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What age do you consider ok to "love" someone?

Hm, I say you can love someone at any age. You mean romantically? This isn't exactly answering the question but I think you shouldn't date until late high school. If you know you're never going to marry someone, why get romantically involved, setting yourself up for heartbreak?
 
I assume you mean romantic love, not platonic... in either case, though, my answer would be "any age". As for when one is mature enough to love and be involved in a relationship, that's another story... personally, I think that 99% of America's teenagers are too immature to be involved in relationships. Hell, a lot of college students are, too... but at least there's not as much drama as there is in high school.
 
Yeah, real 'let's marry' love comes around 16, simply because you now know how so many things work. In all honesty, true love would mean you want to be together forever. (marriage, maturity, responsibility, well-being of the other person being top priority)

Anything else is just a crush.
 
Bulerias said:
I assume you mean romantic love, not platonic... in either case, though, my answer would be "any age". As for when one is mature enough to love and be involved in a relationship, that's another story... personally, I think that 99% of America's teenagers are too immature to be involved in relationships. Hell, a lot of college students are, too... but at least there's not as much drama there as in high school.
My sentiments exactly.
 
16-18+

High School is known for it's share of romantic drama, but it's best to learn about relationships and what to do and what not to do at a young age, so when you get very serious about a relationship, it sticks.
 
I'm gonna basically agree with everyone. You can love at any age, but you also need to be mature enough to handle it. So obviously, it depends on the person and such.
 
Hmm I said 16-18+. But I wasn't to sure. Were you talking about just loving some one or
-ahem- *cough cough* (raises eyebrow) xD
 
Khengi said:
Yeah, real 'let's marry' love comes around 16, simply because you now know how so many things work. In all honesty, true love would mean you want to be together forever. (marriage, maturity, responsibility, well-being of the other person being top priority)

Anything else is just a crush.
Agree.
 
coffeebean! said:
Hmm I said 16-18+. But I wasn't to sure. Were you talking about just loving some one or
-ahem- *cough cough* (raises eyebrow) xD
the -ahem- *cough cough* (raise eyebrow) one
 
Bacon Boy said:
coffeebean! said:
Hmm I said 16-18+. But I wasn't to sure. Were you talking about just loving some one or
-ahem- *cough cough* (raises eyebrow) xD
the -ahem- *cough cough* (raise eyebrow) one
A rather personal question, I see....
 
no, just people are always telling me and some people I know that you are too young to love if you're under 18. I don't think we are. I think if someone actually feels love, and knows that they do, then no one should tell you otherwise.
 
Bacon Boy said:
no, just people are always telling me and some people I know that you are too young to love if you're under 18. I don't think we are. I think if someone actually feels love, and knows that they do, then no one should tell you otherwise.
Ah, I see.

Tell them to read Twilight, next time. :P
 
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