Serious Talk on Sex -Keep It Mature! description about a manga now added

[fallenchaoskitten]

I was talking about the double standard with clothing and dress codes. Guys aren't forced to wear pants all the time. They can wear shorts or even walk with no shirt off and no one bats an eye. (And guys can wear short shorts, for the record.)

But the problem is that women's body parts are being oversexualized for stupid reasons and we have to pay for it. Why should I have to cover up my legs when it's hot and I'd be burning in jeans in 90-100 degree weather. That's the thing. We all have legs. We use them to walk around. That's nothing new. Not all women dress up to impress men. They do it for themselves or they want to feel comfortable.

I'm saying that it's stupid for schools to make girls cover up in hot weather, when it can put their health in danger. So at the cost of not "distracting" other guys, girls are forced to wear pants and longer sleeves year round.

... Personally, I don't wanna sit in some seat that some other girl or guy was just sitting at that had their ass hanging out.
Sanitation problem there. >.>

Sorry joined half way through... but it just reminded me of this one slut ((ok... she was a slut I'm not making fun of her clothing chooses. she was the villager bicycle...)) who would always walk around with her ass out. She always got away with it because the male teachers didn't mind. -rolls eyes-

But it is awful the double standards played in socity.

 

[Bearica]

I'm flirty! Apparently. Ok. Off topic.
Umm, what exactly is discharge?

Vaginal discharge is secretions from the vagina of clear mucus. It's normal and nothing to worry about unless it's oddly colored, which is usually a sign of an infection.

 

[fallenchaoskitten]

Sorry I didn't exactly explain myself properly, but for the most part I agree with you. The thing I'm trying to stress is that guys are much more visual than girls which is why that is even an argument in the first place. And yeah I was mainly talking about dress codes.

I have to disagree there.
Women are very perspective to visual things.
Why do you think it takes some hours in the bathroom to get ready? XP
A girl can be distracted by a hot shirtless guy just as much a guy can be distracted by a hot girl in a short skirt.

 

[Princess Weeb]

I'd definitely suggest seeing a different doctor then. If you don't believe them to be looking out for your health and well-being, then don't waste your time seeing them.

I'll try, but my parents will think I am making it up again ahah :")

 

[Bearica]

I'll try, but my parents will think I am making it up again ahah :")

If your parents are opposed to the pill, then sit them down and show them how it could help. A lot of people don't realize that it's not JUST for preventing childbirth, but regulates menstrual cycles and hormones.

 

[fallenchaoskitten]

Vaginal discharge is secretions from the vagina of clear mucus. It's normal and nothing to worry about unless it's oddly colored, which is usually a sign of an infection.

And to add a note.
Women can be so irritated at something that their brain will not recognize being turned on or even an orgasm but the body will.
So, sometimes it is not always clear but more white.
White really is only bad if it is all cottage cheese looking... which is a sign of a yeast infection.

 

[Princess Weeb]

If your parents are opposed to the pill, then sit them down and show them how it could help. A lot of people don't realize that it's not JUST for preventing childbirth, but regulates menstrual cycles and hormones.

They don't oppose the pill, they just think I'm lying.
Like that time I told them I was depressed and they totally ignored me.

jokes on them I have bipolar disorder
what is wrong with some parents ffs

 

[Leanne]

Can I, um, ask about a masturbation here? It is so embarrassing to talk about this for me but I prefer to ask here than anywhere else.

I discovered how to do it when I was 6 (but I didn't know what it was until two years ago...), and it's not like I have done it every day ever since but more like a few times a month at most. My question is, is it true that doing it too much can reduce how much you enjoy real sex later on? I don't know about boys, but it is a bit "trendy" to talk about these things in my school and all the girls say that masturbating too much (how much would be "too much"?) will later ruin sex when you actually start doing it.

I'm so so so sorry if this sounds ignorant. In my school there's no actual sex ed class but rather they dedicate one week of schooling to just that. The person who gave that class was very mean and I didn't dare ask questions, and I'd ask my parents but I feel too embarrassed to tell them I masturbate even when I know they wouldn't have a problem with it.

