’t get punished at all.

 

[Chris]

my best friend is so much different around me then he is any one else
he said some pretty questionable things in a discord server that I wasn't on, things he'd never say to me
ive always thought of him of sweet and innocent and this and some other things are so disappointing..

No teenage boy is entirely "sweet and innocent" despite how nicely they might treat a girl.

What a person shows you of themselves is only the side of them that they want you to see. Your perception of them doesn't tell their whole story. To use something you said about me yesterday as an example: you seemed surprised when you realised that I wouldn't be upset at a non-PG13 comment made off-site. Despite trying to set a good example here on TBT, when I am communicating with adults privately and off-TBT I am a lot less reserved. In this same way, a teenage boy is going to show a different side of himself to the girl he likes than he is going to show to other friends he can speak more casually with. People alter their behaviour to fit the time and place.

Spoiler

I forgot to turn the cat litter around once towards the wall after cleaning it so my dog doesn’t get to it and now my parents are upset and I’m going to get yelled at by my dad when he gets home. My dog ate out of it and he expelled it in a bad way and my parents didn’t get any sleep. We used to have a gate but that was inconvenient so now we just face it towards the wall. I think it‘s my fault for sure but why didn’t anyone else see that it wasn’t turned around for 2 days if they always pass by it going to and back from work? They reacted the same way when my dog got lost because my dad forgot to take him back inside. My mom really loves dogs and is so quick to point fingers at me. There is probably something wrong with me for not liking dogs as much as cats and my family likes to point out how much I spend time with the cat compared with the dog. Every single one of them. They said it’s not normal and keep asking me what is it about dogs that I don’t like as much as cats. Even now my mom compares eating steak with dogs and feels bad because she feels like she is eating dogs. She wants another dog but the waste that they give off is so much. My mom even says that I have to start liking dogs more or else I won’t be able to find a boyfriend? I used to like dogs when I was little, actually loved them. They were my grandma’s and I loved playing with them because they were smaller. I actually bet if I did the exact same thing but it was my cat who got sick instead of my dog I wouldn’t get punished at all.

Hopefully your dog feels better soon!

There is nothing strange about preferring one animal to another nor is how much you like dogs going to impact your future relationships. Your mother is being dramatic and manipulative.

 

[Ananas Dragon]

stomach hurts and I have to do some exercises

..I'm going to save that for later I'm dying here

 

[Lightspring]

Hopefully your dog feels better soon!

There is nothing strange about preferring one animal to another nor is how much you like dogs going to impact your future relationships. Your mother is being dramatic and manipulative.

Yeah, I know that there are people who like cats or other animals. My mom can act like that a lot, especially with the dog. Thank you for your advice, I’ll be prepared today.

 

[Cheren]

I was ghosted by an online friend yesterday. I cried about it for a few hours but I'm more or less over it now. We were friends for 2 years and I thought we were close, so it bothers me that they would ghost me without any explanation whatsoever.

 

[Katzenjammer]

I'm feeling pretty overwhelmed right now about re-doing my island as it's soooo barren and empty. Starting from near scratch (aside from fruit/flowers) is very daunting ... ;-;

 

[_Rainy_]

The bed is so cozy today that I don’t want to leave it. I just don’t want to get up and deal with reality and the stress of the real world. Especially this nightmare of a breakup that just won’t end.

edit: just texted my roommate asking her to make coffee. I’ll come out if the house smells like coffee.

 

[spawnpoint]

No teenage boy is entirely "sweet and innocent" despite how nicely they might treat a girl.

What a person shows you of themselves is only the side of them that they want you to see. Your perception of them doesn't tell their whole story. To use something you said about me yesterday as an example: you seemed surprised when you realised that I wouldn't be upset at a non-PG13 comment made off-site. Despite trying to set a good example here on TBT, when I am communicating with adults privately and off-TBT I am a lot less reserved. In this same way, a teenage boy is going to show a different side of himself to the girl he likes than he is going to show to other friends he can speak more casually with. People alter their behaviour to fit the time and place.


Hopefully your dog feels better soon!

There is nothing strange about preferring one animal to another nor is how much you like dogs going to impact your future relationships. Your mother is being dramatic and manipulative.

thank you I feel a little better now
i guess the whole thing was just, a shock, considering I haven't seen how he acts around others in a year and I've only known him the way he is towards me, so suddenly seeing this new side of him once he joined the forum was just so sudden
I'll try not to think much of it anymore though

 

[Alienfish]

...please make this happen...(just a thing i don't really wanna jinx buuut i can say it'd mean a lot to me rn).

(i guess actually taking time trying rather than getting an instant no is a good thing lol)
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also @ali.di.magix sending love to you & your gram hope she can pull thru!

 

[Pondo]

We might be moving and I’m already ~4 hours from my boyfriend where we are. Moving to Montana, on the other hand... I’d have to take a plane to see him. LDRs were already hard for me, but now I’m stressing that I won’t be able to see him before we leave (if we leave).

 

[Zane]

my shoulders are sore and I didn't buy a 2017 Fair Patch because I am boo boo the fool

 

[SleepyAmaurotine]

I thought online school would be nice since I won't have to wake up super early to get to school and I can stay in my room, but I feel like my dad is just going to want to know every little thing I do now :/ like this guy tried to tell me to start doing assignments tomorrow but school doesn't even start until next week :^)
also I have to make an intro video for college and I'm not sure what to put in it ;^; it's due on the 3rd so I guess I'll deal with it tonight or tomorrow whenever I bother making myself look presentable

 

[_Rainy_]

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[frogslime]

I’m just
So exhausted
I don’t know what to do or how to tell certain people certain things when I probably should and will make things easier in the long run
I can barely keep my eyes open either

 

[Toska]

I don't think I've ever spoke to any forum member outside of forum threads... I should really start trying to be more friendly.