Serious Talk on Sex -Keep It Mature! description about a manga now added

[Heisenberg]

oh, so would you wanna use all off them? (Quite dumb on this sorry,..)

Using more than one form of birth control is actually a good thing! Though most people don't find it needed. For example;
a combination of condom and birth control pill is good, as well as condoms and spermicide which is a lube that kills sperm. You never want to use more than one condom at once because the friction created have a higher chance of breaking the condom. One should be enough, but if it breaks you need to stop, remove and discard the broken condom and fully and safely put on a new one before continuing intercourse. If you're out it's better to stop than to keep going or to be talked into continuing.

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But agreed! Condoms help to prevent a lot of diseases and you'd be surprised how many people have them!

 

[Bearica]

Since you live in NC, the age of legal consent there is 16, so definitely wait until then before deciding to have sex.

Keep in mind that the legal age of consent in NC is only 16 if your partner is no more than 4 years older than you are. Otherwise it's 18.

 

[Heisenberg]

Another thing is that if the male doesn't know how to put on a condom, he's probably not old enough to be having sex.

 

[Princess Weeb]

Protection is the use of birth control, commonly used is condoms. Other forms on contraceptives (protection), is the birth control pill, the rod or the ring. You have to talk to your doctor about which one would work best for you. Since you don't have your period yet you want to hold off on most of this. You also shouldn't have sex with the first boyfriend you get and immediately, it's not a needed thing in order to have a successful relationship. It does take a certain level of mental maturity before you should consider having sex. And if you don't like kids that's all the more reason to wait!
Hopefully your school gives you guys sex ed soon, seems like that should have been something to have been addressed sooner. And your body technically isn't ready to have babies before you get your period so no but stranger things have happened. Your period is what causes you to release eggs which are fertilized by your partner: these eggs are released upon the menstruation cycle.

Did she say she hadn't started her periods yet? (idk but she might have started)

Just a heads up to all you early starters out there, beat 7 years old on Christmas day... (no, I am not joking)

*sigh*

 

[aetherene]

Keep in mind that the legal age of consent is only 16 if your partner is no more than 4 years older than you are. Otherwise it's 18.

It's usually 16 or 18 in most states.

We should just say 18 regardless cause by that time, you are pretty much legal in the US.

 

[Bearica]

Another thing is that if the male doesn't know how to put on a condom, he's probably not old enough to be having sex.

^ This.
Any if you or your partner don't have and can't access condoms - don't have sex. Just don't do it.

 

[Mercedes]

Protection is the use of birth control, commonly used is condoms. Other forms on contraceptives (protection), is the birth control pill, the rod or the ring. You have to talk to your doctor about which one would work best for you. Since you don't have your period yet you want to hold off on most of this. You also shouldn't have sex with the first boyfriend you get and immediately, it's not a needed thing in order to have a successful relationship. It does take a certain level of mental maturity before you should consider having sex. And if you don't like kids that's all the more reason to wait!
Hopefully your school gives you guys sex ed soon, seems like that should have been something to have been addressed sooner. And your body technically isn't ready to have babies before you get your period so no but stranger things have happened. Your period is what causes you to release eggs which are fertilized by your partner: these eggs are released upon the menstruation cycle.

Ok thanks! And I have never had a boy friend....So I won't, plus I get quite shy...

 

[Bearica]

Ok thanks! And I have never had a boy friend....So I won't, plus I get quite shy...

Yeah, it's definitely not something you need to worry about yet. It'll happen once you're ready for it to happen.

 

[Mercedes]

^ This.
Any if you or your partner don't have and can't access condoms - don't have sex. Just don't do it.

That's true, and I won't I don't wanna have kids,

 

[Fearthecuteness]

If anyone has a really good link about different contraceptions please let me know.

 

[Bearica]

Here's a good link from Planned Parenthood about different types of birth control.

 

[Princess Weeb]

If anyone has a really good link about different contraceptions please let me know.

Has anyone mentioned female condoms yet? I've heard they're pretty great.

 

[Ashtot]

That's true, and I won't I don't wanna have kids,

If you don't want kids just get fixed=problem solved.

 

[Heisenberg]

Ok thanks! And I have never had a boy friend....So I won't, plus I get quite shy...

Don't worry, the time will come eventually when you're ready ^^ Don't let anyone pressure you into it, it's you body so be proud of it!

 

[aetherene]

I took a health class in college a couple years ago and when it came to sex, we talked about female condoms and how you put one on. I didn't like the look of them. xD I felt like if I tried it, it wouldn't make me feel sexy at all.

 

[Bearica]

If you don't want kids just get fixed=problem solved.

That's not really a solution to not wanting to have kids at 13 - female sterilization (getting your fallopian tubes tied) is an expensive surgery and is meant to be permanent.

 

[Mercedes]

What do people mean by the "birds and the bees"?

That's not really a solution to not wanting to have kids at 13 - female sterilization (getting your fallopian tubes tied) is an expensive surgery and is meant to be permanent.

Yes, that's true, my mother got them clamped though.

 

[Fearthecuteness]

Has anyone mentioned female condoms yet? I've heard they're pretty great.

I can't comment on this because personally I've never used them.

 

[oak]

During my high school days, we had lots of heterosexual sex talks but they never mentioned gay sex? I mean I figured everything out on my own just fine xD but I just feel like they're leaving out so many students when they just focus on the heterosexual kids. I know when I was 16 I was very confused & I wish my school had been more open with gender & sexuality exploration. I bet if they did that parents would be like "OMGGG UR MAKIN OUR KIDZ GAY" sigh

 

[aetherene]

If you don't want kids just get fixed=problem solved.

A 13 year old can't even get those kinds of surgery done. She's too young.

Women pretty much can start getting hysterectomies or salpingo-oophorectomies when they're around 40 years old and have kids or have none. If a woman is too young, they won't do it because they think she will eventually change her mind on having kids.

My best friend is 22, and she wanted a hysterectomy because she doesn't want kids and she was refused.