 

[Bearica]

And to add a note.
Women can be so irritated at something that their brain will not recognize being turned on or even an orgasm but the body will.
So, sometimes it is not always clear but more white.
White really is only bad if it is all cottage cheese looking... which is a sign of a yeast infection.

Yes, the discharge can turn white or yellow when exposed to air - this is perfectly normal also. If it has an odd, gross odor to it or is thick then it is a sign of a yeast infection or a bladder infection.

 

[fallenchaoskitten]

I'll try, but my parents will think I am making it up again ahah :")

I definitely recommend that.
If you have any family members or friends you are comfortable enough with to talk about that stuff with, I would ask them what doctor they go see and try that.

 

[fleaofdeath]

... Personally, I don't wanna sit in some seat that some other girl or guy was just sitting at that had their ass hanging out.
Sanitation problem there. >.>

Omg this. I don't buy girls shorts for this reason. I either wear basketball shorts or long khakis. And that's another thing. Ladies, if you don't like how clothing sexualizes you, DON'T WEAR OR BUY THAT CLOTHING. It only contributes to the problem =/

 

[aetherene]

... Personally, I don't wanna sit in some seat that some other girl or guy was just sitting at that had their ass hanging out.
Sanitation problem there. >.>

Sorry joined half way through... but it just reminded me of this one slut ((ok... she was a slut I'm not making fun of her clothing chooses. she was the villager bicycle...)) who would always walk around with her ass out. She always got away with it because the male teachers didn't mind. -rolls eyes-

But it is awful the double standards played in socity.

There's so much ass that can be spilling out of a pair of shorts. xD Unless I'm not thinking of the right pair of shorts.

Imo, it's only really a sanitation problem if shorts are short enough for vaginal fluids or poop to be coming out, which I don't think I've ever seen. xD

Vaginal discharge is secretions from the vagina of clear mucus. It's normal and nothing to worry about unless it's oddly colored, which is usually a sign of an infection.

Discharge can be clear or cloudy, but as long as it's like a clear or cloudy white it's fine. The consistency and color of cervical mucus is dependent on how fertile your cervix is. It's good to learn to track fertile cycles as a necessary precaution of avoiding pregnancy.

But if the discharge is really yellow (pale yellow is normal), green, or some other odd color AND it has an bad odor or smells like bread, you have an infection and should go see the doctor.

 

[Bearica]

Can I, um, ask about a masturbation here? It is so embarrassing to talk about this for me but I prefer to ask here than anywhere else.

I discovered how to do it when I was 6 (but I didn't know what it was until two years ago...), and it's not like I have done it every day ever since but more like a few times a month at most. My question is, is it true that doing it too much can reduce how much you enjoy real sex later on? I don't know about boys, but it is a bit "trendy" to talk about these things in my school and all the girls say that masturbating too much (how much would be "too much"?) will later ruin sex when you actually start doing it.

Masturbating often definitely doesn't make you enjoy sex later on any less. Masturbating is a good way to become familiar with your body and to learn what makes you feel good vs what makes you feel bad - so if anything, I say masturbating makes sex more enjoyable once you get around to it.

 

[Princess Weeb]

Can I, um, ask about a masturbation here? It is so embarrassing to talk about this for me but I prefer to ask here than anywhere else.

I discovered how to do it when I was 6 (but I didn't know what it was until two years ago...), and it's not like I have done it every day ever since but more like a few times a month at most. My question is, is it true that doing it too much can reduce how much you enjoy real sex later on? I don't know about boys, but it is a bit "trendy" to talk about these things in my school and all the girls say that masturbating too much (how much would be "too much"?) will later ruin sex when you actually start doing it.

I'm so so so sorry if this sounds ignorant. In my school there's no actual sex ed class but rather they dedicate one week of schooling to just that. The person who gave that class was very mean and I didn't dare ask questions, and I'd ask my parents but I feel too embarrassed to tell them I masturbate even when I know they wouldn't have a problem with it.

