What's bothering you?

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if you dont see the contradiction then errr

ok

but im not just saying its all women oh my god LOL shoot me

im perfectly aware that it happens to guys too

the fact that it just happens all the time to me is what bugs me

saying i shouldnt interact with them is honestly not what it is, i just dont see how its normal to just brush off being called bad names. sorry that something that bugs me means i shouldnt interact with boys in a game

it was just the way they acted when i didnt do **** to deserve it

so there, i come off by mentioning a problem that happens to girls and people bring in the oh it happens to men too

never did i say it doesnt happen to men too
 
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I also said the problem is that you take it personally. I've been called various things on online games and the best course of action is literally to just ignore it. People in TF2 get just as mad when I destroy their livelihoods and start calling me much worse things than I mentioned in my previous post. I just continue destroying them and don't react. They're mad at me and that's why they're saying that crap, ignoring it just makes them wallow in it.

Not sure what the reason is for them calling you names, but reacting to it is exactly what they want. So either go along with it as a joke or ignore it, otherwise the only one who's making you angry is yourself.
 
lol Er, I'll just tell them to stop because I don't know them like that considering I'm in a skype call with my friends for the duration of the game.

The fact was that they had no reason, which is why I was like

why are you calling me that
 
eh wat do u expect of socially ******** league players who cant detect boundaries
This.

You either grow thicker skin or leave. It's not like they're close to you as people so I don't see a reason for you to care about their words. They don't even know you. So in the end their words are just.. words.. It's not your boyfriend or anyone else close so their words simply lack impact.. or should.
 
All I did was tell them not to call me that and then I let out my true feelings here, it's not like there's anything wrong by being bugged by it so..

yeesh
 
Well this is the whats bothering you thread, i was just curious as to why this was specifically a case of objectifying women
 
well some cases apply to only men and some only women

women dont get told that people are ****ing their moms or whatever

and yeah...

it was just one situation..
 
This.

You either grow thicker skin or leave. It's not like they're close to you as people so I don't see a reason for you to care about their words. They don't even know you. So in the end their words are just.. words.. It's not your boyfriend or anyone else close so their words simply lack impact.. or should.

Eh, I disagree. Words are never just words. just because someone doesn't know you personally, doesn't mean you're wrong for feeling upset when they say something made to hurt you. But I do agree that if you can't take it, maybe you should reconsider being part of the community. LoL's community is insidious, I'm fairly certain everyone knows that at this point.
 
Finally got a drive today to work, only to find out that I lost my keys (which include my now useless car key and my keys for work). Looked everywhere, even stopped in to my Dads and looked there. I was talking to my Mom, she said she also looked everywhere and they're nowhere to be found. I had a bag with shampoo I just bought in it, and that's also missing. So I'm pretty sure I probably threw the keys in that bag and now they're gone too. And I already tore the house apart looking for the bag, so idk what to do.

My boss had to come let me in, so I had to sit out in the cold and wait since I could only get a drive early.

I can't seem to catch a break lately, it's like every day is just ****ty and stressful. Now I need to try to find a drive back to my place tonight so I can look for my keys. Don't know how I'm going to swing that one. ;l

ugh I'm just so disgusted with everything
 
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