What's bothering you?

[FireNinja1]

A misunderstanding over a group project at school and now quite a few people are hating/teasing me. I just antagonize back. Their fault for not knowing my side of the story, but the presentation's tomorrow anyway and yet I'm still the one at fault. This sucks.

 

[Sanaki]

I'm in school and I can barely keep my eyes open. I'm about to pass out from exhaustion.. Why do I stay up so late talking to the boyfriendddd.. If I sleep early it feels so incomplete.. But I regret it so badly. And I leave in like 4 hours, this is going to suck.

 

[Jake]

I'm basically homeless so ya'll can shut the **** up coz yo problems ain't so bad

 

[Pirate]

I'm freaking hallucinating due to lack of sleep. I don't know why I don't just go to bed already. I swear I've seen black blurs run past me so many times in the past 5 minutes.

 

[Sanaki]

I'm basically homeless so ya'll can shut the **** up coz yo problems ain't so bad

They can be anything people need to rant about, kk

 

[Improv]

My dad's being an ******* again so I'm staying shut up in my room until his little mood swing passes.

 

[mogyay]

my boyfriend for the third time is staying at this girls house (it's 8am here) and previously (well 2 days ago) i said if he did it again (and by doing it again i mean he turns off his phone, doesn't answer my messages) then that's it over

in some response i grabbed some scissors with the intent in doing something serious (which i've never done before) but for some reason i couldn't quite bring myself to do anything so cut off most of my hair

sitting in disbelief right now lol

idk what to do

 

[Klinkguin]

The fact that I literally just scratched my plants vs zombies garden warfare disc Does anyone know if the lipbalm/chapstick method really works?

 

[katelynross]

the fact that i havent played acnl in weeks bothers me lmao im getting tired of it but i wanna see if my cute villagers moved D=

 

[Sepherana]

my boyfriend for the third time is staying at this girls house (it's 8am here) and previously (well 2 days ago) i said if he did it again (and by doing it again i mean he turns off his phone, doesn't answer my messages) then that's it over

in some response i grabbed some scissors with the intent in doing something serious (which i've never done before) but for some reason i couldn't quite bring myself to do anything so cut off most of my hair

sitting in disbelief right now lol

idk what to do

He's acting very suspicious. I'd be concerned too. Don't hurt yourself over it. If he's really going to be like that and not care, something is going on.

 

[mogyay]

He's acting very suspicious. I'd be concerned too. Don't hurt yourself over it. If he's really going to be like that and not care, something is going on.

but i feel like i can't say things like that because it's his friend and he thinks i'm only upset because it's a girl, and maybe he's right but i've told him if he's going to do it again anyway to tell me first but yet again he has stayed over without saying a single word to me this is the second time this week, i barely see him as well

i really think i should end it but we've been together for 3 years and it scares me to do something like that

wa~ thank you for listening! either way i will resolve the situation today

 

[Alienfish]

life i guess lol

 

[Reindeer]

but i feel like i can't say things like that because it's his friend and he thinks i'm only upset because it's a girl, and maybe he's right but i've told him if he's going to do it again anyway to tell me first but yet again he has stayed over without saying a single word to me this is the second time this week, i barely see him as well

i really think i should end it but we've been together for 3 years and it scares me to do something like that

wa~ thank you for listening! either way i will resolve the situation today

No matter how you look at it, his behavior is very strange. People in a relationship wouldn't just go and sleep over at somebody of the other sex's house and turn off all means of communicating with them. Something's going on. You know it, I know it.

It's best to end the relationship, especially since you've already told him that you would do it. Save your own sanity, because if you let it continue it will only hurt more and start to fester and gnaw at you. You don't want that, because it will only bring more pain. If you end it now, the pain of the break-up is all you'll need to deal with. Don't add onto it by holding onto him.

 

[mogyay]

No matter how you look at it, his behavior is very strange. People in a relationship wouldn't just go and sleep over at somebody of the other sex's house and turn off all means of communicating with them. Something's going on. You know it, I know it.

It's best to end the relationship, especially since you've already told him that you would do it. Save your own sanity, because if you let it continue it will only hurt more and start to fester and gnaw at you. You don't want that, because it will only bring more pain. If you end it now, the pain of the break-up is all you'll need to deal with. Don't add onto it by holding onto him.

you're right, i know you're right of course but i'm having a tough time accepting it, this is only going to get worse from now, i just can't explain how awful this situation is in words, like he was my best friend, he wasn't ever meant to do something like this, he was always the nicest guy i knew, always picking up the pieces for me, but he started a new job and then he turned into a different person, the other day he said he couldn't deal with my insecurities because i've had them since i was 15 and i should grow out of it now that i'm 21

the only other issue is i want this done with now
but he is refusing to answer his phone, i called him mum and he's still not back, idk what to do, i'm going insane just sitting here

 

[Reindeer]

you're right, i know you're right of course but i'm having a tough time accepting it, this is only going to get worse from now, i just can't explain how awful this situation is in words, like he was my best friend, he wasn't ever meant to do something like this, he was always the nicest guy i knew, always picking up the pieces for me, but he started a new job and then he turned into a different person, the other day he said he couldn't deal with my insecurities because i've had them since i was 15 and i should grow out of it now that i'm 21

the only other issue is i want this done with now
but he is refusing to answer his phone, i called him mum and he's still not back, idk what to do, i'm going insane just sitting here

At this moment you can't do much. You feel powerless and that's gnawing at you. At least try to keep yourself busy until then. Listen to music. Play a game. It won't take your mind off of it, but sitting around doing nothing only makes you feel worse.

From what you're telling me, he's changed so much because he's found a different group of people to hang out with, and they've somehow changed his outlook on life. He's grown apart from you but doesn't want to end the relationship either, even though it's obvious to all what's going on.
As for your insecurities, it only makes sense that you still have them. They don't magically disappear. If he was once able to understand that but isn't anymore, I'm sorry, but he's not such a good friend for you anymore.

I know how much it hurts to do this, I've been through it as well. But sadly it's something that happens to the best of us. If you need any more support after you've said what needs to be said, feel free to PM me. I'll help you as much as I can.

 

[staticistic1114]

HEADACHE

 

[NikkiNikki]

I am hungry at work like always sigh*

 

[Aryxia]

Provincial Exams & a Teacher Strike v.v

 

[Liquid Ocelot]

I had the worst nightmare two days ago. I've actually been avoiding normal sleep because I don't ever want to see it again. Thinking about it scares me, too- and I'm afraid if I tell someone exactly what it was, they'll think I've gone crazy or something. I know that it's not logical to think I'm a bad person because of something that happened in a dream, but at the same time, I feel kind of dragged down by the guilt of what happened, even though it wasn't real.

Plus, I feel like if I start talking about it irl, I might start bawling, which would not be pretty, either.

 

[SockHead]

my sweaty palms and IM NOT WEARING SOCKS AGH