If anything it would make it better, because you know exactly what makes you happy and what parts of your body are more sensitive than others and what turns you on and that sort of stuff, because it really varies from person to person.

 

[Cariad]

My brother has had erections from looking at fepreight trains... Does he need help, he gets turned on by trains.

 

[aetherene]

Masturbating often definitely doesn't make you enjoy sex later on any less. Masturbating is a good way to become familiar with your body and to learn what makes you feel good vs what makes you feel bad - so if anything, I say masturbating makes sex more enjoyable once you get around to it.

THISTHISTHISTHISTHISTHISTHIS.

The more you know your body and what you like, the better the sex will be. Cause then you can guide your partner into doing it the way you like and you'll enjoy sex better that way.

And on that note, also, don't worry about having an orgasm. It's all about the ride rather than the finish line.

 

[Bearica]

My brother has had erections from looking at fepreight trains... Does he need help, he gets turned on by trains.

It's normal for guys to get erections when not sexually aroused. They can happen from being excited (even in a not sexual way) or relaxed so maybe he just gets really excited about trains. Hormones are weird like that.

 

[fleaofdeath]

Can I, um, ask about a masturbation here? It is so embarrassing to talk about this for me but I prefer to ask here than anywhere else.

I discovered how to do it when I was 6 (but I didn't know what it was until two years ago...), and it's not like I have done it every day ever since but more like a few times a month at most. My question is, is it true that doing it too much can reduce how much you enjoy real sex later on? I don't know about boys, but it is a bit "trendy" to talk about these things in my school and all the girls say that masturbating too much (how much would be "too much"?) will later ruin sex when you actually start doing it.

I'm so so so sorry if this sounds ignorant. In my school there's no actual sex ed class but rather they dedicate one week of schooling to just that. The person who gave that class was very mean and I didn't dare ask questions, and I'd ask my parents but I feel too embarrassed to tell them I masturbate even when I know they wouldn't have a problem with it.

Let me tell you, there's no amount of masturbating that can ruin your first time. It does not reduce how much enjoyment you get later on. It only helps in the long run, honestly =)

 

[Princess Weeb]

My brother has had erections from looking at fepreight trains... Does he need help, he gets turned on by trains.

It's definitely different but people are attracted to different things, they can't help it.
As long as his attraction doesn't threaten his health or the wellbeing of someone else, he's fine.

 

[fallenchaoskitten]

Can I, um, ask about a masturbation here? It is so embarrassing to talk about this for me but I prefer to ask here than anywhere else.

I discovered how to do it when I was 6 (but I didn't know what it was until two years ago...), and it's not like I have done it every day ever since but more like a few times a month at most. My question is, is it true that doing it too much can reduce how much you enjoy real sex later on? I don't know about boys, but it is a bit "trendy" to talk about these things in my school and all the girls say that masturbating too much (how much would be "too much"?) will later ruin sex when you actually start doing it.

I'm so so so sorry if this sounds ignorant. In my school there's no actual sex ed class but rather they dedicate one week of schooling to just that. The person who gave that class was very mean and I didn't dare ask questions, and I'd ask my parents but I feel too embarrassed to tell them I masturbate even when I know they wouldn't have a problem with it.

This is a perfectly normal question. =3

Masturbation can actually help enjoy sex since you will know what you already like and can guide your partner.
The down side to masturbation, is sometimes the "toys" or items you use can make it impossible for your partner to match up you.
I mean, if you use items that are larger than your partner, then it is possible to not feel as satisfied because they won't be able to "hit" all the right parts that the toy could do.

However, if your partner is inexperienced and isn't very good at pleasing you. It can lead to frustration and often thoughts while having sex, "I can do this better myself."
This just leads to not connecting... which is an important thing to have with a sexual partner.

Also, cliterous stimulation plays a role, too.
My friends, and things I have read online, did "too much" stimulation, that it was impossible for them to achieve an orgasm by internal vaginal stimulation alone.
Often times, stopping that part of the masturbation allowed them to orgasm with sole internal vaginal play again within a week or so.