What's bothering you?
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Jaebeommie
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I want friends but I feel like the only way to make them is to be super outgoing and bubbly and what not.
That's just not me.
That's just not me.
Jade_Amell
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My boyfriend and his friends invited me to play CoD with them the new one that comes out in two days. I told him I can't afford to spend 100 bucks on the game because I have other expenses to pay for. Which sucks because I do want to play with him.
Jaebeommie
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The game's 100 dollars?! o.o
Jade_Amell
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He bought the Pro-Edition which is 100 dollars. The game by itself is 60 bucks. Which is still to expensive for me. ><;
This also comes with another downside that the limited time he and I get together is going to be cut shorter so he can play with his friends.
Jaebeommie
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To be honest the only reason I'd have any interest in that game is because Kevin Spacey is in it.
I hope your boyfriend doesn't totally ignore you for COD because that'd be stupid.
Jade_Amell
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I hope so too. We're LDR, he works full time so week days he's not home till around 7-8 PM my time. There is also (with Daylight Savings ending) a one hour time difference between us. Most nights we just watch something on Netflix for an hour or two then he goes to bed. He goes to bed early so roughly I get to spend time with him for 2 hours give or take every day. ><
Same, plus I feel boring because everyone has so much personality. I sometimes feel like I don't have enough personality (if that makes sense)...
Lady Timpani
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Oh my god, I feel the same way. I don't have much of a personality at all lol.
I feel ya. The people I tend to hang out with are really outgoing and active in general, while I'm more of a silent type. I feel like I have a boring personality, but still get asked to hang out. I often get told that the reason they like having me around is that I always look so serious but then say something unexpectedly funny. Even if you feel like you're boring you'll be able to find people that appreciate you and will tell you it's quite the opposite. There's nobody with only "bad" personality traits.
Jade_Amell
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Your probably a Introvert. :c
Jaebeommie
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INTROVERTS FOR THE WIN =w=
I am an introvert as well. I do find it harder to make friends since ordinary or typical conversation tends to bore me, and I have trouble keeping the conversation moving. I do enjoy my privacy, but certainly like to have companionship from time to time. It's about meeting people who are similar to you or at least appreciate you for who you are
I'm so glad there are people who feel the same way. xD It makes me feel less alone.
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Yeah, I'm definetily an introvert.
Jade_Amell
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It takes a while to get comfortable being a Introvert. Don't push it so hard, things are better if you just find people you're comfortable with and ones that won't drain you like a leech.
Image is a guide to Introverts. It was to big to post so here is a link.
http://xmindshare.s3.amazonaws.com/preview/Kjg3-HJZLOAN-45573.png
Image is a guide to Introverts. It was to big to post so here is a link.
http://xmindshare.s3.amazonaws.com/preview/Kjg3-HJZLOAN-45573.png
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Someone who is not really all that outgoing, they are usually more reserved.
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Oh, and I should add that an outgoing person is an extrovert.
Jaebeommie
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I have long since accepted that I am introverted and probably always will be. The troublesome thing is that all of my good friends are extroverted people who like to hang out with a bunch of other extroverted people. Sometimes I go along because I don't have any other friends to be with and it's so mentally and emotionally draining to be around people who are extroverted. Case in point is the Filipino club at my school. It's filled with loud, confident Asian boys and peppy, bubbly Asian girls. They're nice people, don't get me wrong, but I felt so out of place and so tired around them that I eventually stopped going to the club meetings.
TLDR - I need to meet more introverts in real life, hah.
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