Serious Talk on Sex -Keep It Mature! description about a manga now added

[Fearthecuteness]

OH!! WAS GOING TO ASK, Fearthecuteness
There was this manga I read when I first got married to help with the whole issue of sex and all that.
It is an educational manga that depicts two virgins who marry ((they didn't know each other were either =3)) and discusses topics from fear of sex or being seen naked, how bodies different ((all the way from pubic hair growth to direction penis's can tilt)), and even to the extent of after married a little while problems like cheating and such. Or biological clock ticking.
I read the one that was written in the male perspective, but a female one has been written as well. I just wasn't aware of it so I read the "male" one. But really both are the same storyline. XP
It is I think nearly 200 chapters, with chapters normally having 30 to 50 pages if I remember correctly. So, it has a lot of content. I don't think I ever made it to 100 chapters. XP
It is useful, but it does have graphic depictions... It is about a newly wed couple. Not really to the level of hintai but still there. It does say in the manga's description that it is for educational purposes. So, it may not be appropriate to have it listed on the front, but good to know if someone asks privately?
I'm sure I would be able to find it quickly and be able to provide you a link to a free manga reading app and website to find it on.
Some people may find it easier to learn reading something written out in manga style than textbook style.

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The avg size is 6ins in length.
That being said there is always the joke, "it's not the size of the boat but the motion of the ocean."
One way a guy "hinted" about sex with me was he put a condom in my pocket. XP
And really, if you are too embarrassed to really ask about sex being on the table, then maybe you aren't ready to have sex? Kinda personal opinion but yeah.
But there is always just the "going with the flow" ... start things up and just see where things lead to before you get the red flag.

That is a good idea since I'm one of those people who have always been better off reading mangas then actual books.
Was the manga called manga sutra? The story sounds a lot like that. if so they also made a anime of it called futari H. Not reccomended to the really young ones on here. >.>

 

[fallenchaoskitten]

That is a good idea since I'm one of those people who have always been better off reading mangas then actual books.
Was the manga called manga sutra? The story sounds a lot like that. if so they also made a anime of it called futari H. Not reccomended to the really young ones on here. >.>

It wasn't sutra. Or at least not what I remember.
I know it started with an F... urgh... it's gonna bug me.
I'll find my phone since I know it's on my manga app on it to get the name and I'll PM you it.

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FOUND IT ALREADY!
((on the site it is actually listed as #32 as most popular. XP))

 

[Fearthecuteness]

It wasn't sutra. Or at least not what I remember.
I know it started with an F... urgh... it's gonna bug me.
I'll find my phone since I know it's on my manga app on it to get the name and I'll PM you it.

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FOUND IT ALREADY!
((on the site it is actually listed as #32 as most popular. XP))

Lol cool. I'll check it out.

 

[fallenchaoskitten]

Lol cool. I'll check it out.

It is really a good manga for someone who doesn't know anything, but mature enough to handle depictions of intercourse... which is why I said the link would probably not be good for the front page, but a good source for any PM's. ^^'

 

[Fearthecuteness]

It is really a good manga for someone who doesn't know anything, but mature enough to handle depictions of intercourse... which is why I said the link would probably not be good for the front page, but a good source for any PM's. ^^'

Oh definitely.

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I have an opinion on this one.
A wise man once said,
"It doesn't matter what size it is, it's how you use it."

Yes this is definitely true. The girls G-spot is only 2 inches deep and besides the foreplay is more important then the size of a man's penis.

 

[fallenchaoskitten]

I almost want to start reading it again... but I'm already behind on my other mangas. >.>
Alas. I am off though, I have to do some housework like the good lil wifey I'm pretending to before husband comes home for lunch in a few hours. XP

I'll probably take a break and pop in here-n-there though to put my two cents in. =3

 

[Fearthecuteness]

I almost want to start reading it again... but I'm already behind on my other mangas. >.>
Alas. I am off though, I have to do some housework like the good lil wifey I'm pretending to before husband comes home for lunch in a few hours. XP

I'll probably take a break and pop in here-n-there though to put my two cents in. =3

Ok bye. Thanks for reminding me about that manga. That will definitely be helpful to people.

 

[Gizmodo]

I'm scared its gonna be so awk for me; for soo many reasons

 

[crystalmilktea]

I have an opinion on this one.
A wise man once said,
"It doesn't matter what size it is, it's how you use it."

I heard a 'painter' say "It's not how big the brush is it's how you move it"

Also I heard some guys say the average is 5.5 inches...

 

[iamnothyper]

That's where I disagree. Sex is nice, but it's not italic-underline-bold-very important. If I was in a relationship, of course I would want to have sex with my partner, but it's not important. If s/he says s/he wants to wait with sex, I'm fine with that (even if I think I would be the one to say that ). And I don't have to be older to understand it better - this is what I think of sex. You have a different opinion.

