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[Ciaran]

Josh...

It sounds like he's joking just to get a reaction out of you :|
Normal people don't do the *censored.2.0* he does.

 

[Micah]

Well, if he thought Brad Pitt was sexy all those years and had to hide it...don't you think he'd finally be excited to tell you that he thinks he's sexy?

 

[Josh]

Well, if he thought Brad Pitt was sexy all those years and had to hide it...don't you think he'd finally be excited to tell you that he thinks he's sexy?

True, True but it's just acts he's doing. But I seriously think Ciaran is right, That he's just playing with me, I hope.

 

[Psychonaut]

Well, if he thought Brad Pitt was sexy all those years and had to hide it...don't you think he'd finally be excited to tell you that he thinks he's sexy?

True, True but it's just acts he's doing. But I seriously think Ciaran is right, That he's just playing with me, I hope.

did you read my post? :/

it more or less says the same thing. baww.

 

[Josh]

Okay, This is really crazy now. So basically at school I started talking to him again, he was happy about that and I was like okay cool. But now he's actually changed, Since he knows I know he's gay, He can finally act all gay around me like saying to me "Don't you think Brad Pit is sexy?" of course I said know. He knows 100% that I'm straight, I guess he's taking advantages and it's actually getting to me like joking around acting like I'm gay with him.

Now I feel like well, I'm pissed at him. I guess this'll change your minds.

lots of gay guys do that, imo. solely based on the ones that i have been in class with/known, not merely by stereotyping them/coming from a baseless assumption. my friend did the same thing, i usually/always told him "*censored.4.0* i ain't gay, lololol" or something along those lines. he joked back about that, and it wasn't that big of a deal to either of us.

he isn't trying to convert you or make you see brad pitt/whoever he is attracted to the same way he does, he's just joking around.

if he really can't stop it when you tell him how you feel about it, then my opinion is he would have been the same way before he was gay (ex: not stopping jokes when you're offended/hurt/uncomfortable/etc) and in that case, it's your decision as to whether you feel he is really a good/close friend or not.

his sexual preference has nothing to do with his actions.

while gay people have a stereotype that they're all flaming and trying to convert/hump everything they see, not every one of them is like that, and it all depends upon their personality.

if you were to reverse the roles, with him being a "flaming heterosexual", would you feel any more uncomfortable with him talking about how hot/sexy/etc that X movie star is?

He may be joking around but I've told him to stop and said that I'm not homosexual, And I won't be any time soon and that he should stop making me turn to hate them because seriously it makes me feel that all Gay people are like that (It makes me FEEL not saying they are, So read this okay?). But I see where you're coming from.

 

[Ricano]

Okay, This is really crazy now. So basically at school I started talking to him again, he was happy about that and I was like okay cool. But now he's actually changed, Since he knows I know he's gay, He can finally act all gay around me like saying to me "Don't you think Brad Pit is sexy?" of course I said know. He knows 100% that I'm straight, I guess he's taking advantages and it's actually getting to me like joking around acting like I'm gay with him.

Now I feel like well, I'm pissed at him. I guess this'll change your minds.

lots of gay guys do that, imo. solely based on the ones that i have been in class with/known, not merely by stereotyping them/coming from a baseless assumption. my friend did the same thing, i usually/always told him "*censored.4.0* i ain't gay, lololol" or something along those lines. he joked back about that, and it wasn't that big of a deal to either of us.

he isn't trying to convert you or make you see brad pitt/whoever he is attracted to the same way he does, he's just joking around.

if he really can't stop it when you tell him how you feel about it, then my opinion is he would have been the same way before he was gay (ex: not stopping jokes when you're offended/hurt/uncomfortable/etc) and in that case, it's your decision as to whether you feel he is really a good/close friend or not.

his sexual preference has nothing to do with his actions.

while gay people have a stereotype that they're all flaming and trying to convert/hump everything they see, not every one of them is like that, and it all depends upon their personality.

if you were to reverse the roles, with him being a "flaming heterosexual", would you feel any more uncomfortable with him talking about how hot/sexy/etc that X movie star is?

He may be joking around but I've told him to stop and said that I'm not homosexual, And I won't be any time soon and that he should stop making me turn to hate them because seriously it makes me feel that all Gay people are like that (It makes me FEEL not saying they are, So read this okay?). But I see where you're coming from.

So... later? xD

Only joking.
Psychonaut pretty much said it.

 

[Lisathegreat!]

Does he have a boyfriend or anything to talk about his opinions on ... things like that? If not, he probably is just wanting to tell someone, but has no one to tell. If he does, then oh crap.

I guess nowadays, if you hold someone's hand/ hug someone, it's considered losing your virginity haha.

 

[//RUN.exe]

stop being so insecure.

OH NO HE ASKED ME IF A GUY WAS HOT OBVIOUSLY HE WANTS TO DO ME IN THE BUTT...WHICH...I WOULD L- I MEAN WOULDN'T LIKE, AAAH.

 

[Josh]

stop being so insecure.

