I agree with this. I've been there when it comes to the stress of terraforming. It felt so overwhelming, I didn't even know where to begin and how to begin. I would get creator's block, I would finish one area and didn't know how to flow into the next. And sometimes nothing I did made sense. There were times I wanted to stop playing too but I kept coming back and never gave up on terraforming. Why? I love the game and it really does help me block out all the negativity life keeps throwing my way.
I have major OCD so that contributed to my stress with my island. But I'm glad I hung in there because I created something out of nothing, and I still have plenty of ideas to try out.
It's really all just trial and error with terraforming, but it's SO worth it in the end when you walk around your island and admire your hard work.
		
		
	 
I know terraforming can be stressful, and for various reasons. And I understand your feelings of when it came to terraforming, because I felt the same way, unsure of where to begin. But I wouldn't say it's something crying over or even starting over like the person in the article did. The thing about terraforming is the uncertainty of what to do with it. Some people might already know what they want to do, but some of us don't. In retrospect, I do wish I had an idea of what to create rather than just putting buildings in various plots of land. I think that people should try to plan something when it comes to terraforming.
First, come up with a theme. Most people have done a Zen/Japanese/Urban theme with their islands. I've seen two Hawaiian themed islands, two or three horror themed islands, an island turned completely into a maze, which honestly was stressful just watching that video, and someone made their island a cruise ship. So I think coming up with a theme is important.
Secondly, I would suggest creating paths and measuring the square footage of each building. This is something I started doing before moving residence around, that way it wouldn't be costly. Unfortunately, I have had planned things and then redid them to make things look a bit better. This isn't really directed towards you, but anybody who is starting to terraform, because this kind of helped me out with not stressing too much. I don't hate terraforming, and I would hope that if Nintendo saw comments about terraforming that they would still bring it back in future games. Anyway.
tl;dr: Terraforming can be stressful. Take breaks. Come up with a theme, use paths to plan building locations.