What's bothering you?

[Eldin]

My friends were getting drunk in our kitchen last night and when I wandered in for some water, one of them pulled down my pyjama bottoms, revealing all. I tried to laugh it off but I was really embarrassed and feel kindof violated I know the guy quite well and he's nice but he's such a **** when he's drunk

What an ass. Next time he's drunk pull his god damn pants down. And then maybe punch him for good measure.

I'd be pissed.


what's bothering me - we got new machines at work (yay~) but they both have timers so even once you use the key if you take too long the alarm will start to blare anyways (boo~). had a hell of a time yesterday trying to figure them both out

 

[marzipanmermaid]

My boyfriend's mom walked in on us about to do the deed.
I feel like I need to apologize for burning her retinas with my pasty skin and excessive nudity.
Oh, and the sex thing.

Also, hey, missed everyone.

 

[RayOfHope]

Thank you - the thing is, he does that kindof stuff to everyone, like puts his hands down girls trousers, undoes girls bras and stuff. only girls that he knows really well, but still. so I think if I said anything about it to him or anyone else, they'd just think i'm so uptight.

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he didn't at the time when i got annoyed at him, but i think if i bring it up when i next see him hopefully he will

Hopefully he does, you deserve an apology. What he did was rude. In fact he seems to have kind of skeevy behavior in general (but of course I don't know him so I don't want to assume, this is just an impression), just because those girls don't say anything about their friend feeling them up, it doesn't mean you're uptight for feeling upset with what he did.

 

[badcrumbs]

Thank you - the thing is, he does that kindof stuff to everyone, like puts his hands down girls trousers, undoes girls bras and stuff. only girls that he knows really well, but still. so I think if I said anything about it to him or anyone else, they'd just think i'm so uptight.

He sounds like an absolutely disgusting human being to think that is "okay" or "funny". As a survivor of rape, I cannot respect anyone who would violate someone's personal space in such a way, whether it is a "joke" or not. Not ****ing cool.

 

[Reindeer]

NO ONE WANTS MERENGUE

Last time I spoke to Cashews (like a month ago lol) they were looking primarily for Merengue. Not sure if that's still ongoing, I've had crap luck with getting Merengue for them.

 

[starlark]

Last time I spoke to Cashews (like a month ago lol) they were looking primarily for Merengue. Not sure if that's still ongoing, I've had crap luck with getting Merengue for them.

Aw man, I didn't see that! xD sorry
And literally now as I was five minutes away from voiding her, someone is buying her, someone wants to trade Ankha for her, someone is looking for her.
WHY

 

[Sanaki]

i just had a huge emotional breakdown and im really starting to question what i live for lmfao

 

[Aradai]

you ever had that sensation that feels like you have a pimple in your nostril?
that's what I'm feeling right now.

 

[Brackets]

He sounds like an absolutely disgusting human being to think that is "okay" or "funny". As a survivor of rape, I cannot respect anyone who would violate someone's personal space in such a way, whether it is a "joke" or not. Not ****ing cool.

yeah I'm also a survivor of rape which is probably part of the reason I was so uncomfortable. The problem is I actually do really like this guy, he's been a great friend but yeah I think I need to let him know stuff like that isn't acceptable, at least not with me

 

[badcrumbs]

yeah I'm also a survivor of rape which is probably part of the reason I was so uncomfortable. The problem is I actually do really like this guy, he's been a great friend but yeah I think I need to let him know stuff like that isn't acceptable, at least not with me

I would definitely tell him that. I guess if someone doesn't have a problem with him putting his hands down their pants, then that's fine for them ... but if you aren't comfortable with his behavior, do not feel like you have to silently endure it, or laugh it off. A true friend (and decent person) will respect your feelings. Sending you positive vibes <3

 

[Brackets]

I would definitely tell him that. I guess if someone doesn't have a problem with him putting his hands down their pants, then that's fine for them ... but if you aren't comfortable with his behavior, do not feel like you have to silently endure it, or laugh it off. A true friend (and decent person) will respect your feelings. Sending you positive vibes <3

thank you so much, you're right <3

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whats bothering me is my room is SO cold but no one wants to put the heating on yet hot water bottle for me tonight, definitely

 

[KarlaKGB]

yeah I'm also a survivor of rape which is probably part of the reason I was so uncomfortable. The problem is I actually do really like this guy, he's been a great friend but yeah I think I need to let him know stuff like that isn't acceptable, at least not with me

sit him the **** down and make the boundaries clear

 

[Lady Timpani]

My boyfriend's mom walked in on us about to do the deed.
I feel like I need to apologize for burning her retinas with my pasty skin and excessive nudity.
Oh, and the sex thing.

Also, hey, missed everyone.

It's good to see you again! Sorry about your awkward moment though.

 

[Wish]

My boyfriend's mom walked in on us about to do the deed.
I feel like I need to apologize for burning her retinas with my pasty skin and excessive nudity.
Oh, and the sex thing.

Also, hey, missed everyone.

girl this happened to me too and it was so ****ing aWKWARD

 

[RayOfHope]

My boyfriend's mom walked in on us about to do the deed.
I feel like I need to apologize for burning her retinas with my pasty skin and excessive nudity.
Oh, and the sex thing.

Also, hey, missed everyone.

Nice to see you around again. Haha hopefully you can all pretend to forget that it ever happened.

 

[EndlessElements]

I know. I was really tempted to raise my hand and say that I refuse to do this part. Yet, it wouldn't of been good if I had.

i feel ya.

Thank you - the thing is, he does that kindof stuff to everyone, like puts his hands down girls trousers, undoes girls bras and stuff. only girls that he knows really well, but still. so I think if I said anything about it to him or anyone else, they'd just think i'm so uptight.

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he didn't at the time when i got annoyed at him, but i think if i bring it up when i next see him hopefully he will

umm if he's doing things like that then sorry, but he sounds like trash that doesn't respect peoples boundries. a grown man should know better, but i suppose not. no one has the right to touch you or anyone without your consent, end of. if you tell him it's not okay to do that and he proceeds to call you a prude, then he's an even bigger piece of garbage. people like that are a waste of space, imo.

 

[Saylor]

Loneliness is a *****.

 

[tamagotchi]

Wow ok
So I'm in America rn for Halloween because It's great there, nyways I have a few friends there I guess. So, they keep pestering me to go to this party so yeah okay. I agreed except they won't tell me where the house and literally no one is telling me anything.

Damn kid if you're going to invite me somewhere you can at least tell me the ****ing address like jesus christ
how do you think im gonna get there??? teleport??

 

[Peisinoe]

Wow ok
So I'm in America rn for Halloween because It's great there, nyways I have a few friends there I guess. So, they keep pestering me to go to this party so yeah okay. I agreed except they won't tell me where the house and literally no one is telling me anything.

Damn kid if you're going to invite me somewhere you can at least tell me the ****ing address like jesus christ
how do you think im gonna get there??? teleport??

LMAO. Just dont go and if they ask be like. Geeze I was going to put in the address in my gps but you know you *******s didnt tell me where it was so i was like eff it.

 

[Resi]

Huh? What kind of test? What did it say?

A state test to tell how much we've learned. It was basically saying that women shouldn't be doing a man's job (in this case, boiler engineering.) It said that a woman's place was at home, and that they shouldn't have rights or the ability to work because they will neglect home.