OH NO HE ASKED ME IF A GUY WAS HOT OBVIOUSLY HE WANTS TO DO ME IN THE BUTT...WHICH...I WOULD L- I MEAN WOULDN'T LIKE, AAAH.

If you actually read it, I said it as an example of what he does. I'm not saying that I'm scared or feared by his acts, Overall I'm saying he's taking me for advantage and It's annoying me.

 

[Micah]

Has he come out to anyone else? Or just you?

 

[//RUN.exe]

stop being so insecure.

OH NO HE ASKED ME IF A GUY WAS HOT OBVIOUSLY HE WANTS TO DO ME IN THE BUTT...WHICH...I WOULD L- I MEAN WOULDN'T LIKE, AAAH.

If you actually read it, I said it as an example of what he does. I'm not saying that I'm scared or feared by his acts, Overall I'm saying he's taking me for advantage and It's annoying me.

right, he's taking advantage of you by being himself around his friend.

on second thought, don't be his friend. he deserves better.

 

[Psychonaut]

Okay, This is really crazy now. So basically at school I started talking to him again, he was happy about that and I was like okay cool. But now he's actually changed, Since he knows I know he's gay, He can finally act all gay around me like saying to me "Don't you think Brad Pit is sexy?" of course I said know. He knows 100% that I'm straight, I guess he's taking advantages and it's actually getting to me like joking around acting like I'm gay with him.

Now I feel like well, I'm pissed at him. I guess this'll change your minds.

lots of gay guys do that, imo. solely based on the ones that i have been in class with/known, not merely by stereotyping them/coming from a baseless assumption. my friend did the same thing, i usually/always told him "*censored.4.0* i ain't gay, lololol" or something along those lines. he joked back about that, and it wasn't that big of a deal to either of us.

he isn't trying to convert you or make you see brad pitt/whoever he is attracted to the same way he does, he's just joking around.

if he really can't stop it when you tell him how you feel about it, then my opinion is he would have been the same way before he was gay (ex: not stopping jokes when you're offended/hurt/uncomfortable/etc) and in that case, it's your decision as to whether you feel he is really a good/close friend or not.

his sexual preference has nothing to do with his actions.

while gay people have a stereotype that they're all flaming and trying to convert/hump everything they see, not every one of them is like that, and it all depends upon their personality.

if you were to reverse the roles, with him being a "flaming heterosexual", would you feel any more uncomfortable with him talking about how hot/sexy/etc that X movie star is?

He may be joking around but I've told him to stop and said that I'm not homosexual, And I won't be any time soon and that he should stop making me turn to hate them because seriously it makes me feel that all Gay people are like that (It makes me FEEL not saying they are, So read this okay?). But I see where you're coming from.

i think you're missing the point.

you're uncomfortable with him doing/saying those things, right?

in this case, you simply need to tell him that you don't want him to do that kind of stuff (purposefully making you feel uncomfortable), and depending on his reaction (if he's sorry/apologizes/just stops, or if he keeps being an *censored.1.3*, frankly) it's your choice whether or not you still want to be his friend, based on his obvious lack of concern for you and your feelings/personal space, whether or not you're a homophobe or perfectly fine with his sexual preference.

it has nothing to do with him being gay, but more with him using that to make you feel uncomfortable.

feelings often cloud the mind, and as such i'll assume you know (aside from your feelings) that not all gay people are like that, regardless of how you feel.

cool.

 

[Sporge27]

If you are one of the first people he has told, yeah he is gonna do stuff like that. Let's face it, thoughts and feelings well up when you can't talk to people about them. He will likely stop eventually, best thing to do I think would be to take it as a joke or just change the subject.

But lets look at it this way, were there any times you talked about liking girls around him? Ever just make the off comment that "she's hot"? It can bug a gay guy just as much if not more, and let's face it there is often a period where someone who is gay just wants to be "normal", and probably faked being straight by making these comments too, and it really just grinds on you. I lost a good friend because he got me on a phone with a girl I said I liked, and I couldn't forgive him. I made up other reasons why, I suppose he was at a party I wasn't invited to that night, and yeah I don't like my secrets being spread around. But whatever. I still feel kind of bad about it, but it really did hurt me, and I felt betrayed.

I can still poke fun at straight guys from time to time, but it never means anything, it is a joke.

 

[YouPieToo?]

Like Ciaran said he might try to give you monkey aidsss and has buttsmeck with you because you a man friend of his

 

[Deleted User]

i think u should turn gay and go out with him

 

[OmegaMan]

Thanks guys, I may sound like I'm discriminating gay people but it's just because I've actually not met or seen one in real life (TV doesn't count). I guess I'll be his friend, he has helped me a lot.

Thanks a lot.

I understand, I think gay hand holding is a bit weird.

 

[Deleted User]

y?

 

[OmegaMan]

i think u should turn gay and go out with him

What? o.0

 

[Lisathegreat!]

TROLL! TRRRROOOLLL

 

[OmegaMan]

TROLL! TRRRROOOLLL

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