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Princess Weeb
What's 1,000 minus 7?
Are they the same age as you? (not being patronising but I was under the impression you were fairly young)
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Another sort of question idk kinda related?
Clingyness?
I get emotionally attached and dependent on people, even those who use me/treat me horribly very very easily, and I find it hard to break away. (Please note by boyfriend treats me like a princess ahah) One of the main reasons I haven't done anything so far (aside from the pregnancy scares thing) is because I'm scared that i would never be able to leave the relationship, and the thought of having more than one sexual partner in my like makes me feel dirty. I think I could put up with it, but I'd hate it.
Any advice?
^^ This is what I was trying to say haha.
And Luckypinch, it's kind of hard to describe. Sex feels differently for everyone.
Some are 13/14/15 around that age, I'm 13...
Fearthecuteness
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This is just something you have to do to figure out for yourself.
Ok thank you for the feed back
Princess Weeb
What's 1,000 minus 7?
Oh gosh
Wow
Okay
15 kind of okay I suppose but 13?
What is the legal age where you live?
I don't know, I live in NC... So...
Heisenberg
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I want to do I because it pleases him, I just personally don't like the feeling. xD It doesn't harm me because I prepare for it, stay clean and use all precautions.
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I'm always one to say that you should wait until you find your forever partner or at least until you're mentally mature enough for sex. It can't be put better than if you can't deal with the consequences of having a baby then don't have sex. If you do decide to always use protection for you safety and others!
As far as what it feels like i feels differently for everyone. I found all my partners up until my current one to actually be very, very painful. Something about my fiance and it's just right. So it varies from person to person and from partner to partner.
Neat, I also live in NC! But a lot (a LOT) of teenagers think they're ready for sex when they're really not mature enough to handle it or the consequences yet or they give into peer pressure. If you don't think that you're ready for sex then you probably shouldn't worry too much about what other people are doing, really.
I quite dislike kids, but, we have not had sex ED yet. What's protection? I don't feel good talking about this with my mother, but she has talked to me about it, not protection though,
Fearthecuteness
Oh hai mark
I used to be like you with the getting attached emotionally to people and I will say this. If you're not ready to handle rejection it's best to only have sex with someone you are in a relationship with because otherwise you will not handle it very well. Saying that it might be a good thing for you to get f****d over a few times by people to make you learn to not get so attached to other people but then it might not be a good idea because it could completely ruin your confidence like it did for me. Basically you just have to think of th sex side of it and nothing else but that's a lot easier said then done.
This is such a tough question because everyone who experiences it deals with it in different ways. Some people don't get over it, some people do.
All I can say is best of luck and hope someone else can give you better advice.
I don't even have my period yet, so I can't get pregnant, (right?) I don't have a boy friend, so I won't be trying sex yet,
Plus I feel to young.
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There are different kinds of protection - condoms and birth control pills are the most popular, but there are also birth control shots (which both genders can get I believe) and birth control inserts. They pretty much stop you from having kids but you still want to be careful because nothing is 100%. Condoms can tear and birth control can fail.
oh, so would you wanna use all off them? (Quite dumb on this sorry,..)
Heisenberg
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Protection is the use of birth control, commonly used is condoms. Other forms on contraceptives (protection), is the birth control pill, the rod or the ring. You have to talk to your doctor about which one would work best for you. Since you don't have your period yet you want to hold off on most of this. You also shouldn't have sex with the first boyfriend you get and immediately, it's not a needed thing in order to have a successful relationship. It does take a certain level of mental maturity before you should consider having sex. And if you don't like kids that's all the more reason to wait!
Hopefully your school gives you guys sex ed soon, seems like that should have been something to have been addressed sooner. And your body technically isn't ready to have babies before you get your period so no but stranger things have happened. Your period is what causes you to release eggs which are fertilized by your partner: these eggs are released upon the menstruation cycle.
If you don't want to get pregnant, don't have sex. Also, sex is a huge can of worms that should be dealt with appropriately and maturely. If you're not ready for that, then don't do it. Also, become more educated on the subject (but that's why you're here xD). Since you live in NC, the age of legal consent there is 16, so definitely wait until then before deciding to have sex.
Protection is pretty much anything that protects you from unwanted pregnancy and STDs/STIs.
Protection is the barrier method such as condoms and dental dams. (You use dental damns for oral sex, but many don't.) Condoms are very important because not only do they protect against pregnancy, but also from STDs. Birth control pills also prevent pregnancy, but not against STDs. Using both together is best, but all birth control methods are not 100% effective, but it is the best defense we have during sex.
You always want to use a condom since they can protect you from STDs while the pill and other things can't. If someone is on the pill/shot/insert, then they should only take one of those - but always, always use a condom.
Princess Weeb
What's 1,000 minus 7?
I'm a very bitter person, and when I finally decide to push someone out of my life I will just hate them forever.
Due to various past friendships and family problems I find it extremely hard to trust people, and I have to admit I have made people who are close to me stop talking to people who have treated me horribly because I can't take it.
My boyfriend is one of the only people I can trust, and is the person I talk to the most and spend the most time with. I do fully trust him not to do anything horrible to me if we broke up, but I'm still totally unsure. He's never asked me for anything and said he would happily wait like 10 years plus for me to be ready but yeah..
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