I kind of disagree I think sexual compatibility is very important for a stable, long-lasting relationship. Sex is a game changer in a relationship, in my opinion the whole dynamic of the relationship changes after sex comes into the picture. This isn't so much of a stance on sex before/after marriage, but more so to say it's a more critical component of the equation than you think. If you look at married couples, one of the common gripes they have is that the sex-life isn't there. If you have a "normal" libido, you are going to want to have sex with your significant other and bad sex is a bigger problem than it seems at first. If you feel "unsatisfied" it has its ramifications on the relationship. Obviously it's not the most important part and can be worked upon, but you need a certain level of chemistry there.

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I'm scared its gonna be so awk for me; for soo many reasons

Ha, its always awkward.
As long as you're with someone you can trust yourself with and in the right emotional state it'll be fine. The best advice I can give you is to just go with the flow. Your body knows better than you so just let it do it's thing xD

 

[Siren137]

I'm scared its gonna be so awk for me; for soo many reasons

That's nothing to be ashamed of. It can feel awkward at first. Having sex for the first time is probably the first time you have gotten naked with someone and obviously been so intimate with them. The best thing to remember is to only go as far as you want to at any time, first time or not. Just remember the person you are with will probably feel the same way! Go at a pace you are both happy with and the awkwardness will soon disappear.

Edit to add:
I think this thread is a fab idea! Been following it and thought I'd start to contribute!

 

[Prof Gallows]

Would like to remind everyone that if you feel any negative feelings toward this thread, please send in a report or a PM to us instead of posting about it in the thread itself. I've had to delete a couple of posts now because of that.


I'll contribute to the thread too, or if anyone feels more comfortable discussing these things than posting about it I'll help to the best of my ability.

 

[Zeiro]

But it was weird. Later a girl in class asked how abortions work and the teacher refused to answer which i thought was kind of odd. I know a lot about them because my sister worked with planned parenthood for a while and would go to protests. But i think thats a decently school appropriate question. I mean they also showed us a full detailed video with a fancy british lady talking about semen with pictures, i think we could handle something like abortion.

It is an important thing to discuss, they should have at least addressed the issue. Also, please tell your sister not to protest at abortion clinics.

Also I heard some guys say the average is 5.5 inches...

It varies by country for biological reasons, but the U.S. average is 5.5 inches I believe.

 

[fallenchaoskitten]

It is an important thing to discuss, they should have at least addressed the issue. Also, please tell your sister not to protest at abortion clinics.

It varies by country for biological reasons, but the U.S. average is 5.5 inches I believe.

If they live in the USA, there is freedom of speech that protects the right of non-violent protesting.
If someone chooses to protest at or near an abortion clinic and is following all laws of their state and country, they may do so if they wish.
I am basically saying this thread should stick to educational discussion, not moral debates of pro-life, pro-choice, or other such topics.

And here in the USA I always hear of it as 6... not 5.5 ... I think people are too lazy to probably say "5.5" and just round up. That or everyone lost .5 an inch since I was in high school a few years ago. XP

 

[aetherene]

I always heard that the average penis size is 6-8 inches.

But the size should never really matter anyway. It's all about what you do with it.

 

[Syd]

I remember in middle school on the first day of "human reproduction" 90% of the class faked sick so they wouldn't have to sit through it. I can see why this is a sensitive subject to kids, but it's better to know about it and be prepared, then to jump in headfirst with no knowledge!

 

[fallenchaoskitten]

I remember in middle school on the first day of "human reproduction" 90% of the class faked sick so they wouldn't have to sit through it. I can see why this is a sensitive subject to kids, but it's better to know about it and be prepared, then to jump in headfirst with no knowledge!

Omg... That is awesome. Totally awesome.
I wish when I was in school, all of us could have organized something like that. Not exactly that topic but something along the same lines. It would have been hilarious. XP
... I was an awful child. >.>

But maybe this is the reason our school did sort of "surprise lessons" ... we didn't know we were going to talk about sex ed that day until, that day in class ((or from a friend who had the class earlier in the day)). Not that they taught much at my school anyways. ^^'

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I always heard that the average penis size is 6-8 inches.

But the size should never really matter anyway. It's all about what you do with it.

So... to kinda put a stop to guessing and "i heard" 's ... I was going to look it up...
... I'm sorry but the NAME of the websites alone made me laugh way to hard to even consider opening them up or even think of them as creditable sources...
And I am not going to tell you what exactly I search for or even what search engine. XP
But anyways... I would hate to have the job of surveying this to find a region or countries avg...
So, in the end, I tried to get educated, logical proof and sources and it failed... miserably. ((but it was funny XP))

 

[Peisinoe]

I always heard that the average penis size is 6-8 inches.

But the size should never really matter anyway. It's all about what you do with it.

Basically this.

Don't be afraid to say No- is probably what I would say if it is your first time.

 

[aetherene]

Basically this.

Don't be afraid to say No- is probably what I would say if it is your first time.

Consent is a hugeeeeee part of sex. Everyone should consent of their free will to every sexual act. If someone says no, they mean no. Don't try to convince them or push them or pressure them into doing something they don't want to do.

Never be afraid to say no, not to just not being ready for your first time, but to anything you don't want to do during sex.

 

[rockthemike13]

IMO it's not important to a relationship at all. If people try to tell you otherwise, it would be within my wisdom to say they're doing it wrong. My wife and I are happy without (or with) it. Hope this is some what helpful to the some what less experienced.